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Lacy, 52
United States, Connecticut, Norwich

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About Me

Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It means that you've decided to look beyond the imperfections.?.... I believe this is the part that I am supposed to be witty and charming. I love adventure as much as I love being around the house. I have a passion for travel, cooking, being active and outdoors. I work out and am working very hard to go into my older years hanging on to that ?you can?t be in your 50?s? look. That does not mean I am vane, it just means I try to live a healthy lifestyle. I am super active and love the outdoors... This last year has been pretty exciting, I feel like I have grown up so much, became very grounded. Physically and mentally! Seems kind of odd to say that at 52 but it is so true. We are never too old to change into who and what we want to be. I am a mom to 2 fine young men that I'm very proud of. Now that my boys are older it has been a real transition getting to do a few things that are not "kid orientated". My sons are such a big part of my life, it is just the dynamics change as they get on with the next chapter of theirs. Now that I am playing my back 9, it is time to really do all the things I have dreamed of doing that I have not already done. It would be nice to have that person that one wants to grow old with to do those things with. I know you must have a list of things you would love to do too!I have been blessed with a wonderful career that allows me the freedom to work from any place I would like. I'm not into drama or games period! I am very clear on who I am, what I want and the importance of confidence, honesty, core values and flexibility. I am just me and as we all would like to think, we are that special me for that special someone! I am not into the bar scene at all! I do not drink, do drugs or smoke or find hanging out in a night club to be a good time! I think there are much better things to do with our time and our bodies.... It's a bit difficult to take a 3 dimensional life and put it in the 2 dimensional words of a profile. The best way to find out how simplistic or complex an individual is would be by getting to form your own opinion. Nothing I write will change what that face to face experience will offer. About the one I'm looking for... I am looking for someone who can rock a great pair of jeans as well as be dynamic in a suit or relax in sweats. Someone who is sound, honest and passionate and has a solid relationship with god. did I happen to mention emotionally available? And, have a great sense of humor! Have you learned and let go from your previous relationships? I sure would hope at this age we all have! Someone who believes that true love still exists.... Are you someone who is not into serial dating or just looking for a quickie? If you are looking for someone who is perfect, I am not it... I am 5' 9" and super curvy and just a regular gal! All my pics are VERY recent and I do not know how to use photo shop! Life is too busy and too short to have such little value for our most precious commodity that can not be replenished... TIME! I bet you read that in most of the profiles you have already gone thru. Funny how that works. If you are passionate, driven, positive, looking for a real one on one relationship, not into games or serial dating and have great balance between high energy and relaxing, confident, don't smoke and are grounded with who you are, what you do, what you want and where you want to be, then please contact me. I have the same to offer to the right partner and would love to share some special time together.I really believe you cannot choose love, love will choose you! Chemistry is not forced, it just happens. It is all about the company!

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    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Geneva from Norwich | Woman | 52 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I don't like all the men I have met, but... I am not interested in most all Men and perhaps that is what makes those few unique individuals that I do connect with all the more special. About myself -I am always looking forward to tomorrow, I am confident but I sure know my shortcomings too~~I definitely know how to admit when I am wrong.I have found that there are so many things I Love to go and do, I wish there were more hours in my days, But more than that...Someone to share those things with me.I am very fortunate to have had a lot of diverse friends throughout my life so far, I am very passionate about things that interest me. When I care about something or Someone, you will definitely know it.. I can be restless, analytical, and opinionated. I am not offended by a dirty joke, and I am sure I remember a few myself.. I Love to laugh, Life is too short to be So serious and uptight. I have been single over 8 years now so I have become very Independent, But sure would Love to let someone take some of that away:) Variety is the spice of life, there are so many things that I want to do in my lifetime, Someone to share those things with would be more than a Dream Come True !!!~~ I Love to Cook, Write, Dream and get my hands dirty once in while,I get so much Joy out of watching flowers grow and Birds eat. Taking walks and smelling a Sweet smelling flower, watching the Sun Rise or Set.. But most of All I Want Someone who enjoys the same and is ready to also start enjoying the same with someone. I want to Love again and Be Loved Again.:)......Someone to Inspire and Be Inspired By. I have chosen to try on-line dating again, I am not a woman that likes to spend a lot of time texting or talking on the phone.I think if there is a common interest there, we should meet and see if there is a connection and take it from there. I hope that if you are interested you would "ONLY" contact me if we share some of the same ways of thinking. If your a man that has just come out of a bad relationship or a divorce, I ask that you PLEASE pass me by. I know that sounds harsh But I know from experience that you need "Time" behind you after a break up, if only to figure out what went wrong..I know there are no guarantees in anything we do in life but If I am lucky enough to find that Special Man in my life, " I want it to be the last for us both". I am not a religious person, But I am full of Faith & that is where I draw my strength from, I ask that we share in the same Belief as there are so many to choose from..if you even want one. As 4 me..There will always be 1" just " + One! The only "One" Way 4 me and I will never change that about myself. I would never try to change the man I fall in Love with, I know so many failed relationships where one of them just wouldn't be like the other wanted them to be..Isn't that Crazy? I would not have you any other way but they way that made me Love you :)) I am the same person everyday, I wake up in the same body and I act the same..!" if it was a bad day ".:) *~~~HONESTY UP FRONT WITH ONE ANOTHER~~~*!.:)I have been a wife, a mother, a best friend, a daughter and a Struggling single Mother. I have done the Very Best I know how at being all of these things, and I hope to be a lot of other things before I am done with this life. You will be the one that makes me smile when your away from me, You can be Passionate and Spontaneous and You want to love someone as deeply as I do. You don't live in the past, even though you have one, "we all do". You look to the future with Great Expectations yet to come, Optimistic about everything. You can even smile if you forgot your umbrella on a rainy day:). You are content with yourself and you sometimes have a few surprises in store for that Special someone in your life, and she never has to wonder if you love her..She will just know..I am Looking So Forward To Meeting You 3The Best of Luck to All who are on this site for the Right Reasons... I think we can both agree on this together, I do Love a good Coffee and think it is a great public place to meet for the first time, but open on this..

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  • Marcie from Norwich | Woman | 51 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    A word to the truly interested: If you can't take the time to get to know me outside of the bedroom, you will never get to know me inside it........***Hi there and thanks for checking me out. I am fun and optimistic and uplifting. I enjoy encouraging people and I believe that others will respond to you based on how you treat them. I am currently running two businesses and I hope to be able to give one of them up in the next year so I can have more "fun time." I have been working way too hard and its time I had some fun and I'm ready to explore this big beautiful world we have been blessed with.Working out and living a healthy lifestyle is important to me and if you want to get close to me it will be important to you as well. We can't carry on this hot romance if we're in the cardiac unit now can we? ;)My family, my friends and my Christian faith are the most important things in my life and a man who holds his family in such high regard can easily capture my heart.I am looking for a man who knows what it means to be a man. A man is strong and courageous and wise and knows how to handle a woman. I can be a handful when I want to be and I want a man who can give me "that look" the one that makes me want to curl up in his lap and put my arms around his neck. If a woman has ever done that to you before then you know what I'm talking about!I love it when a man compliments me and I'm not selfish, I will compliment you too. When I'm feeling you it will be my sincere pleasure to shower you with praise and adulation. I will absolutely revel in your masculinity.I won't chase you or message you first as I don't feel it is becoming for a woman to do so. If I know you are pursuing me I may however slow down to a jog and let you catch me.... if I like you. :)I am not without fault and may make some mistakes but I know how to talk things out calmly and how to say sorry. I know your not perfect either but if we both put forth our best effort then together we can come as close as it gets. Just maybe we can even achieve greatness.I like a man who is successful or who is at least trying to be. I like a man with goals and objectives and who has plans for his life.I like a man with character and morals.I like a man with a heart for the needy.If you read all of this then God bless your heart sweetie and for those of you who are feeling like life is passing you by and that your love is never coming,Some wise words spoken by a friend:It is not a race, and when the timing is right your love will come. Everytime a date goes bad or a relationship fades I hold on to hope. Each wrong person brings you that much closer to the right one. You don't know where they are, you don't know when their coming but your love is out there. Your love is coming. I truly believe that. And when they come it will be worth it all.Don't give up! :) On a magic carpet ride.....:)

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  • Toni from Norwich | Woman | 53 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Looking for someone that is fun,loving,Sincere,Honest,Classy and EdgyHardwork and success are important to me.Love the beachy,wine tastings,art festivals,people watching,concerts,spas,walking,jogging,cooking and entertaining in my home,travel,dancing,dinning,boating,riding bikes,fishing football games,basketball gsmes and tailgating ....!! Go Heat, Go DolphinsI am independent and self succifient looking to share my life.Friends and family are important to me.I like all kinds of music but love classic rock and roll!!Love ssunnydayz or rainy dayz with someone special!Rides with the top down (but not off :)Like all kinds of food especially seafood love sushiChampagne and dark chocolate strawberries.Love my Shih tzuI can dress with jeans or be ready for a black tie affair.Not looking 4 a serial dater just someone looking for there better half,friend,lover and partnerLooking for guy to devolp a relationship with not just for a date looking 4 my last date Please have a recent photo,physical attraction is an important to me meet for drinks and appetizers see if we connect and go from there.

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