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Neva, 52
United States, Connecticut, Norwich

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About Me

I am a quirky, artsy kind of gal- a minimalist,. I believe in Gandhi's saying "Be the change you want to see in the world." I strive everyday to be better than I was the day before, I am an animal advocate, a lover of all things (well most) that God created, but I can see the beauty in everything. I believe in God and the law of attraction--I don't believe they are mutually exclusive. I adore modern country music and the wonderful stories it tells. It is such happy music for the most part. I love the Ballet. A good ballet can bring me to tears. Singing and Dancing are things that I love to do. Sing with me at a Karaoke Bar and I will be your best friend for life. I'm not a sports fan, never will be. It's not from lack of trying. I just find it incredibly boring and pointless. I am going to school full time right nowl to relearn television production and film production now that everything has gone digital but even when I realize my dream it will never top being a mother. If you could judge a person by the child they raised then I am a very successful woman. One of my favorite stories is adapted from the star thrower it is called the Starfish Story and it pretty much sums up the way I feel about things. We are here on this earth for a reason--to help our fellow earthmates be they human or animal. I have a tattoo of a starfish with the word dance under it--it suits me.I'm an active petition signer for all things animal rights. I have and will never go to a circus because of the animal abuse and for heaven's sakes if you are a hunter please don't contact me. Intelligence turns me on. Not the type of person that screams , "I'm intelligent" but rather the type of person that is understated in his intelligence. He is an amazing inspirational, spiritual speaker.Comics speak to me. Of all the performing arts I have the most respect for dancers, and comics. Dancer's because they so beautifully use their body's to tell a story, comics because they write their own material,usually based on life experiences, and they perform it. They run the risk everytime they are onstage of not being funny. It is so hard to make someone laugh but they do it with seemingly ease.Every where I go I speak to people. Many times people come up to me and tell me their life stories. I am that girl--that empathetic ear. I'm in search of that guy. The one that goes into a room full of strangers and comes out with some new friends. I'm looking for a lover of life, someone who believes that we can change the world for the better one good deed at a time. A quirky guy, not an average guy. Not a guy that starts his profile out by saying it's so hard to write about myself. So if you are a fellow toddler to the beat of a different drum, an extrovert, an all around good person, and definetly not boring please write to me and I mean write. Don't just say hello, or nice weather--wow me with your opening line. Somewhere we can chat because if you aren't a good conversationalist you probably aren't the one for me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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