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Neva, 52
United States, Connecticut, Norwich

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About Me

I am a quirky, artsy kind of gal- a minimalist,. I believe in Gandhi's saying "Be the change you want to see in the world." I strive everyday to be better than I was the day before, I am an animal advocate, a lover of all things (well most) that God created, but I can see the beauty in everything. I believe in God and the law of attraction--I don't believe they are mutually exclusive. I adore modern country music and the wonderful stories it tells. It is such happy music for the most part. I love the Ballet. A good ballet can bring me to tears. Singing and Dancing are things that I love to do. Sing with me at a Karaoke Bar and I will be your best friend for life. I'm not a sports fan, never will be. It's not from lack of trying. I just find it incredibly boring and pointless. I am going to school full time right nowl to relearn television production and film production now that everything has gone digital but even when I realize my dream it will never top being a mother. If you could judge a person by the child they raised then I am a very successful woman. One of my favorite stories is adapted from the star thrower it is called the Starfish Story and it pretty much sums up the way I feel about things. We are here on this earth for a reason--to help our fellow earthmates be they human or animal. I have a tattoo of a starfish with the word dance under it--it suits me.I'm an active petition signer for all things animal rights. I have and will never go to a circus because of the animal abuse and for heaven's sakes if you are a hunter please don't contact me. Intelligence turns me on. Not the type of person that screams , "I'm intelligent" but rather the type of person that is understated in his intelligence. He is an amazing inspirational, spiritual speaker.Comics speak to me. Of all the performing arts I have the most respect for dancers, and comics. Dancer's because they so beautifully use their body's to tell a story, comics because they write their own material,usually based on life experiences, and they perform it. They run the risk everytime they are onstage of not being funny. It is so hard to make someone laugh but they do it with seemingly ease.Every where I go I speak to people. Many times people come up to me and tell me their life stories. I am that girl--that empathetic ear. I'm in search of that guy. The one that goes into a room full of strangers and comes out with some new friends. I'm looking for a lover of life, someone who believes that we can change the world for the better one good deed at a time. A quirky guy, not an average guy. Not a guy that starts his profile out by saying it's so hard to write about myself. So if you are a fellow toddler to the beat of a different drum, an extrovert, an all around good person, and definetly not boring please write to me and I mean write. Don't just say hello, or nice weather--wow me with your opening line. Somewhere we can chat because if you aren't a good conversationalist you probably aren't the one for me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Country Walking German South American Sport
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  • Bettie from Norwich | Woman | 52 years old | Gemini
    Bettie

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    First I would like to say, I have seen so many profiles on here where you guys are bashing women, saying they are liars, cheaters and many other things. Have you ever stopped to think that maybe you are the reason for that? I mean after all I have been lied to by almost every single guy I have met and to beat it all they don't even have enough comman courtesy to say they don't want to see me anymore, they just disappear and I never hear from them again. And another thing, I have sent several messages to guys on here only to not even get a reply, weather if be "yes I would like to chat or sorry not interested" why is everybody such an ass on here? And YOU have the room to bash women.......I think not!!!!! Maybe you should take a good long look in the mirror and see the kind of person you are, then maybe you will see why women are the way they are!!!Now with that being said.........Seems most guys these days are looking for that little barbie doll.......Sorry but that's not me. I'm just me......I may not be the most beautiful woman but I do have a good heart and I am easy to get along with. I am very independent, so therefore I don't need a man to take care of me. I want a man who appreciates the fact that I am capable of taking care of myself. I don't want to be alone but I will NOT settle with just anyone that I don't care about or someone who just wants to be with me when they're bored and can't find anyone else, too many people just settle these days..........I like to have fun with my family and friends. I like to laugh and have fun, like for everyone around me to laugh. I am easy to get along with, and right about now you're thinking "yeah right" well why don't you climb down off of your hollier than thou pedestal and find out........I'm not the type that thinks I have to be out on the town every night, I enjoy cuddling watching a movie or just talking. I enjoy camping and sitting around a campfire with a nice cold beer listening to music. I am an honest person and would like the same in the person I'm with. Hate drama and game players. Why does everybody have to play games? Life is short, we need to make the most of it because unfortunately we only get one shot.......Oh and I prefer someone 6'1 or taller. Sorry just my preference. If there is anything else you would like to know.......just ask, also if I should send you a message I would greatly appreciate if you would be man enough to say you aren't interested in chatting with me *** either *** message or saying 1 thing back to me and never anything else....Smesh is that too damn much to ask for........I wish everyone the best of luck on here. Whatever we decide to do. Probably somewhere we can talk and get to know each other.

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  • Deloris from Norwich | Woman | 51 years old | Virgo
    Deloris

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Looking for someone to hang out with and get to know before progressing to fast . I'm a people person and can talk to just about anyone . Love to travel to new and old places and spend time with family and friends . Im not a TV watcher , but I do like movies and a good book . I don't really care for the bar scene but occasionally / rarely will do ! I love the water , beach, lakes and pools . I'm spontaneous and have a silly sense of humor at times . I like all kinds of music , except Rap or hip hop :/ not interested in "head games" or dating "players " . Life is too short and time is too valuable for that . If interested , give me a shout . If not , good luck in your search :)) Update .... Please do not message me if you are younger than 40 years old and I only say that age BC I'm finding most men my age about half dead . Not interested in a lazy man or pervs !!!! Coffee , dinner out or a movie might be a fun first . Comedian club or live music .

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  • Merle from Norwich | Woman | 54 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Oh geez, so new at this. I came from a background of working very hard - started working at a horse stable at age 11, pitching manure to earn my first horse (at 50 cents an hour). Worked my way up to training, showing, etc horses. Love horses. Unfortunately, no longer involved but wish I were. I work in Mutual Funds now at a bank. Would love to meet someone who is casual, loving, likes the outdoors or a quiet night at home, and travel. I like anything from having a couple beers with friends around a camp fire, to enjoying a great meal on the beach in the Caribbean. I enjoy drawing (art, horses mainly of course), music - still trying to learn guitar - lol. Love obscure books, great poetry. Love to laugh, am an excellent cook. Family comes first (love my nieces & nephews to pieces). I have been moved deeply by volunteering for Habitat for Humanity, the Veterans Home, and other organizations. Gentlemen preferred. :-) Update (Feb. '***I have had a great amount of wonderful guys favorite me or want to meet me on this site. Would love to meet up, but need to take a time out for a couple months. Just found out I have cancer & need to go through treatment for a couple months. I am in a positive frame of mind & know I can kick the big C in the teeth. So fellas, give me some time off & try again in a couple months. Thank you for your interest!Apr. 27, ***doing pretty well, may have that blasted cancer licked! Just need to work up my strength & get back to normal! :-)June ***LIFE IS GOOD!! ;***Still doing fabulous! Cancer free! Must say though - if you want to contact me, you must have a picture, I will not answer without one. Thanks! Maybe a sports bar? Just be casual & see if we connect.

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