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Bettie, 52
United States, Connecticut, Norwich

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First I would like to say, I have seen so many profiles on here where you guys are bashing women, saying they are liars, cheaters and many other things. Have you ever stopped to think that maybe you are the reason for that? I mean after all I have been lied to by almost every single guy I have met and to beat it all they don't even have enough comman courtesy to say they don't want to see me anymore, they just disappear and I never hear from them again. And another thing, I have sent several messages to guys on here only to not even get a reply, weather if be "yes I would like to chat or sorry not interested" why is everybody such an ass on here? And YOU have the room to bash women.......I think not!!!!! Maybe you should take a good long look in the mirror and see the kind of person you are, then maybe you will see why women are the way they are!!!Now with that being said.........Seems most guys these days are looking for that little barbie doll.......Sorry but that's not me. I'm just me......I may not be the most beautiful woman but I do have a good heart and I am easy to get along with. I am very independent, so therefore I don't need a man to take care of me. I want a man who appreciates the fact that I am capable of taking care of myself. I don't want to be alone but I will NOT settle with just anyone that I don't care about or someone who just wants to be with me when they're bored and can't find anyone else, too many people just settle these days..........I like to have fun with my family and friends. I like to laugh and have fun, like for everyone around me to laugh. I am easy to get along with, and right about now you're thinking "yeah right" well why don't you climb down off of your hollier than thou pedestal and find out........I'm not the type that thinks I have to be out on the town every night, I enjoy cuddling watching a movie or just talking. I enjoy camping and sitting around a campfire with a nice cold beer listening to music. I am an honest person and would like the same in the person I'm with. Hate drama and game players. Why does everybody have to play games? Life is short, we need to make the most of it because unfortunately we only get one shot.......Oh and I prefer someone 6'1 or taller. Sorry just my preference. If there is anything else you would like to know.......just ask, also if I should send you a message I would greatly appreciate if you would be man enough to say you aren't interested in chatting with me *** either *** message or saying 1 thing back to me and never anything else....Smesh is that too damn much to ask for........I wish everyone the best of luck on here. Whatever we decide to do. Probably somewhere we can talk and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Jazz Chinese Mexican Portuguese Turkish Adult Martial Arts Western Archery Nascar
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  • Geneva from Norwich | Woman | 52 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I don't like all the men I have met, but... I am not interested in most all Men and perhaps that is what makes those few unique individuals that I do connect with all the more special. About myself -I am always looking forward to tomorrow, I am confident but I sure know my shortcomings too~~I definitely know how to admit when I am wrong.I have found that there are so many things I Love to go and do, I wish there were more hours in my days, But more than that...Someone to share those things with me.I am very fortunate to have had a lot of diverse friends throughout my life so far, I am very passionate about things that interest me. When I care about something or Someone, you will definitely know it.. I can be restless, analytical, and opinionated. I am not offended by a dirty joke, and I am sure I remember a few myself.. I Love to laugh, Life is too short to be So serious and uptight. I have been single over 8 years now so I have become very Independent, But sure would Love to let someone take some of that away:) Variety is the spice of life, there are so many things that I want to do in my lifetime, Someone to share those things with would be more than a Dream Come True !!!~~ I Love to Cook, Write, Dream and get my hands dirty once in while,I get so much Joy out of watching flowers grow and Birds eat. Taking walks and smelling a Sweet smelling flower, watching the Sun Rise or Set.. But most of All I Want Someone who enjoys the same and is ready to also start enjoying the same with someone. I want to Love again and Be Loved Again.:)......Someone to Inspire and Be Inspired By. I have chosen to try on-line dating again, I am not a woman that likes to spend a lot of time texting or talking on the phone.I think if there is a common interest there, we should meet and see if there is a connection and take it from there. I hope that if you are interested you would "ONLY" contact me if we share some of the same ways of thinking. If your a man that has just come out of a bad relationship or a divorce, I ask that you PLEASE pass me by. I know that sounds harsh But I know from experience that you need "Time" behind you after a break up, if only to figure out what went wrong..I know there are no guarantees in anything we do in life but If I am lucky enough to find that Special Man in my life, " I want it to be the last for us both". I am not a religious person, But I am full of Faith & that is where I draw my strength from, I ask that we share in the same Belief as there are so many to choose from..if you even want one. As 4 me..There will always be 1" just " + One! The only "One" Way 4 me and I will never change that about myself. I would never try to change the man I fall in Love with, I know so many failed relationships where one of them just wouldn't be like the other wanted them to be..Isn't that Crazy? I would not have you any other way but they way that made me Love you :)) I am the same person everyday, I wake up in the same body and I act the same..!" if it was a bad day ".:) *~~~HONESTY UP FRONT WITH ONE ANOTHER~~~*!.:)I have been a wife, a mother, a best friend, a daughter and a Struggling single Mother. I have done the Very Best I know how at being all of these things, and I hope to be a lot of other things before I am done with this life. You will be the one that makes me smile when your away from me, You can be Passionate and Spontaneous and You want to love someone as deeply as I do. You don't live in the past, even though you have one, "we all do". You look to the future with Great Expectations yet to come, Optimistic about everything. You can even smile if you forgot your umbrella on a rainy day:). You are content with yourself and you sometimes have a few surprises in store for that Special someone in your life, and she never has to wonder if you love her..She will just know..I am Looking So Forward To Meeting You 3The Best of Luck to All who are on this site for the Right Reasons... I think we can both agree on this together, I do Love a good Coffee and think it is a great public place to meet for the first time, but open on this..

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  • Nora from Norwich | Woman | 55 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I enjoy the outdoors, socializing with friends and spontaneous adventures. I am not an exercise fanatic, but I like to participate in athletic activities. I like animals and own horses and cats. I enjoy a variety of music ranging from tenor Andre Boccelli to Kid Rock. I am comfortable in jeans at the local hangout but also enjoy dressing up for a night on the town. A farm girl at heart, I drive tractors and skid loaders and not afraid to get my hands dirty. I would describe myself as forthright, genuine and self assured. I enjoy casual conversation but can appreciate intellectual discourse. I am modern thinking but appreciate old school values and courtesies. nothing wrong with a man opening a door for a lady! I have my own business which involves managing and coordinating multiple events. My education focused on math and sciences but my career is highly physical and management oriented. I am looking for a person that is honest, intelligent, responsible, socially adept, financially and emotionally sound. It is important to me that a person takes care of their physical health and maintains a moderate level of fitness. Ultimately I am at the stage where I am trying to step back from my work and allow more time to enjoy life - hopefully with someone! I would like to travel abroad as well as in the U.S. I enjoy warm weather destinations in the winter... Not a fan of the bitter cold winters! I would prefer to keep it simple ...maybe meet for a drink. If we hit it off, we can go from there and perhaps go to dinner. If no connection is present, we can go our separate ways. I do like to chat by phone first. A lot can be determined in terms of personality in a phone conversation before committing to a meeting.

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  • Minnie from Norwich | Woman | 52 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I\'m competitive and overachieve on most everything I do. I would rather know that I tried than not trying at all. Looking for a life partner, who can make our relationships diverse and not boring.

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