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Opal, 54
United States, Connecticut, Milford

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About Me

I am just getting comfortable here- I am new to online dating. I love to laugh, be outdoors, travel and to try new experiences. Beaches, boats and water all make me very happy. Photography, music and exercise are three of my passions. I love movies and popcorn is not optional. I love football, (mostly pro and mainly The Bears, but college ball is fun too) tailgating and game day parties. I love hockey and I had a blast watching The Blackhawks incredible season. My daughter played club and then Varsity soccer for many years, and I really love the sport. I like neighborhood festivals, Ravinia and the Lakefront.I would love to find someone to teach me how to golf and play tennis. I enjoy live music of any kind at any type of venue. Ok, maybe not any kind, I'm not a big country music fan, except Rascal Flatts. I love new music as much as classic rock and Motown. I enjoy ballet, if anyone out there is willing to go with me. I am independent and happy with me. I enjoy cooking with others, but not so much alone. Cooking is a team sport. I like spontaneous picnics and dinner parties, not overworked or overwrought, just for the fun of entertaining friends.I have 2 beautiful children from my former long term marriage, both live in different states. They are pure Joy. I don't include photos of them, I'm on the dating site, not them! Family is very important to me. I am trying to keep my matches under a 30 minute drive from me; commutes are not great for a relationship, it's very important to me! Also, if you don't have a photo, I will not respond to messages or meet me requests. Inner confidence, kindness, a healthy, happy inner child, a great sense of humor and a genuine and beautiful smile are qualities that I look for in a partner. Make me laugh and bring a sense of wonder and optimism to life, that sounds like a good recipe for the future and a happy long term relationship .Enough about me, what would you like to share with me?--Attention--Any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Reggae German Korean Middle Eastern Thai Animation Music Sci-Fi
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