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Lolita, 52
United States, Connecticut, Milford

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well let's see hummmm, I am a mother of two beautiful and very smart grown girls. Them being in my life has been the biggest blessing to me. In my last profile I guess I was a little vague so I will try to fill in the gaps for all of you who have previously read my profile and educate those who have not read anything about me. I am a dog groomer by trade, part time right now, hoping to open a shop after the first of the year. Most of my equiptment was recently stolen in a break in so i'm slowly putting stuff back together. I recently moved back to MO from the sunny state of FL. That is the place where I loved the most. Honestly, I really don't care a whole lot for cold weather and I guess you could say i'm an outdoors kinda gal. Even with this extreme heat we are currently experiancing I would rather be outside doing anything than inside! I love to swim, fish (yes I can bait my own hook lol)although, I will most always throw them back if I catch them. I love nature and love to go camping,hiking,bike riding and boating (anything on or in the water and outside is good for me!). I would love someday to travel to exotic places and maybe live somewhere that's always warm with a beach hehe. I love animals,I even hand raised a baby squirrel last year that comes down everyday out of the trees to eat from my hand! If you don't share the same love of animals as I do PLEASE DO NOT REPLY to my profile! It just would'nt work. Dogs are my profession so there is no way around them.Some pet peeves I have with some of the men I have corresponded with on this site have been over eagerness lol. Acting as if they would self destruct if the first meeting didn't happen immediatly! Yes, i am fully aware of the Mayan calendar ending date is Dec. ***but a little patience PLEASE lol. I am a little old fashioned in that I want to get to know YOU at least a tiny bit before we meet and potentially start dating or worse case end up as just friends. UUUUHHHHH...NEVER EVER GONNA HAPPEN lol no offence to those evening romantic dinners but there will be plenty of time for that if we have a mutual attraction on the first meeting.I am really pretty easy going and honest. That is really a biggie for me so if you cannot or won't tell the truth, Please no replies!!! Sorry I HATE that type of music (maybe I wouldn't if I could understand what they were saying)I don't listen to anything I need an interperter for lol Lots of people think it is very important that we share common interests in EVERYTHING well I disagree, some opposite interests are a good thing. How boring would we all be if we were the same, I really don't want to date myself and I am looking for fun and adventure and I am certainly willing to try different things even if I think I may not like or be interested in it!I do read some and I love the programs on the History channel, animal planet and Discovery channel. Forgot trutv.I love learning and I know you have heard it said "I learn something new everyday" well I really do lolI am love meeting new people and don't have a problem with crowds. I don't hang out in bars but I do go out with friends ocasionaly and have a few drinks. I am just as comfortable at a formal event as I am BBQ'ing at the river.I enjoy anything and everything associated with the unknown (I'm not a freak or into weird stuff)but the possibiliy of someday, someone getting actual proof of things that arn't supposed to exist,well intriques the hell out of me to say the least. Well, I didn't mean to write my first book on here lol but thanks for reading! I think the firt meeting should be where we are both comfortable and if the connection just isn't there, we can just talk for a bit and then walk away, no harm no foul. Fair enough? The first date IF we do connect, is open for really anything (except like I said before, creepy out of the way meetings in dark places yikes!)You suggest something and if it sounds good i'm all for it. Dinner, or drinks where we can get aquainted better but not somewhere we have to read lips and do sign language because the music is sooooo loud. Horseback riding and a picnic, a long ride on your motorcycle, or just the day spent walking and sitting in the park are just a few of the things that would be fine with me. I'm really open to most any suggestions EXCEPT...those suggestions where it's all about SEX! PLease don't ask for anything except a hug on the first date and keep your octopuse arms and roaming hands to yourself please I'm not your toy (yet) and it's not respectful thank you!Thanks again for viewing my profile and hope to hear from you soon!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian Greek Japanese Middle Eastern Thai Nascar Soccer / Football
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