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Melanie, 51

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About Me

I've dated off on and off for a few years and have met some very nice men but I believe it may be time for a "Game Changer" to take things to the next level. I am looking for a solid connection intellectually, sexually and socially. What are you looking for?If you are articulate, ambitious, s/dwm, non smoker, social drinker, generally clean shaven or well groomed), between the ages of ***Do you have time on your hands to share with a new female friend? A little about me....I'm a dwf, 50, blonde w/ blue eyes (as you see from my pic). I'm active, intelligent, witty, career oriented, stable, fairly drama free and very particular about men. I lead a full life, I'm independent however still need a little attention. If you like what you have read and want to chat either by ***, text or IM let me know. I know physical chemistry is important in any relationship and meeting for coffee or a drink would be critical. I am not looking for a pen pal. If you are interested in learning more, please get in touch with me. If not, I wish you all the best in your search. I'm open to just about anything but might suggest a cup of coffee at a cozy coffee shop or maybe something more involved like a sporting event, wine tasting or "cocktails at the conservatory".

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Alyce

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I'm a empty nester who works hard and plays that way as well! I spend very little time at the computer and unlike the latest generation, my words per minute at the smart phone keyboard would not win me any awards; so don't expect fast responses to *** texts! :) I love culture, learning, and driving (as in golf)! I can't really claim I like to golf, because I've actually never made it past the driving range.... I love making memories, love to laugh, and I especially love doing both with my family.....not very easy to fit me into a box; I'm a shape shifter. ;) But that's not to say I don't have my values, and convictions on certain issues...Oh contrare', I can debate with the best of them and in the end (despite my passion), can and respectfully appreciate others opinions and views. I believe respect is the key to long term relationships whether as friends, partners, parents, children, or spouses. Emotional love may eb and flow, but respect, when constant, serves as a foundation...Like most women, just when you think you've figured out what I want, it'll change. I'm flexible in my thinking, yet committed to my beliefs. Or whatever planet is in between? I don't like to waste hours of my time shopping, cooking is not my forte (although I'm getting into healthy cooking a bit lately and really do like doing it with a partner), and I'd much rather take on the challenge of finding things myself versus asking for help. :) On the other hand, I like having my door opened, I admit to a time or two of saying "what are you thinking?", I like feeling attractive and getting dressed up, and I LOVE SHOES! I like riding a new trail and ending up in a completely different area than I had intended. I like horse camping with friends, homemade ice cream, summer evening bike rides, a hike in the foothills, and family stories. I've learned life is too short to sweat the small stuff and I choose to enjoy all the blessings life has to offer. I suppose I should also mention that while I am extremely flattered by flirts and *** interesting and attractive potentials from all over the country, the reality is (in most cases) my family makes out of state relocation a fairly limited possibility. AND, I'm the worst pen pal ever.... Typically I'm t this site from my phone. So on that note, I'm off and running......Happy trails!, people watching downtown, or any other new and exciting venture that allows for both entertainment and conversation. BSU football game either live or at a pub. Shakespeare Festival, little league baseball game (if you know someone playing), bike ride, or grocery shopping for your last minute trip out of town. :) Anything can be made interesting and fun with the right person....

  • Harriett

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Hello, A little bit about me and what I'm looking for. I am a young 51. I'm an educated, intelligent, pretty/attractive professional with an established successful career. I'm inspired by beautiful tranquil beaches and glitzy city lights. I'm as comfortable in torn jeans and flip flops as I am in designer suites and heels. A cold beer, glass of red wine or a chilled martini, just depends on my surroundings and company. I would say I'm more informal then I am formal. I live a clean, healthy, active, comfortable lifestyle. I am considered fashionable and stylish. I am confident, articulate, and warm with a loving, nurturing heart. (No low self-esteem here). Also, extremely trust worthy and responsible with a great sense of humor. I am both sophisticated and silly at times. I am both emotionally and financially independent. I'm grounded, balanced and completely "sane" :)I have many hobbies, far to many to list here in this forum, better left for a getting to know you conversation. However, a few consist of cooking, photography, kayaking, and biking. I'm also an avid reader in addition to having an interest in fast, sporty convertible cars. I hope to find someone who is a gentlemen and genuine. It's most important you be honest, kind, with a gentle soul. I tend to be most attracted to larger build/husky men (a confident mans man if you will). If your intentions are anything other then honorable, meaning you are married or looking for a friend with benefits, then I'm not the girl for you, sorry. I am less interested in a man's wallet and more interested in his morals, manners and beliefs. Family, and family values are equally as important.I have 1 grown daughter who lives out of state. I am also a loving parent to my 1 year old Golden Retriever puppy who has recently become part of my family.If any of this sounds of interest to you, and you feel we may have some similar interests, then please do respond. Kindly show your creativity by providing more then just a one or two line reply, as that will most certainly lose my attention.Warm regardsJ. My ideal first date would be simple and informal.

  • Beverly

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am a country girl raised on a farm. I am still drawn to the quiet and peaceful country even though I live in town. I am an honest trustworthy woman who likes to have fun, joke around but can be serious when need be. When I am with that special someone there is no others in my life because I give my all. I am a down to earth old school kind of girl. My creative side comes to life when I am decorating my home. My friends all tell me that my home always make them feel welcome. I dislike drama and avoid it at all costs. Camping out at the lake or just with friends is an ideal time to me. Horses have always been a passion of mine and one day I will have some again. I can be spontaneous and a spur of the moment woman at times. I have travelled by car, plane and ship and enjoyed all trips I have taken. There is lots more out there that I want to see. Karaoke at home or out with friends is always a blast. Country music is what I enjoy most of all but I also enjoy most music except rap. I am a patient caregiving woman. I enjoy cooking & baking and have been told I'm good at it!!!!! It's been such a long time since I have been on a first date, I'm thinking coffee, lunch or dinner. If I to rodeos and one is in the area could take one in.

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