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Merle, 53
United States, Connecticut, Milford

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About Me

Upfront: I am not interested in a long distance relationship. So unless you are planning on moving to Calgary, please don't contact me. I will not respond. Good luck in your search!I am looking for someone who is at the same point in their life. My boys are finished university and have moved away. I did raise them to be independent, so I guess I shouldn't be surprised that they passed on the "stay forever in my basement offer". I have to admit that I do miss them. We do get together fairly often, but it is now time for me to focus on the next chapter in my life.I like to think that I am an intelligent, witty, positive and athletic gal (great, no one is arguing lol), so I am looking for the same in a guy. If you have taken a risk and developed a personality then I look forward to hearing from you. I am only looking for someone who still plays sports, is energetic, has a career and is ready for some fun. I know that I am very motivated and driven, so if you want a challenging and fun relationship, where we tackle our bucket list together, then I might be for you! I am an IT Business Analyst in Oil and Gas ....which means...I am just as challenged as you are in setting up and fixing your computer. I love my work, (small lie)...I really would prefer building houses and playing hockey. But the "big show" ain't gonna happen...so I go to work everyday...It really could be worse lolSports are a big part of my life. I like to ride my bike to work..I keep telling myself this.. am a HUGE Stampeders fan. I support the team - by going to the games - (bums in seats***are you ready to go? First date ? Rain or Shine? I also enjoy watching all the teams play in the CFL. Playoff hockey is also high on my list. GO FLAMES!Like everyone on here I like to go to movies, out for beers and wings and cuddle on the couch with someone special sharing a bottle of wine. Doesn't everyone have this in their profile? Oh yeah and I love to travel...sums it up, doesn't it? Geesh it should be easy to find someone if this is all that we do. But life is really about the day to day activities, and that is where common interests (hobbies, sports, current events) comes into the equation. It is about how we make each other feel loved, respected, appreciated and make each other smile, even when we aren't together.I have built and renovated many houses, the housing market is a big hobby for me. It is fun to get physical and remind myself why I went to University - It would be tough for me to make a living swinging a hammer, but it does keep me entertained and isn't that what life is all about? Making something out of nothing or when someone says...there is no way you can do that, is truly one of the greatest accomplishments in life.If you are looking for someone to travel with, do home renos, play any sports with or just joke around and have a good time with...I'm your gal! Oh yeah...and some romance too (hopefully lots)!If you are the same page as me or close...contact me...How hard is this anyway??? If you play hockey .... BONUS!!! I WILL COME and watch you play!! If your idea of retirement starts with picking 6 or 7 numbers, or the last time you exercised was when you tried out for the high school football team, or you really don't have time for a special person in your life, then please keep looking as these will be deal breakers for me!Ok...it is time to be blunt...if you look down and you can't see the tops of your feet....let alone your toes....then please go to the gym or close the pantry door....I am just not interested. Are you still reading? If you are ... why not take a chance (are you a risk taker???) and let's meet. You can tell so much more about a person by meeting them...so let's meet and get this adventure started! Happiness is just a click away!..but I am not willing to ride on motorcycle (no exceptions). I am not a biker chick (only peddle bikes). The significance of the hat is that I am cowgirl! ***Put this on your***profile if you***know someone that***died of old age***looking for their***perfect match***on a dating siteTo contact this user you must be:Old enough to remember the ***summit hockey seriesNot old enough to remember WWIIAthletic enough to throw a footballSmart enough to spell and balance a cheque bookCute enough to get into troubleFunny enough to keep me smiling (this shouldn't be too hard if you meet the previous criteria)...but long term... a personality will get you everywhere!!Oh and if you are really cute and was born with a trust fund...chances are we won't be a match....cause I know the people I like, and they have all worked hard to get where they are in life..funny how looks and money...short change people! just saying! The first meeting - coffee date..."the interview"...where we determine if there is energy, a zest for life and a sparkle between us, that makes us want another date...soon!Can you toss a football, frisbee or baseball around? It is getting harder and harder to find a guy that is up for the challenge! How about you????The first real date...is a night to remember...:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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