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Joy, 53

United States, Connecticut, Milford

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About me: I am active, athletic, adventurous, love the outdoors- snow skiing, hiking, biking, water sports, camping, river rafting and more. I like to think of myself as fun and outgoing with a great sense of humor, patience, and understanding. When I'm in a relationship I give it my ALL and I'm looking for the guy that can rock my world. What I do: I am a computer science professional working full time as a computer programmer at Hill Air Force Base and love my job. I am semi-retired from teaching group fitness classes forever and love attending group fitness classes at the gym and working out on a regular basis. I attend the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints regularly and enjoy serving others. (Along those lines, I'm very open minded about my religion and I don't assume that the right guy for me has to be LDS, too.) I just bought a "new" old house that I am challenged to fix up and find out what I can create on my own.Family: I am happily divorced with two awesome children, a son, age 17 and a daughter, age 19, both of whom I enjoy spending time with, neither live with me. I have a small extended family and enjoy spending time with my sister, my mom when she's in town or I go to visit her, or a family reunion when they come around. Other Interests: Besides all the fun-loving things I've already mentioned, I love listening to music and like several different genres, but my favorite is rock 'n roll. I'm into all the classic rock, hard rock, and alternative rock music - no country music, please! Having been a Yoga/Pilates *** so long, I get into some of the new age music. Recently, I've learned that I enjoy some of the new DJ/Club mixes that are out there, like Hardwell and Infected Mushrooms. I love to dance! I also play the piano and often fill in at church. What I'm looking for:I really want a devoted, outgoing and fun companion with whom to enjoy life! In the years to come, I plan to keep my career successful, yet get out doors and experience nature as much as possible doing all the activities I love and hopefully travel, all of this with my new found love.What I do when I'm not working: Get out, meet others, and have as much fun as possible! I have two toy poodle dogs that keep me company and they're both sweet and fun little dogs. I usually have several home projects going on. Spend time with my kids and other family members when we can work it out I'm easy going, but would like to be able to talk on a first date, so dinner and movie (doesn't have to be dinner out), or a hike - anything outdoors. If the person I date is not local I would be willing to spend more time for a longer first date since travelling would be involved. I am not shy and can make good conversation. A first date kiss is good if the chemistry is there - NOT without good chemistry.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Fitness / Gym Sci-Fi
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