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Harriett, 51
United States, Connecticut, Milford

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About Me

Hello, A little bit about me and what I'm looking for. I am a young 51. I'm an educated, intelligent, pretty/attractive professional with an established successful career. I'm inspired by beautiful tranquil beaches and glitzy city lights. I'm as comfortable in torn jeans and flip flops as I am in designer suites and heels. A cold beer, glass of red wine or a chilled martini, just depends on my surroundings and company. I would say I'm more informal then I am formal. I live a clean, healthy, active, comfortable lifestyle. I am considered fashionable and stylish. I am confident, articulate, and warm with a loving, nurturing heart. (No low self-esteem here). Also, extremely trust worthy and responsible with a great sense of humor. I am both sophisticated and silly at times. I am both emotionally and financially independent. I'm grounded, balanced and completely "sane" :)I have many hobbies, far to many to list here in this forum, better left for a getting to know you conversation. However, a few consist of cooking, photography, kayaking, and biking. I'm also an avid reader in addition to having an interest in fast, sporty convertible cars. I hope to find someone who is a gentlemen and genuine. It's most important you be honest, kind, with a gentle soul. I tend to be most attracted to larger build/husky men (a confident mans man if you will). If your intentions are anything other then honorable, meaning you are married or looking for a friend with benefits, then I'm not the girl for you, sorry. I am less interested in a man's wallet and more interested in his morals, manners and beliefs. Family, and family values are equally as important.I have 1 grown daughter who lives out of state. I am also a loving parent to my 1 year old Golden Retriever puppy who has recently become part of my family.If any of this sounds of interest to you, and you feel we may have some similar interests, then please do respond. Kindly show your creativity by providing more then just a one or two line reply, as that will most certainly lose my attention.Warm regardsJ. My ideal first date would be simple and informal.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Sallie from Milford | Woman | 51 years old | Scorpio
    Sallie

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Hmmm, lets see.....gotta talk about me? Hard working, loyal, supportive, sensual and fun. I have a great career and will finish school in December. I love a great meal, good band, how about a game of pool & a couple of dances. Cooking on the grill, crab legs, clams, ice cream in the summer walking by the water, my pool, movies & snuggling on the couch with you.....and wearing YOUR shirt. I am also a woman who puts on a flannel &....lolYahoo, get to talk about you!Are NOT a game player, in need of a therapist, or a bar bum! You are sincere, loyal, down to earth, happy to see me, know how to treat a lady, have a steady career.....and I don't care if you are a garbageman or an engineer. If you are looking for a co-dependent, I am not for you. Now, if you are pretty independent, but know how to be "interdependent", then we should probably meet for drink.Us: Honesty, Loyalty, Respect, Communication, Chemistry! .......quite simple Margarita or Michelob Lite in a comfy place.

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  • Frankie from Milford | Woman | 54 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am at a point where I would like to find the man who will be part of my life until eternity. I am a loving, caring woman who will be your best friend, companion and love of your life, as you will be mine. We will compliment each other, respect one another, and hopefully have the time of our lives. We should love to travel, as well as being at home with friends and family. Affection would not be something that would be lacking between us...Will we find all of this? I hope so. I love going to auctions, drives to nowhere , working around my home, and laying in the pool when I can find the time...I also love entertaining. I own my own business which keeps me busy, and I enjoy that more each day. I love going on cruises, vacationing on beautiful Islands, or just going to that Country Fair down the road... I enjoy going out for a fine dinner or throwing something on the grill. So, if this sounds like you talk to me. I have known love in my life, and want that again. I have so many interests, it's hard to put them all down here...LOL...I will tell you this; I can put that "little black dress" on and be ready for a great evening out in a half hour, or throw the hair up in a pony tail and jump on the back of your bike! I am so ready to make someone my # 1 priority in my life, and me his...oh, and please have recent photos...it's not that difficult. For you men who say yes to the "Meet Me" feature....but never contact the women you want to meet...well,,,let's just say...you should...UPDATE: I have been asked the question....why are you still on here...and haven't found anyone yet? What's wrong? Well...nothing is wrong...I just don't feel it's a good choice to just settle...so to speak...I am looking for a feeling...for me...and for him....mutual....we'll know it when we feel it.... I really am pretty easy going, so a first date could be just about anything. Just about, I said...Skydiving would not work for me but most anything else would be fine. Lunch, dinner, not breakfast, I don't like to get up early! I am very comfortable with others, and I'm sure we would enjoy our time together regardless if there was an attraction by either of us.

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  • Ines from Milford | Woman | 51 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Thanks for reading my profile...I am a t- I live a simple life, don't get me wrong I do like the nicer things in life but material things are just not my priority. Honesty and open communication are however. I am a very honest, loyal person and will always tell you how I feel. With me what you see is what you get. I have a kind heart and would love to find a kind, good hearted, honest man to share it with.One of my favorite things to do is to go for a motorcycle ride on a nice day. I enjoy watching sports,(live or on tv) and playing sports(softball). I like most kinds of music with the exception of Rap...Love to go out dancing or listening to live music at a local bar.Family is very important to me and I spend as much time as I can with mine. My babies are grown but still a big part of my life. It's time for me to to look to my next adventure, I work hard it's time to play...I love to smile, laugh, and have fun. I have a great sense of humor, some what sarcastic at times. Lots of lookers on this site! Stop by and say Hi, you never know!! Hope your having an awesome day. It's not about the destination it's who your with that matters.

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