Total users: 63,127,266 Online users: 227,488
Shelby, 54
United States, Connecticut, Groton

Offline, last seen Thu, 04 Jun 2026 18:16:18

About Me

I hold the dichotomy: adrenaline rushes and meditative breathing; slice of pizza and a full-bodied red; Grateful Dead and Yo Yo Ma;; string theory and string cheese; physicality and spirituality. Can do corporate and bohemian. Life is how we frame it! Laughter is key. At ourselves, at our predicaments, at the joy in life. Or, perhaps, I am speaking of a sense of humor about it all.Looking for someone with a passion for life, accepting but not complacent about our imperfect offerings, a sense of abiding curiosity and well-founded confidence that is balanced with the knowledge that growth is a must. I believe (hope?) that I share these traits. "Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible."Dalai Lama"Sometimes you get shown the light in the strangest of places if you look at right."Hunter/Garcia Seriously? Not bumper cars, we will save that for a third date. Definitely not a movie, no opportunity to talk. A dinner party with your friends, maybe 4th date (we can witness each other in a social context). How about a long walk on a beach, at sunset.-- with a glass of champagne. Phew. I finally figured out the perfect first date.And now I see that this box is optional? Fine - Starbucks.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

British Middle Eastern Thai Adventure Crime
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Carlene from Groton | Woman | 53 years old | Capricorn
    Carlene

    Offline

    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Hello! I am caring, kind and considerate! I am looking for a long term relationship.I have 3 great kids, two sons and a daughter; two out of the house and one is home. Being a Mom has been a rewarding part of my life. I have a great relationship with my kids.I am a Nurse Practitioner. I feel very blessed to have the career that I do. My goal is to help someone's day be a little easier and a bit brighter!I have recently become interested in cycling. A very humbling and rewarding experience. 9 hrs 45 mins..I'm not much of a bar person...been there, done that! I don't mind going out for drinks before or after dinner, just not an all night thing. I do like finding somewhere with good live music, jazz or classic rock. I also enjoy the theater and museums.I am looking for a kind, gentle and romantic man. You are successful, with a college education, or succesful in your profession and self-sufficient. I am attracted to a well dressed man who is just as comfortable in a suit as he is in jeans. You should have a group of buddies you like to spend time with, as I have my gal-pals.I am a romantic at heart! I really just want to find someone to sit by a fire or walk in the woods. Someone who is honest, that I can share my life with. Meet for a drink or coffee. Would like to see if we have common interests, and any chemistry. If things go well, who knows!

    Chat
  • Florine from Groton | Woman | 53 years old | Aquarius
    Florine

    Offline

    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I am an attractive 51 year old, mature, intelligent,honest, responsible and committed woman. I am seeking same in male. I would like to talk on the phone and eventually meet in person for a cup of coffee. I am not into bars and crowded places. Sorry, I am not into "Harley Dudes" as well. Also, if you are a smoker--date a dragon. I am looking for one person to build a relationship with based on trust and friendship first. If your agenda is different, "save your breath, you will need it to blow up your girlfriend". I like to stay active and I am a hard-worker. I will tell you more later. p.s.~please be at least 5' 10". thanks and good luck. I would like to talk somewhat at first on the phone. We could always meet for coffee at some point. I think this would be appropriate for a first date.

    Chat
  • Cynthia from Groton | Woman | 52 years old | Libra
    Cynthia

    Offline

    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Looking for a honest and sincere person who is looking for the same.

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: