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Shelby, 54

United States, Connecticut, Groton

Offline, last seen Mon, 10 Aug 2026 09:57:54

About Me

I hold the dichotomy: adrenaline rushes and meditative breathing; slice of pizza and a full-bodied red; Grateful Dead and Yo Yo Ma;; string theory and string cheese; physicality and spirituality. Can do corporate and bohemian. Life is how we frame it! Laughter is key. At ourselves, at our predicaments, at the joy in life. Or, perhaps, I am speaking of a sense of humor about it all.Looking for someone with a passion for life, accepting but not complacent about our imperfect offerings, a sense of abiding curiosity and well-founded confidence that is balanced with the knowledge that growth is a must. I believe (hope?) that I share these traits. "Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible."Dalai Lama"Sometimes you get shown the light in the strangest of places if you look at right."Hunter/Garcia Seriously? Not bumper cars, we will save that for a third date. Definitely not a movie, no opportunity to talk. A dinner party with your friends, maybe 4th date (we can witness each other in a social context). How about a long walk on a beach, at sunset.-- with a glass of champagne. Phew. I finally figured out the perfect first date.And now I see that this box is optional? Fine - Starbucks.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

British Middle Eastern Thai Adventure Crime
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  • Cassy from Groton | Woman | 29 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-29

    Hi! My name is Cassy. I am never married other caucasian woman without kids from Groton, Connecticut, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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  • Bianca from Groton | Woman | 52 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am a very simple woman that believes life IS simple! Treat others how you want to be treated! I love the beach...lake...river...any water! I find it to be peaceful and relaxing to be around the water morning or night! I am BLESSED with two AMAZING daughters who are also my best friends! I have a GORGEOUS granddaughter and a Grandson on the way! I am a very loyal person, easy to please and don't believe it takes a lot of money to have a good time! :-) A nice dinner...somewhere quiet where we can talk and get to know each other...then off to the beach to watch the sunset...then a nice long walk with our feet in the water under the moonlight! Then sitting on a blanket...looking up at the stars and feeling the warm breeze brush across our faces and blowing through my long blonde hair :-)

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  • Katie from Groton | Woman | 52 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    About me? This is challenging to write. I work full time, and am in school. Hopefully, will finish soon! I'm busy, but will make time for the right man. I like to laugh, who doesn't? I enjoy movies, bookstores, weekend drives, evenings out and calm nights snuggling in front of the TV. I really believe in an open, honest communication style. I like to laugh, and can be silly...but know when it's time to buckle down and 'get stuff done'. I watch TV to fall asleep, spend too much time on the computer playing silly games, and am very involved in my professional organization. I'd like to meet someone here to spend time with, enjoy their company, and maybe see what happens. Long term, I'd like to have and create a future with a special guy. I have a career I love, a job I like, and a large extended family. I have no children of my own, but a bunch of nieces and nephews and their friends. I'm OK with you having kids, glad, in fact, but would prefer not to meet them until we're established in a relationship. I wouldn't want to be with a guy that has a stream of ladies in and out of his kids lives. I exercise on a regular basis, but I do it because it's good for me...I'm not a gym rat. I do like walks, parks...). I'm a decent cook, who likes to experiment...so occasionally that means we wind up eating out unexpectedly. I'm a lousy housekeeper, (you know you can pay people to do that)...but I like to iron clothes...weird, isn't it? When I have time off from work, I like to travel, both foreign and local road trips. I hope you do too!I'm looking to meet someone who has balanced their work life with their personal life. Workaholics and the unemployed need not respond! You have a sense of humor, can hold up your end of a conversation, but isn't unconfortable with silence. You're able to share your feelings, talk about your work and family, and doesn't want to spend every evening on the couch (although snuggle time is important!). You're willing to watch a 'girl' movie once in a while, and like trying new restaurants. You having a dog would be a bonus!((added after 3rd day here....being near the NJ/NY border, I'm getting a large amount of NY matches. I am really not interested in starting someting that requires a bridge and tunnel commute!! but can't figure out how to limit my matches to NJ...so, if you've read this far.... and you're from NY, thanks anyway! and good luck here!)) A good first date would be somewhere in a non-pressure situation, like coffee or brunch. No movies, group events. I'd like a chance for conversation and beginning to get to know you!

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