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Shelby, 54
United States, Connecticut, Groton

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About Me

I hold the dichotomy: adrenaline rushes and meditative breathing; slice of pizza and a full-bodied red; Grateful Dead and Yo Yo Ma;; string theory and string cheese; physicality and spirituality. Can do corporate and bohemian. Life is how we frame it! Laughter is key. At ourselves, at our predicaments, at the joy in life. Or, perhaps, I am speaking of a sense of humor about it all.Looking for someone with a passion for life, accepting but not complacent about our imperfect offerings, a sense of abiding curiosity and well-founded confidence that is balanced with the knowledge that growth is a must. I believe (hope?) that I share these traits. "Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible."Dalai Lama"Sometimes you get shown the light in the strangest of places if you look at right."Hunter/Garcia Seriously? Not bumper cars, we will save that for a third date. Definitely not a movie, no opportunity to talk. A dinner party with your friends, maybe 4th date (we can witness each other in a social context). How about a long walk on a beach, at sunset.-- with a glass of champagne. Phew. I finally figured out the perfect first date.And now I see that this box is optional? Fine - Starbucks.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

British Middle Eastern Thai Adventure Crime
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  • Carlene from Groton | Woman | 51 years old | Scorpio
    Carlene

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I have been told I have the kind of humor that catches you off guard when you least expect it but makes you want to laugh out loud. Men have called me warm smart and fun and that my pictures don't really do me justice. I'm a bit old fashtioned and like a man who is a gentlemen. I like to spend time with my family and friends. Doesnt really matter what were doing I just enjoy having them around. I love the beach and water sports, the only winter activity I have tried besides shoveling and cleaning off my car is sledding and tubing. But I'd be willing to try my luck on a pair of snow ski's or a board with a lesson.I have two teenage children 18 and 16, (my younger one lives at home my older has her own place) along with 3 mini pincher (dogs) and a cat. I own my home and have lived here for 17 years. I have varied tastes when it comes to outtings- I'm pretty much up to trying anything. I love to travel (warm destinations being my favorite) and to see new places. I'm very social and love to entertain at home or go out and meet new people. I love almost any kind of music except heavy metal and rap. And I really enjoy going out dancing or going to the movies and sharing a small popcorn with someone special.I have a great group of friends I like to spend time with many are married but we still try and make gal time to catch up on everything and just unwind. I guess what I'm saying is I do have a life and I enjoy it but would love to find someone who would like to add to it and share in it. Maybe a nice old fashioned guy who doesn't mind that one day I'll cook up a feast and the next be hoping to go out for Thai food. Someone who who likes snuggling up to watch a movie or going out and dancing to a great band. Or one better jumping in the car/plane on the spur of the moment and going someplace new and sharing new experiences together. All my pictures are recent - yep I'm not fat - nor ugly but lets hope like me personality is the deciding factor in a relationship. Never judge a book by it's cover they say. Send me an *** , Lunch , Dinner whatever is fine so we can talk and get to know each other. I'd like to talk on the phone a bit before jumping into the date - its a bit more personal and lets us decide on where and when to meet.

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  • Herminia from Groton | Woman | 51 years old | Cancer
    Herminia

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I enjoy anything outdoors, cooking, going out to the movies as well as staying in to watch a movie, going out to dinner, shopping, spending time with my family and friends, going to the beach, traveling, reading and driving around to explore. I enjoy Music: Rock, Jazz, 80's music, Motown - too many to list.I have big brown eyes and a big smile, I am attractive, easy-going, a bit shy, fun & friendly. The rest....you will have to find out once we meet. Life is all about taking chances! Something light and comfortable. Coffee, ice cream or a cold drink. If there is a connectiion, great... We will make plans to meet again!.. Dinner, concert, a walk...

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  • Jeri from Groton | Woman | 51 years old | Gemini
    Jeri

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I like to think I'm a fun, funny, successful, level headed woman who still believes that each one of us can make a difference in someone's life every day with something as seemingly insignificant as a smile or a kind word. Who knows, maybe we'll make a difference for each other :) I work FT as a marketing exec with a side business in holistic health, I volunteer, love live music, good food, strong coffee, a great drink and a passionate kiss.Please, let's not waste our time... If you're a serial dater, completely closed off to commitment, or unable to be open to moving forward at a STEADY, CONSISTENT pace, we are not a match.Thanks :) Initially I find it works best to meet for a coffee or a drink and see if there's any connection. Let's face it, online dating isn't all fun all the time... If we hit it off then we'll make a plan to do something fun for the second date. Sound good?

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