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Shelby, 54
United States, Connecticut, Groton

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About Me

I hold the dichotomy: adrenaline rushes and meditative breathing; slice of pizza and a full-bodied red; Grateful Dead and Yo Yo Ma;; string theory and string cheese; physicality and spirituality. Can do corporate and bohemian. Life is how we frame it! Laughter is key. At ourselves, at our predicaments, at the joy in life. Or, perhaps, I am speaking of a sense of humor about it all.Looking for someone with a passion for life, accepting but not complacent about our imperfect offerings, a sense of abiding curiosity and well-founded confidence that is balanced with the knowledge that growth is a must. I believe (hope?) that I share these traits. "Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible."Dalai Lama"Sometimes you get shown the light in the strangest of places if you look at right."Hunter/Garcia Seriously? Not bumper cars, we will save that for a third date. Definitely not a movie, no opportunity to talk. A dinner party with your friends, maybe 4th date (we can witness each other in a social context). How about a long walk on a beach, at sunset.-- with a glass of champagne. Phew. I finally figured out the perfect first date.And now I see that this box is optional? Fine - Starbucks.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

British Middle Eastern Thai Adventure Crime
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am well preserved and young at heart,I am in good physical shape, appear much younger then my age. I am active, exercise daily.I appreciate a man who takes care of himself as I do....Who has self confidence, knows what he wants and how to get it....Can laugh at himself and most of all...make me laugh...The eyes are the windows to the soul,so, please...take off those dark sunglasses....I want to see a picture of your face. Love to go out....concerts, dancing, dinner....recently discovered the love of riding on the back of a motorcycle. I am independent, and outspoken, with a bit, of an edge,. I appreciate the need for alone time, and personal space.I am an R.N. I work in behavioral health (Psychiatry) and have been working at the same job for 33 years. Music...anything you can dance to,whether at a club or concert. When I hear a good beat, it's hard to sit still. Love the outdoor concerts of summer.I Love animals (sometimes more than people). Have a dog. cat and birds. My kids are 24 and 21, so I am free, to come and go.Enjoy the water,hot tubbing, swimming, boating, want to ride on a jet ski, Love the islands, walking in the sand... looking through the clear water... My favorite..I'm a lover of history. Enjoy traveling and visiting historical sites and museums.There is a bit of nerd in me! The other side of me craves the excitement of Vegas!I can be very serious, or, the life of the party, I have many sides. I know when it's appropriate to let each one show. I have everything I need...just want someone to share it with...A lover, a best friend...not looking for one night...looking for a lifetime.I am confident, and comfortable, in my own skin. I do prefer men just a bit younger then myself...I appreciate the attention of you much younger men...but, I don't want to be your Mrs. I am accepting and open-minded to the differences in others. .. if the "N" word is part of your daily vocabulary, or, you are intolerant of races, religions,or lifestyles, that are different from your own...please... do not contact me...No Smokers or married menI hope you never lose your sense of wonderYou get your fill to eatBut always keep that hungerMay you never take one single breath for grantedGod forbid love ever leave you empty handedI hope you still feel smallWhen you stand beside the oceanWhenever one door closes, I hope one more opensPromise me that you'll give fate a fighting chanceAnd when you get the choice to sit it out or danceI hope you danceI hope you dance First date, should be a place to sit and talk. You only have one chance, to make a first impression... So relax, be yourself. And, please... post a recent photo, I would like to recognize you when I see you.

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

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