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Shelby, 54
United States, Connecticut, Groton

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About Me

I hold the dichotomy: adrenaline rushes and meditative breathing; slice of pizza and a full-bodied red; Grateful Dead and Yo Yo Ma;; string theory and string cheese; physicality and spirituality. Can do corporate and bohemian. Life is how we frame it! Laughter is key. At ourselves, at our predicaments, at the joy in life. Or, perhaps, I am speaking of a sense of humor about it all.Looking for someone with a passion for life, accepting but not complacent about our imperfect offerings, a sense of abiding curiosity and well-founded confidence that is balanced with the knowledge that growth is a must. I believe (hope?) that I share these traits. "Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible."Dalai Lama"Sometimes you get shown the light in the strangest of places if you look at right."Hunter/Garcia Seriously? Not bumper cars, we will save that for a third date. Definitely not a movie, no opportunity to talk. A dinner party with your friends, maybe 4th date (we can witness each other in a social context). How about a long walk on a beach, at sunset.-- with a glass of champagne. Phew. I finally figured out the perfect first date.And now I see that this box is optional? Fine - Starbucks.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

British Middle Eastern Thai Adventure Crime
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  • Claudine from Groton | Woman | 51 years old | Aries
    Claudine

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I have no faith that the online process will work for finding love. I do know many couples that have met on dating web sights and now are happy and in love. It just chemistry is complicated. You can read someone profile and think wow this person is great we have so much in common, then you meet in person and think what the heck. So here I am not looking for love but in hope of meeting good, kind and interesting people. Anything were we can both feel comfortable and relaxed.

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  • Sharlene from Groton | Woman | 51 years old | Capricorn
    Sharlene

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I love life and take enjoyment in just about everything I do. Life is too short so I try to live it to the fullest. I'm outgoing and a bit crazy in a good way I like to have fun and tease so I hope you can take a joke I'm not the serious type.And 'm not conservative I'm a bit of an odd ball but I really don't care what anyone thinks about me you either like me or you don't and most people like me. I'm an optimistic person and always look on the bright side of things even in a bad situation I believe everything happens for a reason. And I would like the same in my partner. I like being outdoors. I workout and walk almost every day and eat healthy to keep in shape. I like the beach, and horseback riding.Y. I love to dance and do enjoy going out dancing once in a while. I like all kinds of music and I like to go to concerts. I love my job and have been at the same job for 22 yrs. I have a beautiful 15 yr.old daughter shes a great kid thank god. I am looking for that someone special that I can share my life with not live their's. I'm a very independent person I don't need someone I want someone to grow old with. I'm a confident beautiful women on the inside and out very easy going if you treat me right. I always say treat people the way you would want them to treat you. I'm not a bossy person I believe that people should be free to make their own choice's but be careful what you choose. I'm mainly looking for someone honest, caring & trustworthy, with a good sense of humor to make me laugh and of course a gentlemen is a must. I like someone with old fashion ways and good values. I don't like lies. Always tell the truth and never worry about getting caught in a lie. I'm up-dating my profile I think its about time. I am so tired of the texting back and forth, have people forgotten how to talk to one another soon we will lose our ability to speak. I have found that people are on here to waste time texting back and forth for weeks I guess they have nothing better to do please don't waste my time I'm much to busy. I much rather talk to a person and hear there voice. What I'm looking for is start out slow see how things go and if things are right eventually one day down the road turn into a serious relationship. People are to much in a hurry to find love that they don't give it a chance to grow. You cant hurry love if its right it will happen. For god sake's a lightning bolt is not going to hit you in the head on the first date and your going to find love it don't work like that people give it a chance. So please if your not looking for the same thing as me don't bother contacting me. And no serial daters please and no married men go back to your wives and tell them how much you love them and try to make it work because if they stayed with you this long your very lucky to have them. I hope everyone finds what their looking for. Thank you and have a great day. And yes my pictures are all current I do look like that only better in person really. I like to get to know someone to see how they are and what better way to get to know someone than talking over dinner for a few hours. Then maybe after dinner if its the summer take a long walk on the beach.

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  • Janine from Groton | Woman | 55 years old | Capricorn
    Janine

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    What is important to me, God & family & friends.. Have 2 dogs Forest & Gump. Love to smile & laugh. Have lived in IL, MI, NC (2 times now) & TX. Looking for someone to experience all that life has to offer. Dancing in the rain. Laying outside at night looking at the stars. I live out in the country & loving it. Love dancing in the rain. Taking pictures of Gods creations.Taking long walks in the woods, in town, along the beach, etc. Spending time with family & friends.Enjoy flea markets, garage sales & auctions.Laying on a blanket outside at night & looking at the stars & the moon.Snuggling & Cuddling.Did I forget to mention God? Anywhere to spend time together. Walk on the beach. Grab a bite to eat. Anything simple.

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