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Shelby, 54
United States, Connecticut, Groton

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I hold the dichotomy: adrenaline rushes and meditative breathing; slice of pizza and a full-bodied red; Grateful Dead and Yo Yo Ma;; string theory and string cheese; physicality and spirituality. Can do corporate and bohemian. Life is how we frame it! Laughter is key. At ourselves, at our predicaments, at the joy in life. Or, perhaps, I am speaking of a sense of humor about it all.Looking for someone with a passion for life, accepting but not complacent about our imperfect offerings, a sense of abiding curiosity and well-founded confidence that is balanced with the knowledge that growth is a must. I believe (hope?) that I share these traits. "Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible."Dalai Lama"Sometimes you get shown the light in the strangest of places if you look at right."Hunter/Garcia Seriously? Not bumper cars, we will save that for a third date. Definitely not a movie, no opportunity to talk. A dinner party with your friends, maybe 4th date (we can witness each other in a social context). How about a long walk on a beach, at sunset.-- with a glass of champagne. Phew. I finally figured out the perfect first date.And now I see that this box is optional? Fine - Starbucks.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

British Middle Eastern Thai Adventure Crime
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  • Shawna from Groton | Woman | 51 years old | Aries
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I used to be a dancer so I like to stay fit. I am into the performing arts. Right now I am a freelance artist. In between projects I am a bartender.For big events. I consider myself a free spirit. I love to have fun. I have no baggage, by choice. Doesn"t matter if you do. I like too travel,and do so often. So if you have a passport then write back. LOL I love trying new restaurants,going too art museums,dance clubs,and going to the theater. I"am also a good cook I"m Italian so of course that is my specialty. I like latin music and jazz, Don"t like rap. I do have a small tattoo tastefully done. Don"t care for loud people or any drama.I can be silly at times. Not interested in playing any games life is to short. Love a man with a sense of humor,who likes to stay fit,and not high maintenance. My life is very fast pace, so the few quite moments I get I like to relax and be with someone special . Sorry guys I am a night person and I do work nights. Do work a few days. I always make time for that special someone. I do not like any drama, life is to short. There will be no drama,and not interested in hearing about your ex. And if u r separated u r still married! No thanks. If your into playing games,or you are a lonely serial dater. Move on to the next profile. BTW please have your shirt on unless you are in a pool. Have fun in your search. bye:) First time we meet could be drinks or coffee,even a nice walk through a Museum so there is time to chat with no pressure.I don"t feel you have to have lunch or dinner the first time you meet someone, It is not a first date it is a first meeting to see if you even want to have a first date. Right?LOL

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  • Cristina from Groton | Woman | 54 years old | Libra
    Cristina

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    You are a stable, sexy, adventurous, positive and all around great guy who wants to spend time with an attractive, sexy, adventurous and positive woman...going out, staying in....whatever it is ....enjoying life. Please don't take offense if I don't respond to your message - it's just that I don't think we're a match....I plan on spending the next chapter of my life with someone who is a friend , a lover, my confidant and most of all someone who I love unconditionally....it's what makes life so much more fun! We all have our friends and family who I love being with but I have to say that having a partner to enjoy new adventures with is very appealing to me.....ps...i might add you to my favs so i can find you again ....it's a big sea....and if you're not interested feel free to remove! Coffee or a glass of wine is good....

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  • Luella from Groton | Woman | 51 years old | Aquarius
    Luella

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am looking for a man that is smart, successful, but most of all that makes me laugh! I fall in love with a personality, not a pretty face. I have a job that puts me in very social situations, so I am looking for a man who is not intimidated by that. I also am looking for someone who has time to spend. Waiting on someone is terrible. I am not a great beauty, and I am older and have a few pounds on me that I constantly work on. I go up and down. I will tell you that I am an extremely loving and passionate woman. I love life and want a man who does as well.I have been told by my friends that I am a very genuine. I am not ever fake. So what you see is what you get. I hope that when you are reading this it comes across as I hope it does. The rest is up to you, if want to find out more.....

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