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Pamela, 52
United States, Connecticut, Groton

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I am a people person who can be happy in a crowd or a quiet evening at home.I have my priorities in life in order; my faith, my family and my friends !! Being there for others is important to me.I have two adult daughters, a gr-son and a gr-daughter who rock my world... I'm not a sit at home propped up in front of the boob tube kinda girl but I've gotta watch my O's, if not live at the Yard then on screen.The Ravens rock but ... baseball is my fav !! I not only watch baseball, I can hit :-)I enjoy a little one on one (basketball) and my tennis rackets are crying for play time. I enjoy music, concerts, bands at local pubs, and cheering on the Ravens and Orioles with others at a sports bar but I'm not a bar fly. I enjoy shooting pool.I enjoy wine festivals but I'm a light-weight and respect my limit!!I like to eat healthy and I'm big on natural. I do not eat hot dogs, not even at the ball park!!I belong to a great gym and work out but I'm not a gym rat. Balance - a life in balance, that's me. I also belong to an outdoor hiking/adventure group.Being on the water, boating, jet skiing, snorkeling, soaking up the sun or hiking, long walks exploring, a run during a downpour all work for me. I don't live on the water currently but its great having family and friends that do ;-)Warm weather beats out cold any day but a snow ball battle can be fun especially if its only one day and then you pack and head somewhere warm and sunny, sorry just dreaming out loud. I'm looking for a man who is positive more often than negative, caring but not controlling, man enough to let me be me, kind enough to not expect perfection ***but worthy of my best, strong enough to stand against the wind and wise enough to love God. I'm not a bible thumper and am not perfect (ha, don't repeat that okay?) but if you want to get to know me you gotta have the basics down. If your profiles reads "non-religious" please keep searching elsewhere, thank you. One additional thought to share, I chose "Princess fish" not because I'm spoiled rotten but because for 25 years I was loved and cherished by a man who treated me as his princess. He loved me like there was no tomorrow and I'd like to believe I could share that kind of love with someone again.If Princess Tomboy Fish were an option, that would be me ... A little prissy w/ a dose of testosterone, I get a rush from the smell of racing fuel.Okay a little more you may care to know ... I'm not OCD but my vehicle has to be as clean as my kitchen, yes, clean !!.. who would have ever thought hitting a ball that is standing still could be more challenging than a fast ball coming at you ???

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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Hip-Hop House Skiing Drama Mystery Snowboarding
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