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Debra, 51

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About Me

I'm not very good at writing about myself, and Internet dating intimidates me, so here it goes:I am very laid back person who loves spending time with family and friends. I like to watch movies but I love live music (almost any kind but Rap). I love to travel, walk on the beach, ride motorcycles, (not drive), beautiful sunsets/sunrises, BBQs and dinner parties with family and friends, and I like to dance, though I'm not very good at it. On cold winter nights, I enjoy a fire in the fireplace, a nice glass of wine, a good movie and someone special to cuddle with. I have never learned to snow ski, but I love the snow. I also enjoy the outdoors, camping, fishing, boating, tubing, hiking. I recently bought a new bike that I'm going to begin riding on Town (I mean Lady Bird) Lake. I love sports so I enjoy tailgating during the UT football season, hosting football parties, or attending a game live. I like the Cowboys, Rangers, and Spurs, but I'll root against then anytime they are playing the Lions, Tigers, or Pistons. I'm a very stable person. I have worked for the same company for 33 years now, raised a wonderful son, and I own my own home. I have learned to be very self sufficient over the years so when it comes to a relationship, I don't 'need' a man to take care of me, but I want to share my life with someone special.HONESTY, communication, integrity, and faithfulness are important to me and I would like to meet someone with those same values.What I'm Looking For:I'm looking for someone who is outgoing and who can make me laugh, but also has a serious side. Someone to be my best friend and I can count on when things get tough or just had a bad day. I'm looking for someone who has a great personality and gets along with most, someone who is spiritual but not over the top, and someone who takes pride in their appearance but is not afraid to get down and dirty with the best of them. I would like to find someone who is considerate, romantic, fun, honest, caring, and down to earth. Most of all, I'm looking for someone who will let me be me and will except me with all my flaws, but will make me want to be a better person for being with them. I am not perfect by any means, and don't expect my partner to be either. Over the past few years, my job, school, and other commitments has not allowed me to spend as much time to work out as much as I needed to, so yes, I did put on a few extra pounds. I'm working to take those off know, but I believe its what's inside that really matters, the outside can be fixed.Friendship would be a great starting place to know if we have that connection or chemistry we are both looking for.OK, this is going to sound harsh, but I'm going to share my displeasures I have had with these sites so here it goes: If your business takes you overseas to purchase "goods", make sure your finances are in order and you have the funds needed to pay to get your "goods" back thru customs. DO NOT ask me to send you money because it will not happen. If you claim to be in the military and are stationed overseas, DO NOT ask me to send care packages containing money, cell phones, t- I have the utmost respect for our men and women in our military, so I do not appreciate someone who tries to be a military imposter. I know what I'm looking for I am too old for head games, so if that is part of your game, please don't contact me. If you are only interested in texting or ***, I'm not your girl, I'm not interested in having a cyber relationship. If we can't have a phone conversation or plan to meet within the first couple of weeks, lets not waste each others time. I don't believe in love at first sight and nor do I believe you can fall in love thru texts or IMs, this is something that you have to work on, face-to-face, but I do believe in immediate chemistry. The first 'date' is really a meet and greet so somewhere we can enjoy a cup of coffee or a drink and have a conversation without too many distractions. Its the 2nd date that matters, if it gets that far.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Aida

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I love to be with people (work from my home) so ready to get away for fun in the evenings, although nothing wrong with a night at home snuggling during a movie...!!I do work out as often as possible but would rather go out for a drink.. c-o-c-k-t-a-i-l- got me a slap on the wrist lolMy friends and family are really important to me, I have 2 boys 17 & 21...they are not so interested in spending time with me these days!!!I love to laugh, so please have a great sense of humor !Basically, I just want to find someone that wants to have fun and enjoy life. Meet for a ****tail and if chemistry go for dinner. Oh for Gods sake, a drink lol

  • Anastasia

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am just me, no frills, no pretense (...ok, a little with my stated age..maybe more than a little? A woman does not have to tell! ...), impish, imperfect, impatient, imaginative, irresponsible at times, impetuous, too, strong-willed, fiesty, sensual, sweet, smart, lovable, maybe cute, occasionally sexy. I love to laugh, have fun and am more fragile than I like to admit. I like to think that people are upfront and am still surprised when they are not. I appreciate that no one is perfect. 'You don't need to be perfect, just perfect for me'... I live in a world that works for me. I have made haunting choices and many that are OK. Every day is a gift to me (which I slowly unwrap), and it took way too many years to get where I am, a place of peace, as haphazard as it may appear, it is my place. I won't try to change you; let me be me, ok? There is an expression about not criticizing until we have walked a mile in someone else's shoes: I don't want you to wear my shoes, just walk beside me, maybe hold my hand if I am stumbling and I'll hold yours, too. I love to listen to music, enjoying the oldies as well as alternative, hip hop, current hits, some country, and more. Music is memories, it's fantasy, it's fun, it gets my body moving, wishing I could dance like they do on that TV show. I love to read. I enjoy being outside and love it when a new flower opens. Thinking about what makes me unique, I am struggling because we are all unique, all contributing some thing of value to the world. While we are all special, we also overlap in our qualities. I have been single for about eight years and like it, a lot. I am looking for male friends to have fun with, to get to know and see where it goes. Long-term doesn't scare me. While I can cook and did so pretty regularly for some ***years, I am not so much into it anymore. I bake for holidays. I love a good steak and dark chocolate as in hot fudge.I wear mostly black clothes because I feel best in that color. I prefer silver over gold for jewelry, and a multiple carat diamond is always nice. ')Mostly I am just me, a woman worth cherishing, spoiling, and loving.In advance, thanks to all who read this and write to me. While trying not to appear like a snob, more than likely you'll not hear back from me if spelling isn't up to par, or if there's a chance your mom and I are real close in age. While I enjoy a good time, I am not desperate, won't use you so I can score a free meal. I will look at your profile, pictures, for sure, and read what you have written. I am not a motorcycle momma. I will wonder why, with all your wonderful stated qualities, you are now single. I have been wooed by some good "woo-ers" who have raised the bar. I am not looking to 'hook up', rather more interested in friendships that have substance. Most of all, thank you for your kind words and for stopping here to have a look. ') A cool first date for me would be to meet in a public place where we could talk if we wanted, but with enough distractions if needed. Having a drink would be a good, too. I don't need nor want to be overly impressed..don't try too hard. Just be you so I can be me..be real. Maybe meet over a hot fudge sundae? That would rock!

  • Brigitte

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am just back from a Bahamas cruise so decide to post some new pics and update things a bit. ? So anyway a bit about me. Just a normal lady, looking to find someone to spend some time with and see what happens. One of my friends said this feels too much like writing ones obituary...and I think he may be right. But how the heck are you going to know if you want to meet me, or go out with me if I don’t tell you something……so hey…..here goes. From reading so many of these profiles I have determined that we all enjoy being outdoors, we all love the beach, we all consider ourselves to be pretty active, and we all work out or exercise ***times a week. I’d be a liar if I said I work out that often, but I do try to take care of myself. I have never been married, but gave back two rings, no children, unless you count the two cats….which I do as they are treated better than a lot of children. The IRS keeps giving me a hard time every time I try claiming them as dependents. ? I really do love the outdoors and when I grow up I want to be a farmer. I am also a bit sarcastic…but you probably noticed that already. Another friend of mine calls that “snark.” He’s right too. I’ve got some smart and fun guy friends, but alas, not the right one….and yet I keep coming back here and looking to see if he (could it be you?) is out here. I am trying to keep this a bit on the lighter side. Sometimes I think we take ourselves too seriously when writing these things. So I’m trying to just have some fun with it. I also really do love the beach and I tan easily and love water activities. I know how to kayak and can handle myself on a small boat…but mostly I really like to lay on the beach and drink tropical drinks with little umbrellas in them. I found out on the cruise that I am really good at that. ?I do some “Charity-Pay it Forward" well intentioned sort of things with my time. I work with a teenage youth group from my church and I’m experienced in mini golf, glow in the dark golf, mid-nite bowling, lazer tag, (but I really suck at that one) I am working up to “rock climbing” and an overnight kayak trip on the Allegheny. I’ve also done a few Mission trips, and handled many service projects with many groups of teenagers who keep moving thru the ranks. So my own self- description is “a good Christian girl, with a bit of a wild side. :-) If you decide you want to meet me we can go into greater detail regarding that “wild side.” A girl has to have a few secrets…..Anyhow……….I think that is enough BS in this section...thanks for reading and if you got this far, we might actually get along…..shoot me an *** One last thing…if all you want is for me to send you more pics of myself, please move on. I have posted several, so if you want more you are going to have to come and take them yourself. ? We can decide together

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