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Adela, 51
United States, Connecticut, Groton

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Friends tell me I'm funny, caring, smart, strong, compassionate and dependable. I am self employed, have been for over 9 years - I love the freedom of it. I am financially self sufficient- own my own home and putting one child through college with second one on the way. I'm a living breathing oxymoron (If you think I just called myself stupid, please don't bother to contact me-ever) I'm a suburban bohemian, a liberal conservative, a strong softy, an idiot savant in many things...I think you get the picture. I'm a bit of a round peg in a square holed world- which makes it rather hard to find a similar soul. I'm a mom to three young adults (the baby is 16 and getting more independent by the day). Time for mom to rediscover that yes, I"m a person too, not just a taxi, cheering section and guidance counselor...don't get me wrong, I love being a mom...just very ready to have a chance to be "me" again- and working on rediscovering who "me" is.I love live theater, the beach, amusement parks, museums, exploring new towns, red wine in winter, white in summer; conversation, getting lost in good book, PDA, cooking - comfort food is my specialty. But I think there is nothing better than to curl up on the couch with that special someone just cuddle and watch a movie. I am a home body- I love that people tell me my home is a comfortable place to be- inviting. I like to think it reflects who I am (in need of a little work, but homey and warm).What am I looking for? I am a conversationalist - I need someone looking for the same- with a sense of humor (points if you have a snarky or twisted sense of humor). Someone with an artistic sensibility. I am an odd mix of socially liberal and fiscally conservative with a generous helping of Libertarianism thrown in for good measure. My faith is important to me- want to find someone with similar beliefs. Basically- do you have a brain, a heart and a soul? If so I'd like to meet you.Good luck with your fishing. A great first meeting is a chance to get to know you and vise versa ...something casual- a long conversation over a cup of coffee. A first date that's a different story =) an unhurried dinner, with lots of conversation, a bottle of wine.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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