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Adela, 51
United States, Connecticut, Groton

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About Me

Friends tell me I'm funny, caring, smart, strong, compassionate and dependable. I am self employed, have been for over 9 years - I love the freedom of it. I am financially self sufficient- own my own home and putting one child through college with second one on the way. I'm a living breathing oxymoron (If you think I just called myself stupid, please don't bother to contact me-ever) I'm a suburban bohemian, a liberal conservative, a strong softy, an idiot savant in many things...I think you get the picture. I'm a bit of a round peg in a square holed world- which makes it rather hard to find a similar soul. I'm a mom to three young adults (the baby is 16 and getting more independent by the day). Time for mom to rediscover that yes, I"m a person too, not just a taxi, cheering section and guidance counselor...don't get me wrong, I love being a mom...just very ready to have a chance to be "me" again- and working on rediscovering who "me" is.I love live theater, the beach, amusement parks, museums, exploring new towns, red wine in winter, white in summer; conversation, getting lost in good book, PDA, cooking - comfort food is my specialty. But I think there is nothing better than to curl up on the couch with that special someone just cuddle and watch a movie. I am a home body- I love that people tell me my home is a comfortable place to be- inviting. I like to think it reflects who I am (in need of a little work, but homey and warm).What am I looking for? I am a conversationalist - I need someone looking for the same- with a sense of humor (points if you have a snarky or twisted sense of humor). Someone with an artistic sensibility. I am an odd mix of socially liberal and fiscally conservative with a generous helping of Libertarianism thrown in for good measure. My faith is important to me- want to find someone with similar beliefs. Basically- do you have a brain, a heart and a soul? If so I'd like to meet you.Good luck with your fishing. A great first meeting is a chance to get to know you and vise versa ...something casual- a long conversation over a cup of coffee. A first date that's a different story =) an unhurried dinner, with lots of conversation, a bottle of wine.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Hi! My name is Ingrid. I am widowed other caucasian woman without kids from Groton, Connecticut, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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  • Heidi from Groton | Woman | 54 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Hello, thank you for taking the time to look at my profile. I enjoy being outside this time of year as well as activities like movies, live theater, concerts, comedy or dining out, but I also like to stay home for dinner or a barbeque, watch a movie and snuggle with my guy. I am looking for a good friendship that can turn into a great love. I would like to meet someone who is kind and considerate, with a good sense of humor, who can make me smile as well as belly laugh occasionally. You will have to be affectionate and not afraid to show it and you should be comfortable with yourself so that I can be comfortable sharing anything with you. Your strong character and how you treat others will mean more to me than your business title or your toys. I am looking for that special person who can make a routine trip for groceries seem like a best date. I really just want to enjoy us and share what is next.I am a kind person and try to see the good in others. I would love to go for a walk or hike with you or head to the beach to enjoy a picnic at sunset. At some point, I would like to visit more of the national parks. I like many types of music, but country music is my favorite. I also like to listen to 70's rock...it brings me back to the good 'ol days! I subscribe to a local theater and enjoy seeing a good play.I have 3 great, loving kids who are all college age. On the special occasions when we are all able to be together, it is fun at this point to just sit back and watch them interact and have fun with each other. If you say hello, please include your photo. There may be something unique in your photograph or profile that makes me want to know more about you. Good luck to you in your search! I would like to meet and talk to see if we have any common interests and chemistry. We observe so much about someone once we actually meet; the tone of your voice, your smile, your eyes...let's see what happens!

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  • Wendy from Groton | Woman | 54 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Hellowould like to find a gentleman, thats close by, ***miles)Found this on a profile Love it, and it is what I want to find> Life only comes around once make sure u spend it with the right person .... Find a guy ... who calls you beautiful *** hot. who calls you back when you hang up on him. who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the guy who ... kisses your forehead. Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats. Who holds your hand in front of his friends. Who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you. Who turns to his friends and family and says, " That's her! I perfer to chat on the phone, get to know each other. Then go from there....

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