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Adrian, 52
United States, Connecticut, Groton

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Profile updated: Oct ***I know it's long but you should read it all first. I am freshly single (and excited and lustful and passionate) after 25 years with the wrong person... and leaping - OK, maybe tiptoeing but in my mind it feels like leaping, into my un-lived life. When I came here I thought... I don't want a relationship... hmmm... yes I do. I just don't want to jump in to one without taking some slow sweet time enjoying you and getting to know you first. I'm not in a rush and would rather it not be a 'doing laundry and getting groceries' relationship but I do want someone 'steady'. I believe what is meant to happen will present itself... and I'm open to everything ... just want to follow where my soul takes me. with hopes that at some point in my journey I will meet someone to really connect with and dare I say... fall in love. How am I going to get there? .. .I want to play with you - I want to have fun... that's the first step... you can't plan for when love happens, you can only plan to be ready for it when it does I want a connection, fun, lust and passion but a person who is happy with their life and isn't looking for a new one... just some fun and spice for the existing one.So me... my least favorite topic but one that I am ultimately the expert on... I enjoy spending time with friends, usually in someone's back yard with the BBQ, a game of cards, a few drinks..., camping and photography and spending time with my kids. I drink socially - when the mood strikes but I believe a little ***now and again can be good for the soul ;) (the question above is to vague)I'm into spiritual stuff. Meditation, psychics, laws of attraction, love & peace and 'be the change' kind of thing. But, it doesn't rule my life either - I don't consult the psychic's before making decisions or refuse to get out of bed if Scorpio's are in for a bad day.Love a person who is confident with a healthy glint of mischief in their eye.. and mind! - I have a bit of a sarcastic wit (not mean or cruel) and maybe a bit of an off center sense of humor. I love someone who can make me laugh! I also enjoy a good discussion that borders on debate but balk if it starts to get angry or aggressive.I would love to travel to interesting places but haven't really done much of it in the past. I also love to dance... and I'm not particularly good at it and I don't particularly care but I'd be willing to learn to be better... just not convinced it could happen LOLI am an introvert so I warm a little more slowly than most - and I'm not very bold - but once I feel comfortable, people quickly forget that I was ever shy - especially when the hippy in me comes out (very liberal and with strong opinions).I'm 5'***finding someone tall enough that I could look into your eyes standing up would be nice but......some of the greatest people I've ever known weren't tall enough for that - but I still looked up. So it's not all in the height :) and I am attracted to more women who lean towards feminine at least...I have a couple of tattoos and fake boobs (the real ones tried to kill me - I won the battle and have the scars to prove it but they hide well under lingerie ;***and if that freaks you out.. you aren't alone and I don't blame you - kind of freaks me out too! lol - I feel a need to be more specific... "fake boobs" is not the same as having had a 'boob job' - not particularly pretty (I call them frankenboobs) ... just fill the bra but I have very little sensation... I know "I" wouldn't be attracted to me... I like breasts... but I'm hoping there might be someone that doesn't care :)Wondering anything else? Ask - I am honest and answer questions easily.I ask for a picture to be available because I believe chemistry and attraction is important - it's not the only thing but it's important.I've added pictures - I don't think I've ever had this many pictures of me that I didn't delete - was channeling my inner model - I didn't know I had an inner model!I'm new at this so I think my profile is going to evolve as I figure it all out - Peace.* I'm not interested in men so I probably don't want to be a part of your threesome ;)* If you are just looking for a woman to tie you over until you find a man.... hmmmm... not really where I'm at right now*.. I drive A LOT and don't want any extra BUT that said,,, if you read this and say "but we'd be perfect together!" than by all means send me a message! can't turn down "perfect" can I :) Probably coffee or dessert with the option of extending if things are really going well. I prefer quieter places where I can hear you talk and you can hear me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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