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Phyllis, 51

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About Me

I have this desire, to find someone who is looking for me. Someone who wants to hang out, have fun, enjoy life, be there for me and knows I'll be there for him, enjoys family, traveling, being spontaneous, talking up a storm, dreaming, laughing, dancing, being silly, and loves to hold me and be together. No more texting for months, *** talking on the phone, etc. I love human interaction!! Ah just watched The Notebook again. Cried again. i'm such a sappy romantic. Will I ever find the man that wants to be there when we both get old and forgetful? Had a wonderful date with an old friend. He told me I was still as amazing as I always was. What a compliment. He told me to post it on here. He's a nut!! teehee So it's posted. teehee My new favorite quote: “In bad times and good, I have never lost my sense of zest for life.” –“Those who have never known the deep intimacy and the intense companionship of happy mutual love have missed the best thing that life has to give.” — I have followed my son's ambitions around forever. However, he's moved out and I'm living life as a woman with no band schedules to follow!! I love the Cubbies. I am a retired(meaning, too old-teehee) slow pitch softball and volleyball player. The body is not what it used to be. teeheee The heart and mind are willing!!! I love to go and do about anything. I raised my son from 1 to 12 with my family's help, got my bachelors degree during that time and have 19 years in the same employer. When I can, I would like to retire and do things that help others. Want someone who is just as stable!! Love life and when I do something it's full of passion and excitement. Love to do new things. Love to people watch. Love love love the sun, water and the beach. Moonlight strolls, sand volleyball, cuddling, and sharing life with someone who has the same passions and romance ideas about life I do!! Family will help you when you're down and just laugh to help you get thru things. I know God is not done with me yet and can't wait to see what He has in store for me!! Love action, romance and suspense movies(although, I'd have to hold on while it's getting good). No blood and guts. One thing I would love to say about you is: I LOVE THE WAY YOU HOLD ME! Jaime Grace sings an awesome song that describes this statement perfectly. I also am involved with the campus Habitat for Humanities group. They are an amazing group of college kids. Update: It's been fun looking thru all these profiles and checking out the different profiles. I think the only thing I want to add to mine is, I would love to find someone who wants to take care of me as I want to take care of them. Also, must love to talk to fit in with my overly talkative family! And if you don't smile naturally, thats a problem. life is to short to hold on to things that make you angry!!! Pretty much anything that entails, having fun, having plenty of time to talk and just getting to know each other. It's even better if he plans it. Show me who you are and I'll show you!!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Colette

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I AM NOT HERE TO E-MAIL BACK AND FORTH, AND IF I GET YOUR NUMBER I WANT TO TALK ON PHONE FIRST BEFORE WE START TEXTING...:) #justsaying IF YOU ARE NOT A "REAL" CHRISTIAN YOU NEED NOT E-MAIL ME.....THANKS (some men must not read my profile) Now want to find someone to live the dream with me...:) I STILL HAVE FAITH THERE IS SOMEONE SPECIAL FOR ME I HAVE MET SOME AWESOME MEN ON HERE, HOWEVER WHEN YOU SAY YOU ARE A CHRITIAN THEN YOU HAVE TO BE A REAL CHRISTIAN TO DATE ME...YOU MUST ALREADY BE IN CHURCH. I am simple out of the box type. I love the outdoors, hanging at the beach. I am always on the move, I Love movies but on the couch. I can wear a baseball cap and shorts or dress up for a date, I am not highmaintenance, just know how to get cute in 30 mins...lol....Freedom is important to me, be yourself,HONEST and open minded... My goal is to always do my best.I am very Unique and loads of fun...I live life to the fullest. I am a christian and attend church 2 times a week. our church is " Non Denominational" I like r&b music and old school and Christian music. I am looking for a nice, good looking man who takes care of himself and is a family man. I would love to have a committed relationship if the right man comes along. I am young at heart and really enjoy just having a good time. Also I would like to meet someone in this area who attends church and is a christian... I have been a hairstylist for 27 years, and have owned my own business now for 17years..... I am really an awesome person and we will get along great if you are a real christian and I must put all the above because men want to say one thing then after a few weeks THEY ARENT A CHRISTIAN,THEY QUIT GOING TO CHURCH, THERE MOUTH IS FILTHY AND THEN I MOVE ON. That Simple!!!!!!!!!!! Just meet and see if we have a connection....cause u can talk on the phone allll day long BUT until you are there with them, then you will know if there is a connection..:)

  • Cindy

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I would like to find someone close to home to date, maybe more. I love all the seasons that the PNW offers. I enjoy road trips to where ever times premits. Whomever I am with will need to be comfortable with holding hands... in public. I am a affection person and like showing it. I am not a fancy gal. I would rather have Daisies then Roses. I like to go to dinner every once in a while but happy with a nice dinner at home too. I usually have a Mary Poppins attitude with my every day life.Some things I like are, old barns, the smell of the ocean, finding small ways to pay it forward, antiques, milk chocolate, hot tea, and sweet tea. Tried cross country ski and snow shoeing, enjoy both, I need to spend more time to really get the hang of them both.I enjoy a wide verity of things:Football, Fishing, Volunteering, Nascar, Gardening,Baking Shock Football, Parades, Short Hikes, Cooking, Sewing, Car Shows Hockey games, Fairs, Monster Trucks, Kayaking, Social group events. Fall is here! I'm enjoying the fall colors, and what better way to see them is with a few more kayak trips and some short hikes. Live life like you are on vacation everyday!Good Luck Fishing! cm50 :) greetnmeets, I like to keep it simple and short. Chat a bit and decide if we wish to plan the real first date. First date would include an activity so we could interact a bit, and go someplace to catch a bite and talk a bit.

  • Shanna

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Some insight into who I am and what I am looking for in a relationship.I'm looking for someone who likes frequent physical and emotional connection, but do not want to lose my identity as an individual, another words I want us to be able to be ourselves in all aspects of the relationship. Someone who desires and reciprocates intimacy as much as I do. Someone who believes, and acts on the belief that the intimacy of a relationship is sacred, therefore being monogamous and not just a roll in the hay, this is my second most important "must have" in a relationship. I'm a touchy, feely kind of person who needs someone who can show affection and enjoys receiving affection, such as frequent tickles, holding hands, public hugs and kisses or light touches. What I'm saying is that we become best friends then move forward.I'm looking for someone who can express affection openly and directly – such as spontaneous compliments, frequent “I love you’s,” or simply a kiss or hug (by the way the best hug is when someone wraps their arms around you from behind).Someone who is willing to understand me, thereby accepting an equal share of responsibility in maintaining open and honest communication in the relationship, this is my most important "must have" in a relationship.I need a partner who has a good degree of energy, enthusiasm and self-efficacy, someone who enjoys life and lives everyday smiling and laughing.

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