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Phyllis, 51
United States, Virginia, Poquoson

Offline, last seen Tue, 28 Oct 2025 06:39:53

About Me

I have this desire, to find someone who is looking for me. Someone who wants to hang out, have fun, enjoy life, be there for me and knows I'll be there for him, enjoys family, traveling, being spontaneous, talking up a storm, dreaming, laughing, dancing, being silly, and loves to hold me and be together. No more texting for months, *** talking on the phone, etc. I love human interaction!! Ah just watched The Notebook again. Cried again. i'm such a sappy romantic. Will I ever find the man that wants to be there when we both get old and forgetful? Had a wonderful date with an old friend. He told me I was still as amazing as I always was. What a compliment. He told me to post it on here. He's a nut!! teehee So it's posted. teehee My new favorite quote: “In bad times and good, I have never lost my sense of zest for life.” –“Those who have never known the deep intimacy and the intense companionship of happy mutual love have missed the best thing that life has to give.” — I have followed my son's ambitions around forever. However, he's moved out and I'm living life as a woman with no band schedules to follow!! I love the Cubbies. I am a retired(meaning, too old-teehee) slow pitch softball and volleyball player. The body is not what it used to be. teeheee The heart and mind are willing!!! I love to go and do about anything. I raised my son from 1 to 12 with my family's help, got my bachelors degree during that time and have 19 years in the same employer. When I can, I would like to retire and do things that help others. Want someone who is just as stable!! Love life and when I do something it's full of passion and excitement. Love to do new things. Love to people watch. Love love love the sun, water and the beach. Moonlight strolls, sand volleyball, cuddling, and sharing life with someone who has the same passions and romance ideas about life I do!! Family will help you when you're down and just laugh to help you get thru things. I know God is not done with me yet and can't wait to see what He has in store for me!! Love action, romance and suspense movies(although, I'd have to hold on while it's getting good). No blood and guts. One thing I would love to say about you is: I LOVE THE WAY YOU HOLD ME! Jaime Grace sings an awesome song that describes this statement perfectly. I also am involved with the campus Habitat for Humanities group. They are an amazing group of college kids. Update: It's been fun looking thru all these profiles and checking out the different profiles. I think the only thing I want to add to mine is, I would love to find someone who wants to take care of me as I want to take care of them. Also, must love to talk to fit in with my overly talkative family! And if you don't smile naturally, thats a problem. life is to short to hold on to things that make you angry!!! Pretty much anything that entails, having fun, having plenty of time to talk and just getting to know each other. It's even better if he plans it. Show me who you are and I'll show you!!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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