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Alejandra, 52

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I'm a 40-something (*see update below) that doesn't feel much older than 30...I play my music too loud (according to my kids), drive a little too fast...and make my coffee a little too strong. I don't have a specific age range in mind, but I do listen to current music (yes, that includes rap, alt. rock, etc. - country, not so much) and still like to go out (occasionally) to a club/bar and dance. I especially like some of the live music outdoor concerts in the summer. (Actually, almost ANY summertime outdoor activity - bonus points if it includes water!)Basically, I'm a happy person and can't go too long without a good laugh...I tend to believe the best in people (until they prove me wrong)and am easy-going to a point (the Sicilian side can be brought to the surface when necessary!) I've lived in Central NY for many years so the LI accent is almost gone! Loved raising my kids in a small town...but it's not so great for meeting people.PS - I try to answer *** the 'looking for intimate encounter' category...responding to messages will block you from talking to some people...also, prefer an *** introduction rather than IMing...like to 'know' who I'm talking to!*UPDATE: Guess I'm not a 40-something anymore *SOB*...but I'm sticking to the rest of the description...ok maybe I feel more like 31 now haha. Nothing unique here - I think a good first date would be meeting for coffee. Maybe some quiet place for a drink if all goes well! Someplace conducive to some talking would be good. Usually it's apparent fairly quickly if there's any chemistry.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jordan

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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-33

    Hi! My name is Jordan. I am never married other caucasian woman without kids from Leesburg, Virginia, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Christa

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    *****Disclaimer - if you are not a Christian, 100% Single and available PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME!! Thank you .Do you believe in MAGIC? Well, I believe there is that magic moment when two soul mates meet, our eyes lock and we both know we want to learn more and experience more magical moments like this. I am looking to meet Mr. Right for me not Mr. Right for now, a man who loves the Lord, is genuinely wanting to have a relationship that demonstrates RESPECT, CHILVARY, and HONESTY.So, if you believe you are my Knight in Shining Armor that can sweep me off my feet and create our own magic, please don't hesitate another moment and let me know. “Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away”. This quote holds dear to my heart. I am a vibrant & fun loving southern lady who truly wants to have “no regrets” in life. So, I find the good in everyone, laugh a lot and encourage those around me. My adventurous side keeps me passionate about Living, Laughing & Loving. I can be serious when I need to be but I also can be a fireball of fun. I want someone to share my goals and dreams where I can support them in their endeavors and share their interest as well. It's a good thing for us to have some differences so we can complement one another.I aspire to be the change I want to see in this world. With my sense of humor and my passion for life; it's never a dull moment with me. As for music, I have to say I love the oldies(50's) for it brings out the energy for dancing, throw in some Jazz & R&B for those relaxing times and gotta have my fill of my teenage memories of the good 'ole 70 & 80's. I generally listen to Contemporary Christian and sometimes a little country. I DON'T like RAP or Hard Rock. I'm very involved in my church as well as community outreach ministries. I have been afforded an incredible opportunity which enables me to help a lot of people that are struggling in today's hard economic times. I teach Extreme Couponing which helps the families in my community to simply save money for almost anything you want to buy. My friends call me the "discount diva". It's so much fun and feels really good when you can take many bags of food and household supplies to someone who is in need of help and share the happiness of giving as well as them receiving. God has given me a special gift and I pay it forward and share it with as many people as possible. I have reached a time in my life that I am ready to write a new chapter in my book of life that will hopefully include the "love of my life" as we start our journey & discover we are only ordinary by ourselves but can be extraordinary together. Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending. I know in my heart, God has a wonderful, devoted, loving, caring, supportive, fun-loving, God fearing man out there for me somewhere. Oh, it is a bonus if they smell really good too. ;) I'm very excited to see if my true soul mate is on this virtual world of dating website.After much deliberation, I have decided to give this virtual world of dating a whirl. I am very selective as I know what I'm looking for and I would hope you are the same. I'm not on here to play mind games nor am I into serial dating. But if you are tired of the broken or mismatched relationships or dates and you are truly looking to find a genuine, loving & God fearing lady who travels light (tiny little carry-on) and is not afraid of commitment, then I would love to talk to you.Also, I would like to meet a man who DOES NOT have children living at home. Been there, done that - IT DON'T WORK!!! If they have flown the nest (off to college, married, etc..) then that is wonderful. Random thoughts - I'm afraid of heights, highly allergic to cats, I love RED, and Zumba . You may find me wearing jeans and cowboy boots or in a little black dress with stilettos ready for a night on the town. I'm comfortable in either.Well, I believe that's enough about me for now as I'm excited to know something about YOU. Have to leave something to talk about later on - LOL. Thanks for stopping by and taking time to get a little insight into my world. I will leave you with this wonderful quote from Augustine – “There is no labor where one loves, or if there is, the labor itself is loved.” I'm a little adventurous , so I would probably go for more than just a "coffee date". Of course after talking, the decision will be mutually decided, but I like the possibility of taking a picnic to a park, and having a chance to be "real" for the first impression. Sitting and chatting while having coffee can make you put your guard up and not allow your "real" self to come out. Put on some shorts, t-shirts, sandals and let's experience a picnic, throwing the Frisbee and if you have a dog - she/he could definitely join us for some fun.Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. ©

  • Alma

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am a very caring, down to earth person, soft-spoken and I do not judge people. I am genuine with my thoughts and feelings. I am not wild and crazy but sometimes I can be!!! Little things in life mean a lot to me as I've been through a lot (as I'm sure weall have been at some point in our lives). I do not need a lot of materialistic things to get through life. Again, little things aremost important.... friends, having close relationships, a smile, kindness to one another. Keeping the Lord close to your hearthelps with that happiness. You'll usually see me with a smile on my face and a positive attitude and a bubbly personality....I love to travel... U.S. and abroad, love cruises too! Ice Hockey is one of my favorites (watching that is) and enjoy watching most sports in general. I do like to stay active as I like to stay in shape. I play co-ed volleyball, enjoy camping, riding bikes, going to the beach or themountains.... but I really like the beach! I am almost always willing to try something at least once.I have grown children now. One in college and one in her last years of high school. It is now time for me to start living my life andinvesting time with someone special. Hopefully to spend the rest of my life with (him).I believe a strong friendship can only lead to having a strong relationship that could last a lifetime. I believe it is important to get toknow a person as a friend first. Life is too short to spend it alone. Why not spend it with someone that could possibly make you happy? If you find any of this appealing drop in and say hello. The inside of the book is what one should learn about *** the cover on the outside! You'll never know unless you try...... First date would be something we both agree on

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