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Lydia, 53

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About Me

Well, here I am in the big sea of fish sailing along wondering what kind of bites I may get! A nibble would be a good way to start off and see where it goes don't you think? I would be interested in a long term relationship but friendship first and see where things go I am not wanting to rush into anything at this point!.......Im looking for someone that I can surpass those 90 days and take it in for a tune up....LOL I am outgoing,always smiling, spontanious and live in the moment....Yesterday is gone, tomorrow is not here so I live in the present not wanting to miss out on what today brings....I am very independent I don't need someone in my life I choose to have someone in my life! So if you have time to make someone a priority rather than an option well just maybe we could be a good match! I do believe that there should be some what of a chemisty however, the key is to keep that chemistry going strong and it takes both involved to keep the fire burning....Question is do you have what it takes to keep that fire and passion going are you a giver or a taker?I have a few of quotes that I really like: "We make our own destiny in life, some people wait for things to happen some choose to make it happen. "Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option” "Faith is taking the first step" even when you don't see the whole staircase" "Life is not about findng yourself, it's about creating yourself" "The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances; if there is any reaction, both are transformed.”I work in the medical field as a dental assistant/financial coordinator and love what I do..........!...There is nothing like a cabin in the woods.............I enjoy fishing bait my own hook and take my fish off, I enjoy boatng, motorcycles, car shows, laying on the beach, hiking in the mountains, ...Love all outdoor activities!Blue jeans or dress up both are great! I have a zest for life and I am not looking for Mr. Perfect I am looking for Mr. Right for me....If your not wanting to invest the time into friendship then I am probalby not what your looking for.... I would like to find someone with similar interest although having your own set of interest is great too...Having a set of morals and values that are similar but doesn't have to be the same. If your a giver, a pleaser, have empathy for others, a goal setter, a risk taker, have respect for others and know the difference between not having to always agree but are able to have empathy and understanding then you would fit right in...**Simple Request** If you are married, engaged, dating someone, just our of a relationship or marriage I would not be interested~~ I don't mind a tote bag but not baggage~~ OK the first interview (LOL) I would say meeting at a local spot where we both would be comfortable for some great conversaton. As I always say "Don't set expectations therefore you won't be disappointed"

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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