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Bettie, 54

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About Me

I am looking for someone to build a serious relationship with and that starts with a friendship first. Im not someone who NEEDS but enjoy having a relationship. I'm searching for a person who wants to actively seek to know and understand each other and build a friendship, someone who enjoys spending time together. However I'm not talking about moving in or spend every awaken moment together but someone who wants to build a real, caring, sharing, honest connection, someone willing to put effort behind their words. Not into playing games but respectful of each other time and life. I enjoy laughter, humor, smiles, fun teasing, laying in bed talking, passionate looks, giving from the heart, movies, great communication, road trips to no where, family, love gifts, honesty, debating issues (as long as it doesn't become a personal attack), music, plays, concerts, adventures and staying home doing nothing. I want someone who is able and willing to talk and work through issues from cultural differences, personal traits, wrong assumptions to personality faults. I am seeking a friendship with a passionate man who is a generous lover with his body, time and mind. I don't need rescued or taken care of but I want a friend (and then someday a partner), someone who makes me think and laugh! Someone who will communicate their thoughts, belief's, fears, aspirations, goals, dreams and fantasies. People say no drama well if you live in this world our life has drama. Its how you deal with it that makes the difference, are you consumed by it or do you make wise choices to resolve the problem. I not going to come to your home uninvited but I will call you out when I think you are treating me disrespectful. I don't do craziness.If your just looking for sex that's not what I am looking for. Sex without a connection (caring feeling for one another) is like a shower without soap, its only a temporary fix. Depends on how much communicating we have do before we meet.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lucia

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I love live music and dancing. I have lots of friends and have fun no matter what I'm doing. I've been told that I'm mysterious. My favorite things include practical jokes, Halloween, Jay Leno's headlines and Irish cream in my coffee.I am attracted to tall guys, beards / mustaches are a plus.Sorry, but I am just not into motorcycles, and if I am taller than you there is a good chance I wont respond. As the song says......The first step, is the 2step....

  • Frankie

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Hello....a bit about meMy children are now adults, one with a family of their own.I am spending more time doing things for me. I have started focusing on me and what makes me happy. I am learning more and more about myself everyday.......I will be 58 this year..... I don't consider myself as being 'old fashion' but I am very much a romantic and a moral women. I am very family oriented and look forward to getting to know your family. I love a confident and respectful man. I think a man that has accomplished his goals in life is a happier person, and shows strength.... but I am not impressed with your car, your house, your money, or your job. Those are YOUR things! I don't need them....I have my own things.People have become so cynical over the things that they have experienced in life that no one trusts anyone anymore. " I am not the women who broke your heart, cleaned out your retirement, fought you in court...etc." I am a woman who enjoys being a woman. I love giving affection and receiving it, Don't make me pay for something someone else did to you.I am impressed with your sincerity, your heart, and your willingness to share your life with someone. I am not a serial dater. I don't need a lot of men attention to validate myself. Just one to hold near and dear to me, and he to me.. I know what I want at this point in life. I as everyone else, has been through bad times....but I haven't allowed anyone to "break" my spirit or change what I believe relationships should be. As a woman I am a nurturer, a care giver. I love doing the small things for "my" man. I love to cook and bake for you, and sit at the table and have meals with you. I like to massage your back, listen to how your day went, and offer you that "soft" place where you don't have to do anything but relax. I will ask how your day went because I want to know. I want a man that is equally not afraid of taking care of "me"....his woman and do the small things for me, you know the things women hate to do like fall yard clean up, shopping for tires for my car, or getting the oil changed or just holding me when I need to be held. Women may call me "weak" and men may think I am "am easily manipulated" I assure you... I am neither. I just know that when you truly love yourself, you will have no problem loving someone else! I am not perfect nor do I expect perfection. Just honesty. GQ,.but, you need to be healthy, as we need to dance, walk, live a long life. I am a size 12, not a size 6 or even a 10..I am curvy, and haven't had any complaints. ;-)I do not like arguing or drama! I have had enough of that to last a lifetime. If I offend you I will always apologize and help you to feel better, pride has its place but it is not between me and mine! I am not afraid are you?If in your photos, you are holding something dead or wearing Camo...we probably won't be a good fit.....If you have money problems, ex wife issues or "problem" adult children... abuse alcohol or drugs, we won't be a match......I am getting much too old for drama! Speaking of old...I am 58 this year...not sure why it says 55 doesn't matter I look young and I feel young and I can't change my age on here or in real life, as we get older another birthday is a privilege!I know your out there.... Your turn.........A clear rejection is always better than a fake promise...

  • Gay

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I enjoy good company..Sitting by a bonfire with that special someone,cooking and creating something differant ,inviting friends and family over for meals .I like boats ,swimming,walking ,hiking , sports , watching the differant birds at the lake .I am an animal lover of all kinds of animals ,60,70,80,music rock and roll as long as its not to heavy metal .Socials and dancing , cuddling on the couch with a good movie . Having a glass of wine and a good meal .Going to the dog Park with my daughters dog . There are many things just ask and i will tell. I am a sensitive women with a big heart with lots of hugs to give to the right guy .

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