Total users: 56,919,132 Online users: 204,745
Ophelia, 51
United States, Virginia, Gainesville

Offline, last seen Thu, 08 May 2025 22:02:15

About Me

So, this is the new way to meet people, that's what my friends say. I am still a little unsure about that, but thought I would give it a shot. I was married for 15 years and lost my husband over two years ago. I never thought I would be able to move on from that, but I guess it is time. I have a lot of family and some very close friends, but now am ready for some companionship and eventually hope to find love and intimacy again.I am looking for someone who doesn't take life too seriously, doesn't sweat the small stuff. Someone who will hold my hand when we are walking and listen to my stories even if you don't care about what happend at my work. I love to make people laugh and can be a little sarcastic at times I enjoy a good comedy over a chick flick. Anchorman still makes me laugh!! I am low maintenance and don't have a lot of drama, well I am a woman so there has to be some drama. I have two basset hounds who I have adopted from a rescue group. I volunteer with a basset hound rescue group and my dogs are a very important part of my life. I miss them a lot so if you have kids/grand kids, that would be good with me. I love kids. I enjoy almost all sports -- watching them or going to them. My Sundays are saved for football and NASCAR. I love going to D-Backs and Coyotes games. I do go to the gym and am working on being healthier. I would love to start hiking, seems everyone on this site hikes! I don't do much camping, the last time I camped was at the NASCAR race in February and that was in a 5th wheel with running water. I do enjoy outdoor activities, the movies, rock concerts, all the basic stuff.Don't judge a book by it's cover, open it up, you might be surprised by what you find!! Something simple, a drink or a bite to eat. We have all been down this road before, so let's not play games, let's just see if we like each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

French Spanish
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Hope from Gainesville | Woman | 53 years old | Gemini
    Hope

    Offline

    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I really don't like the thought of being on a dating website. But figured I would give it a shot....you never know. I love all kinds of music. I like going out once in a while to hear a band and have some good ol fun.I don't really feel like writing about how I like the beach..have my boaters license...motorcycle license (just sold it) ..etc...etc.. If we get to know each other....and things work out... It doesn't really matter what I write on here....:o) :o)but one more thing... I love kissing the right person. I believe its all in the kiss! meet for a drink...see if there's a spark...n hopefully go on a 2nd date.

    Chat
  • Rhoda from Gainesville | Woman | 53 years old | Capricorn
    Rhoda

    Offline

    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Smart & funny, love to have fun but know when responsiblities need to come first. Love the down time when it's just two people enjoying each others company and also love the energy of a group of people having a great time. Put the time in to get my life in order & looking for the same in a guy, each can handle the day to day challenges on our own, but enjoy sharing the fun times with the one that lights up when you see them. Enjoy kissing & spoiling a guy with the little things in life. First date would be perfect to start someplace quiet to talk & get to know a little about each other, chemistry begins when you are face to face, if both are interested then off to someplace for a little fun, maybe dancing, sporting event, comedy club, where your guard is down & it's fun to get to know each other better & finishing off the evening with some amazing kissing!!!!

    Chat
  • Roslyn from Gainesville | Woman | 55 years old | Capricorn
    Roslyn

    Offline

    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I am here to find someone to share my life with ! I simi-retired with many interest of lifes pleasures. I have a home, car and income so I am not looking for someone to support me. I am not a gold digger lololo just a real woman/with a little girl inside, that wants to find the last love of her life !I have had the big houses, cars, sailboats and money so its not about that for me ! I am looking for a man that wants to enjoy life together. If its just a drive to the beach, mountains, or a hike, or snuggled up together reading, just the littlest things are sometimes the best. I have fished and hunted with the best of them, sailed and canoed till I could not move, camped since I was a kid and have traveled throughout Europe. I love all cultures and their expressions of life and love and foods. There is not too much I wont try and enjoy most all foods. Have never been a drinker, but do enjoy wine and some spirits. I Love having my family and friends around and entertaining. I have always been very social but I am just as comfortable being alone and quiet with my own thoughts or the enjoyment of reading a good book somewhere quiet. I am comfortable with the woman I am today. I wake up with a good attitude looking forward to what the day will bring. Humor & Laughter are some of the most important ingredients to health and happiness in my book. If you cant laugh at yourself and find humor in the simplest things in life, then really how much fun could life be. I like most music except hard rock and anything that screaches noise *** words. lololoI could tell you all about myself with my past and my present, but there needs to be some mystery and this would be a book if I went on an on, as I am sure this is with each of us. We all have a story to tell, good or bad and getting to know each other is part of the fun.Its time for me now to take that step in meeting someone special and sharing all of me. I am still learning everyday, so to find a man that compliments me and I him along with being able to learn from each other would be amazing !But know the games in life that people play is not for me, nor has it ever been, I am very upfront and honest sometimes to a fault when it comes down to it. But with that saying, I would rather be real and honest then not. I am not on here to waste your time let alone mine, for life is too precious and short to bring past baggage into something new, so please have your lifes baggae in order or shipped off, so it does not intrude or cause undue stress or harm to me in anyway. I love life too much to fight or argue or carry harsh feelings toward anyone for any reason. My life is about LOVE and GOD first and formost, not negative enegry. So if you are truly interested then send me a Hello with a profile picture and if I am interested with you, I will write back ! And if not, then all we can do is keep FISHING :) Good Luck ! with Safe Travels, Namaste A nice walk along the water then some coffee or tea and good conversation with laughter, if you can handle that !

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: