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Ophelia, 51
United States, Virginia, Gainesville

Offline, last seen Tue, 13 Jan 2026 02:29:04

About Me

So, this is the new way to meet people, that's what my friends say. I am still a little unsure about that, but thought I would give it a shot. I was married for 15 years and lost my husband over two years ago. I never thought I would be able to move on from that, but I guess it is time. I have a lot of family and some very close friends, but now am ready for some companionship and eventually hope to find love and intimacy again.I am looking for someone who doesn't take life too seriously, doesn't sweat the small stuff. Someone who will hold my hand when we are walking and listen to my stories even if you don't care about what happend at my work. I love to make people laugh and can be a little sarcastic at times I enjoy a good comedy over a chick flick. Anchorman still makes me laugh!! I am low maintenance and don't have a lot of drama, well I am a woman so there has to be some drama. I have two basset hounds who I have adopted from a rescue group. I volunteer with a basset hound rescue group and my dogs are a very important part of my life. I miss them a lot so if you have kids/grand kids, that would be good with me. I love kids. I enjoy almost all sports -- watching them or going to them. My Sundays are saved for football and NASCAR. I love going to D-Backs and Coyotes games. I do go to the gym and am working on being healthier. I would love to start hiking, seems everyone on this site hikes! I don't do much camping, the last time I camped was at the NASCAR race in February and that was in a 5th wheel with running water. I do enjoy outdoor activities, the movies, rock concerts, all the basic stuff.Don't judge a book by it's cover, open it up, you might be surprised by what you find!! Something simple, a drink or a bite to eat. We have all been down this road before, so let's not play games, let's just see if we like each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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