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Ophelia, 51

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About Me

So, this is the new way to meet people, that's what my friends say. I am still a little unsure about that, but thought I would give it a shot. I was married for 15 years and lost my husband over two years ago. I never thought I would be able to move on from that, but I guess it is time. I have a lot of family and some very close friends, but now am ready for some companionship and eventually hope to find love and intimacy again.I am looking for someone who doesn't take life too seriously, doesn't sweat the small stuff. Someone who will hold my hand when we are walking and listen to my stories even if you don't care about what happend at my work. I love to make people laugh and can be a little sarcastic at times I enjoy a good comedy over a chick flick. Anchorman still makes me laugh!! I am low maintenance and don't have a lot of drama, well I am a woman so there has to be some drama. I have two basset hounds who I have adopted from a rescue group. I volunteer with a basset hound rescue group and my dogs are a very important part of my life. I miss them a lot so if you have kids/grand kids, that would be good with me. I love kids. I enjoy almost all sports -- watching them or going to them. My Sundays are saved for football and NASCAR. I love going to D-Backs and Coyotes games. I do go to the gym and am working on being healthier. I would love to start hiking, seems everyone on this site hikes! I don't do much camping, the last time I camped was at the NASCAR race in February and that was in a 5th wheel with running water. I do enjoy outdoor activities, the movies, rock concerts, all the basic stuff.Don't judge a book by it's cover, open it up, you might be surprised by what you find!! Something simple, a drink or a bite to eat. We have all been down this road before, so let's not play games, let's just see if we like each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Polly

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I have been single for a while, by choice. I am looking for the right guy and I am willing to take my time. I do not generally write back to the "wants to meet you". I don't always respond to inquires (not because I am being mean) but I may have read something in your profile that did not appeal to me. I also look at distance as criteria for dating. You're not going to want to travel over an hour every time we want to date. I'm being realistic. Don't be a hater. It is what it is. I am a single mother of two girls (one home; one on her own) and they are a big part of my life. However, being a happy person with their own life means knowing how to balance motherhood and personal time for yourself. I think I do manage to balance my life and that makes me a very happy person. I am very independent and self sufficient, HOWEVER, that does not mean that I do not need a man in my life. I do. I need HIM to complete me (yes the movie was right). Many things I can do for myself, but a man in my life will make me feel like a woman, give me someone that I strive to make happy and I would love the big warm safe arms wrapped around me. I am very versatile. I enjoy trying anything at least once before I make a decision whether or not I like it or not. This includes foods, music, activities, travel and many other things. I don't like to limit myself to a box......so I am always excited about trying new things.The photos of myself are mostly current. A couple are from last year. I think you should post a current picture. Posting pictures from the past are not good when you go for that first date and you can''t find the person and they are right in front of you. This is the first step to honesty. I love the weather. I love the outdoor adventures that you can partake in because we have great weather. Not fond of the cold, but I can ski and make a snowman if needed. I take weekend trips with girl friend whenever we can afford it or get a weekend to do it in. It's fun to get away. I hope this explains a little about who I am and what I like to do. And good luck in your endeavors. I want to go somewhere we can talk and see if we have the chemistry to go farther. I'll leave it up to you decide how much you want to invest in our first meeting. I am ok with coffee, drinks, dinner, outdoor concert, or what ever you can think of. You do not have to try to impress me with where we meet, just impress me with YOU.

  • Therese

    Online

    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Do you believe that there is someone out there that you'd like to spend the rest of your life with? Are you done with one night stands and flings? Have your standards elevated such that you'll accept nothing short of your perfect match? Are you my last date? I like the phrase "life isn't about the number of breaths you take, it's about the moments that take your breath away." I want to be breathless. All (pets and the kids) have found other homes.I live simply. My work is walking distance. I drive a truck because I like the independence it provides me. When I need something I use cash. When I pay my tuition for the next life chapter, it'll already be in the bank.I'm a nature girl who also enjoys dressing up for dancing and evening celebrations. I take care of myself and I make time for friends and family. Hobbies include city explorations and mountain hikes. Good friends, good wine and great conversation. My work is where I go to earn a living but it's not my life. My life is at the foot of the mountain or just before the movie starts or at the cafe with a good friend. I want to share what I am and express my willingness to be part of something important. A relationship with someone is an enormous responsibility and a treasured gift. I enjoy road trips, camping, (yurt, tent, cabin), playing pool, darts, poker though I don't care for the bar scene. I like the desert, the trees, the fishing, the swimming and exploring. I love to find quiet places in nature to appreciate all its wonder.About you:First off, if you're under 45, over 65, or insistent that I chat with you about your sexual interests, please move on.Also, there's a few extra pounds and then there's obese. Please know the difference.You have matured without hangups and negative ideas. You are a life liver who is not seeking a bimbo but rather a person to share experiences with. You are familiar with some local and remote trails and seek to venture more. You have grown (or no) children and you don't smoke. out of the heat....quiet...good wine/coffee/other...maybe people watching place

  • Catherine

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I love the sun and outdoors, love to to hear live bands, see movies, have dinner out, laugh with friends, take nice walks exploring, go dancing. I am a beginning hiker. Love the views here. My kids are grown so I have more "me time". I have 2 daughters I love spending time with. And a good group of friends and family. I love to laugh. I work alot so I really like to enjoy my time off. Thinking about getting a pet, any ideas?! Looking for someone to hang out with, travel, cook dinner together, go for walks. Looking for a partner to do some exploring on my new adventure. I hope to hear from you. I like all kinds of music, especially the kind you can dance to. First date it's nice to get a drink or cup of coffee, relaxed, have a nice conversation, learn more about each other and see what we have in common. I go in with the hopes of making a new friend, but if something more develops that's just a bonus.

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