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Paula, 54

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About Me

confident, easy going and inherently shy until you get to know me. I'm conservative but I certainly know when to let my hair down. After being married for 25 years and now 'reinventing' myself, I'm looking for the last love of my life. I'd rather not waste my time dating a hundred different men but rather take my time and get it right. I don't think you can know someone after the 3rd or 4th date, so if you're in a big hurry for something then I'm not the girl for you. I prefer men who are at least 6 ft. tall with dark hair. I am not a fan of tattoos or piercings, sorry. Don't want to insult anybody but I'm more into the clean cut type. I tend to stay clear of men who post expensive cars, boats, planes and cars with their profile. Once upon a time I had all that stuff and to me it's just that, stuff. Looking for a man who's not trying to prove anything. I quiet location where we can talk. Did someone say, ice cream?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dorthy

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    My children are grown and I'm on that next phase of life. I love music and love to sing. I've appeared on National television several times. There is one performance I found on YouTube from when I a teenager. If your interested in seeing it you can type in the search box " The Gong Show Ginger ***". my act begins around 10:10 into the show. LOL The Gong Show. I won both day and night judged shows and Mr.Barris wanted me to a non judged appearance. I love animals probably from being raised on a part of my life. I feel like I have two parts to me. Enjoy dressing up to the 9's and doing something nice in the city, then returning back home and put my jeans on to relax back to the farm part of me. I don't play games and I can be pretty forward. Then, I can also be quiet and reserved. The love of your life for me is your best friend you make love with and at the end when all the physical no longer exists. Both of them can still hold hands on the porch and enjoy each others communication, kiss and laughter. Memories we made are what we look at in the end to remind us of our life journey so too me its more about who your making them with not what your doing. I'm not apposed to moving out of State or the Country. I'm an old fashioned type that prefers the traditional female role in a relationship. I'm not opposed to Pen Pal's either. If your a BAD BOY type. Please feel free to get down with your BAD self just do it somewhere else, not with me.lol Happy hunting to you all and thank you for stopping by.Note : Please don't make assumptions about me. Get to know me ***'s ? That's up for suggestions. Plus it lets me see some of your creative side.

  • Elvira

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am a nurse with grown children. Was married two times...14 years each time...wow, that seems like such a long time when seen in writing! I am a little over two years out from my second divorce, and am just beginning to consider dating again. I am happy with my life and who I am. I am very honest, a bit blunt, and will not tolerate game playing or deceit.

  • Willa

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I’ve been a widow now for a little over 4 years. Quite simply I no longer want to be alone. I’m ready to share the companionship and intimacy of a quality relationship. I want to live the love songs once again.I enjoy simple things...believing that true pleasure is found in who you share with rather than what you do. I like to laugh, and I especially enjoy making you laugh. I enjoy sharing a warming fire, watching it’s mesmerizing dance; evenings watching the stars sparkle; the roll of thunder and the amazing power of lightning in the distance. I love the smell of freshly cut grass and Stargazer Lilies.I love road trips…the highway is in my blood! I like to do almost anything that involves water...boating, swimming, hot tubs, and kayaking (only done this once and thoroughly enjoyed it). I would much rather swim than sweat!I enjoy cooking for someone that loves food. I enjoy watching musicians perform their craft. I DON’T play games!!! I would ask the same in return. Being emotionally available is essential. Any enduring relationship begins with at least a few common interests, chemistry, and friendship. These are the avenues we investigate through dating, communicating, and spending time together. If a long term relationship develops its a wonderful thing. If not, at least we have found a friend worth having in our lives.Becoming a widow has taught me to never take anything...and especially anyone...for granted. Every day, every smile, every glance is a gift to be appreciated and treasured.I believe in sweet secrets and sweeter surprises.Chemistry is essential. If the kiss doesn’t fit, neither will anything else! Again...I believe in passion, tenderness and communication. I love romance and candlelight and the simple yet profound message conveyed by a caress. I have NO taste for champagne. I cannot live without my quad latte. Chocolate is a necessity of life.I like my wine cold. I don’t do beer.I hate cleaning bathrooms!!!..and I love sleeping through it. I enjoy camping out in the pines (preferably near water). I especially love the sound of the breeze as it passes through the branches, the scent of the forest and the peacefulness it brings to my spirit. Few things delight the senses like the smell of a campfire. Please note: I DON’T DO TENTS!!I would rather share conversation over dinner, coffee or a glass of wine *** a movie, and prefer watching that movie all tangled up together on the couch.My friends tell me I am a “special” woman. I sometimes wonder just exactly what THAT is supposed to mean?!! I think I have a pretty good sense of humor; sometimes clever. Usually intelligent and believe myself to be articulate enough to carry my end of the conversation.I appreciate the hand holding and stolen kisses of a living romance…the tender touches and meaningful glances of shared affection. I am a woman with a tender heart, true intent, integrity, character, passion and fire. I am a woman of worth. I AM Gemini.I am looking for a man of balance, integrity and strong character. A man of skill and talent. A man that has a desire and the ability to live in harmony despite the challenges. A man who can love and accept me for who I am (and who I am yet to become) without a need to change me. In reality, the only one we can change is ourselves.I seek someone that has no need or desire to control or govern me, who is tolerant of my flaws and is patient as we explore, learn and help each other to grow throughout the many lessons that life still holds for us.I am seeking that special someone to share the many joys available to us in this existence and live the love songs together. I look forward to the adventure of learning one another...and who we are together.If you’ve managed to read this far I must thank you for your time and interest. Intrigued? Questions? Send me a message. Perhaps we can get acquainted. A simple meeting that allows us to be comfortable, converse and get acquainted further. I'm open to suggestions

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