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Nanette, 49

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WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects-you DO NOT have the permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.We can really say whatever we want in this small box, but I believe it all boils down to how much real intimacy two people each need, are capable of giving, are capable of receiving, and do those depths match up?I think I've put my finger on what "chemistry" means to me.... my professional life is filled with very serious painful stories everyday......what my love life needs to be, is that place where we just smile and laugh and touch and tell interesting stories about important and unimportant stuff....a lot. I like people who are a mix of impulsive and calming. I love words. Chemistry is being with a man who knows how to help that happen. When 2 people fully show up, whether it's to tackle a problem, to share a meal, to take an adventure, to make love.......that's Chemistry.Here's why not to fall madly in love with me: I am crazy busy with a very intense life. My children and I have been through the Hell of battling and losing my husband to cancer. I do not have the luxury of a partner in parenting so I cannot count on my "free" time (drool). Men who are "simple" or avoidant always end up frustrated with me. OK I'm sure a huge amount of you have signed off by now....so what else? I'm passionate, affectionate, funny, and practice honesty as a never ending character builder. This means I don't lie, not even the so called "white" kind and expect the same in return. Cooking is my therapy making something new almost nightly (more intensive sessions occur with wine and Frank Sinatra added). I keep my circle small as I believe in giving a lot of attention to the people I love. I love the outdoors, my mental health is managed mostly with cycling, yoga and phone calls to my bestfriend and brother. I laugh really loud at the funny parts...(don't take me to a funny movie if you're easily embarrassed in public)!! I am the successful mother to two incredible young teens. As they require increasing independence it has the added benefit of freeing me up more and more. I get glimpses of the light at the end of a pretty long, fascinating tunnel, and I'm looking forward to cultivating the relationship that is for my future.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am a spiritual lady who loves nature, the sun, exercise, walking and hiking, exploring new places, relationships that are real & authentic! Psychology/philosophy are intriguing to me, learning what makes each other tick, why we do the things we do, am always about self-improvement and growth. Truly believe in being a stand for myself and others fullest potential.An alternative music lover, I still love the 80's music from Depeche Mode to the Cure. have for 25 years (Wow, that makes me seem old), wide musical tastes in the alternative rock spectrum, Garbage, Evanescence, Staind, saw Linkin Park last year, going to see my FAVE band of all-time, Depeche Mode next week, can't wait!!Love to have fun & laugh, enjoy dancing, but I am all about natural, no drinking, smoking, drugs for me. Are there any men out there who enjoy the benefits of a clean and sober lifestyle? If you want to meet at a bar or club for a drink, I'm definitely not the gal for you.Health oriented is very important to me! I don't own a TV, but do spend probably way too much time online. Are there any fellow night-owls out there? Seems like most of the people I know are heading to bed by 9pm...I like to stay up until the wee hours, when possible, either online, reading or listening to music.Would love to connect with someone where we can learn who each other is, what we are all about. Want to connect with a man who appreciates my playful and fun side, flirtatiousness, being silly, someone who doesn't believe in being serious and mature all the time. Of course there are times and places for that, but isn't it better to be young at heart? I'm a member of a gym and am working on changing my body type on here from "average" to "athletic". But much prefer walking in the woods than the treadmill. Change is coming along slowly but progress being made ;) Meet first for coffee/tea; then walk or hike only IF we feel we might have something to explore!!

  • Jackie

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I'm a sweet, compassionate, independent, ambitious, down to earth girl looking for someone interested in hiking, hanging out at the beach, enjoying an early morning breakfast or an afternoon at an art museum, watching football, perhaps a quiet evening at home giving you a foot massage or an occasional night out on the town so I can wear high heels and stockings. Even though I seem like a bit of a Tom Boy I am still quite a Girly Girl. My goals in life are to live life and explore the beauty life has to offer while I can. I have learned from past experiences that life is truly too short. Tell your loved ones that you love them often and enjoy life's experiences (good or bad, you usually learn a lesson from them). Family and friends matter not material things. I'm a bit selective in the men I meet and I'm not a serial dater. I tend to be attracted to the clean cut all American looking type of man (sorry I'm not a fan of facial hair), someone I can laugh with and enjoys outdoor adventures whether at the beach, in the mountains, or walking around town. I would love to find an honest, intelligent, ambitious, affectionate man with a great sense of humor to settle down with. I would love to grow old with a man who is young at heart. BTW, I'm not into endless *** texting. If you are into endless texting I will lose interest in you rather quickly. Guess I'm a bit old fashion but I prefer to have a conversation that includes the sound of your voice ;) I also prefer to meet in person within a week or two to make sure you are not a catfish. A favorite quote by the Dalai Lama "It is very important to generate a good attitude, a good heart, as much as possible. From this, happiness in both the short term and the long term for both yourself and others will come." I prefer to meet someone for coffee, a walk on the beach, a hike somewhere local, or hitting a bucket of golf balls for the first date. Keep it simple and if there seems to be chemistry then we move onto something else. If there isn't any chemistry then at least I had the pleasure of meeting someone new. I'll wish them luck in their adventure of finding that special someone.

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