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Melissa, 41

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About Me

I am a girl who is confident, playful, passionate, warm, giving, outgoing, honest, sincere, and sophisticated and sometimes just downright silly. I am a NYC transplant so it still feels like I am on vacation when I look out of my window and see palm trees. I appreciate sharp wit and banter. I believe in living life to the fullest, being kind to others, giving back to society and being compassionate. I enjoy keeping active and love being outdoors.; I love the smell and sound of the ocean, and the way the sand feels between my toes. I love a great piece of steak au poivre with a nice cab one in awhile or more frequently enjoy fresh sushi and hot Saki- yum! I loved every minute of living in NYC. I like culture and seek it out in LA too.From there life took me Switzerland where I lived for 1.5 years. It was an amazing time and allowed for extensive travel. I got to visit the picturesque towns in Provence, ski in Chamonix, go the Monteux Music festival, take intensive French lessons, hone my cooking skills -salmon and hot molten chocolate cake are my specialties, become a chocolate connoisseur, and took on a new hobby – I taught myself how to paint with acrylics.Now my home is LA; I workout ***times a week and try to eat right (yes, of course I cheat every now and then and enjoy Ben and Jerry’s and pizza); I keep up with current events. I love my career and have great work life balance. I smile easily, love to read, love a good movie – especially a romantic comedy, and enjoy spending time with friends – especially having them over for dinners in my home. I am close with my family, my parents are still happily married, and I see them often even though they are out east. And as much as I love being active, sometimes I just like to cuddle up on my couch on a Friday night and watch a movie. WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR:If you are active and in shape, intelligent, sexy, have integrity, confidence, and family values I am interested! My "ideal" man is someone I can picture bantering and spending time with in 5, 10 or even 50 years – if this speaks to you - write to me. If you have yearning for travel, a willingness to try new great restaurants, and a sense of humor ---write quicker! I welcome someone with kids and who loves animals. The rest, I think, can be left to chemistry. I look forward to meeting you!My first date: One where we both don't want it to end and can't wait to see each other again!***WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.***

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tammie

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hello!Talking AbouT One Self Is Never The Easiest.. I'm Honest And Expect The Same. I Enjoy Spending Time With My Family. My Daughter Is My World! I Value A True Friend. I Am Loyal And Giving. I Value The Power Of The Little Things. I'm Looking For Someone who Is A True Friend. if I'm old enough to be your mom please don't bother I'm not interested.... At all!!

  • Odessa

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a 43yr old mother of two. I have a daughter 18 and a son 15. My kids are my life. I enjoy spending time with my kids, family and friends. God and my kids are the two most important things in my life. I believe that communication and honesty are two major keys to making a relationship work therefore I am looking for someone that feels the same. I am a very giving & a very compassionate person. Plain and simple, I believe in treating others as you would like to be treated. I love people. I love to be around people. I am a very out going person, very happy and love life. Life is way to short to not be happy. I love to be outdoors, cookouts, grilling with family and friends, camping, fishing, hiking, motorcycle rides, concerts, sports events ect. I like to hang out at a sports bar every now and then with friends and have a drink or two. I like all types of music however country, blues and southern rock are my favorite. I am looking for someone that has some of the same interest as myself so that we have a few things in common to share quality time with. I am looking for someone that has his head on straight and knows what he wants out of life. Someone who has goals, direction, and dedication but at the same time knows how to have fun. Someone that loves kids and family. Someone that likes to go out and have a good time with family and friends. Someone that likes the outdoors, cookouts, sports events, live music, the country, camping, hiking, fishing, ect.. Someone that I can watch a football game or a baseball game with. I am a big Cowboy's fan as well as a Rangers fan. Someone that likes to take a weekend road trip every now and then but at the same time someone that is just as comfortable at home kicked back on the couch watching a good movie.My life long partner would be my best friend. Someone that I could laugh with, cry with, share hopes, dreams and desires with. Someone that would stand beside me not in front of me or behind me. Someone that would be my rock, my foundation when I am down. My desire is to someday be all of this and more for my lover, my partner, my best friend.If any of this sounds like the man you are or like what you are looking for in a woman then contact me. We'll see where this trip takes us. For a first date. I would like to hang out with friends, either his or mine, doesn't really matter to me. As far as what we would do we could either cookout, go to a concert, maybe a sports event, maybe a few drinks, doesn't really matter to me what we do as long as the person I am with is out going and know how to have a good time. I don't want a stick in the mud that doesn't know how to carry on a conversation, laugh, cut up and have a good time.

  • Elvia

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    so this is the part where i write a boring bio and think people actually read it - haha! so if u do, bonus! ;)looking for friends first, that mayb more.... am very goal-oriented, and do not like letting life pass by!!! i consider myself active, as i would rather be playing than watching (even if i trip over myself)! in terms of things i like, i am into any idea, as long as it does not involve emergency rooms (and even then, i may b persuaded ;) mostly, just like to have fun, bc honestly, sitting lost in traffic w/ someone can b fun, if ur into each other ps - i am on the rightquik update: for those of u who honestly don't feel u are a good person inside and out, please pass me by...totally hate that i have to write this, but seems somewhat necessary...other than that, i hope everyone finds what their looking for! a first date should be chill.- whatever's on TV!! :) lol

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