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Melissa, 41

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About Me

I am a girl who is confident, playful, passionate, warm, giving, outgoing, honest, sincere, and sophisticated and sometimes just downright silly. I am a NYC transplant so it still feels like I am on vacation when I look out of my window and see palm trees. I appreciate sharp wit and banter. I believe in living life to the fullest, being kind to others, giving back to society and being compassionate. I enjoy keeping active and love being outdoors.; I love the smell and sound of the ocean, and the way the sand feels between my toes. I love a great piece of steak au poivre with a nice cab one in awhile or more frequently enjoy fresh sushi and hot Saki- yum! I loved every minute of living in NYC. I like culture and seek it out in LA too.From there life took me Switzerland where I lived for 1.5 years. It was an amazing time and allowed for extensive travel. I got to visit the picturesque towns in Provence, ski in Chamonix, go the Monteux Music festival, take intensive French lessons, hone my cooking skills -salmon and hot molten chocolate cake are my specialties, become a chocolate connoisseur, and took on a new hobby – I taught myself how to paint with acrylics.Now my home is LA; I workout ***times a week and try to eat right (yes, of course I cheat every now and then and enjoy Ben and Jerry’s and pizza); I keep up with current events. I love my career and have great work life balance. I smile easily, love to read, love a good movie – especially a romantic comedy, and enjoy spending time with friends – especially having them over for dinners in my home. I am close with my family, my parents are still happily married, and I see them often even though they are out east. And as much as I love being active, sometimes I just like to cuddle up on my couch on a Friday night and watch a movie. WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR:If you are active and in shape, intelligent, sexy, have integrity, confidence, and family values I am interested! My "ideal" man is someone I can picture bantering and spending time with in 5, 10 or even 50 years – if this speaks to you - write to me. If you have yearning for travel, a willingness to try new great restaurants, and a sense of humor ---write quicker! I welcome someone with kids and who loves animals. The rest, I think, can be left to chemistry. I look forward to meeting you!My first date: One where we both don't want it to end and can't wait to see each other again!***WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.***

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kathleen

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    When a door of the happiness is closed, another opens, but us, we continue to look at the closed door and we do not attach importance to that which we have just opened.The most beautiful future will always depend on the need for forgetting the past. You will not be able to go from the past in life as long as you will not have overcome the errors of the past and all that hurt you. ( From forwarded e-mail)I have to really think how to describe it all . There is absolutely no such thing as Mr. Right. It's more about Mr. ' u have to have something to keep me , the rest I will make right'Affection... Affection... Affection... Make me feel like a Woman and you will get 100X back. Affection and passion same as beauty in the eyes of beholder...' A woman who is conviced that she deserves to accept only the best chalenges herself to give the best. Then she is living phenomenally'Maya AngelouLove good food! Love to cook for someone who appreciates it ( not everyday though:) The Great Outdoors... Hm... not my thing... Mosquitos love me!I don't like them. Can enjoy it for few hours but not often.Guys... I don't understand why someone will be not comfortable wearing jeans or evening gown?.. Unless she is wearing gown to the football game and jeans to the Presidents Chrismass party. Oh... Could be wrong size also... lolIf someone is mentioning in profile that he opens the door for lady... that is great! Isn't that what you suppose to do???Wellrounded down to earth... hm... golf ball? ;) I don't settle for anything less than butterflies in my stomach... If you read my profile and decided to contact me, you saw my pictures already... I should have this option also. ( Don't you think?)I will not respond otherwise, sorry...Sexual maniacs no need to respond and keep your fantasies to yourself.Warning!!! Very allergic to bad manners.One more thing... (i add this because of recent experiences on here). PLEASE, don't get upset or take it personally if i don't respond to your e-mails. Physically, I can't (i receive too many at times)... some people have sent really mean messages because of this, there's no need.While it may be flattering--I am not into meeting young kids, so if you're under 40 please don't waste your time. I wish everyone good luck in your search.' Go ahead! It's Okay to look' lol

  • Ollie

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hello..I am vivacious, free spirited 45 year old woman looking for a charming man. I enjoy reading, gardening, hanging at the beach, and spending quality time with my family over family dinner and LOVE traveling. I am funny, kind hearted, love animals (especially my Beagle) and I admit I am a tad bit stubborn. I am looking for a man with a sense of humor, acceptance, honesty, and amazing eyes. A nice stroll along boathouse row and a nice dinner.

  • Ernestine

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I've been working in racing most of my life and on the road . Looking for someone to experience more things with and have fun enjoy time together. Must be honest.I luv spending time with my kids and family. I believe that family is most important and belief in GOD!! Luv singing with my band. I enjoy outdoors health and fitness .. love the lake and beaches.. luv to travel..Living life just want that special person to enjoy it with... Almost anything. Diner movies. Drinks. Luv the lake and outdoors. We would decide together...

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