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Melissa, 41

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About Me

I am a girl who is confident, playful, passionate, warm, giving, outgoing, honest, sincere, and sophisticated and sometimes just downright silly. I am a NYC transplant so it still feels like I am on vacation when I look out of my window and see palm trees. I appreciate sharp wit and banter. I believe in living life to the fullest, being kind to others, giving back to society and being compassionate. I enjoy keeping active and love being outdoors.; I love the smell and sound of the ocean, and the way the sand feels between my toes. I love a great piece of steak au poivre with a nice cab one in awhile or more frequently enjoy fresh sushi and hot Saki- yum! I loved every minute of living in NYC. I like culture and seek it out in LA too.From there life took me Switzerland where I lived for 1.5 years. It was an amazing time and allowed for extensive travel. I got to visit the picturesque towns in Provence, ski in Chamonix, go the Monteux Music festival, take intensive French lessons, hone my cooking skills -salmon and hot molten chocolate cake are my specialties, become a chocolate connoisseur, and took on a new hobby – I taught myself how to paint with acrylics.Now my home is LA; I workout ***times a week and try to eat right (yes, of course I cheat every now and then and enjoy Ben and Jerry’s and pizza); I keep up with current events. I love my career and have great work life balance. I smile easily, love to read, love a good movie – especially a romantic comedy, and enjoy spending time with friends – especially having them over for dinners in my home. I am close with my family, my parents are still happily married, and I see them often even though they are out east. And as much as I love being active, sometimes I just like to cuddle up on my couch on a Friday night and watch a movie. WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR:If you are active and in shape, intelligent, sexy, have integrity, confidence, and family values I am interested! My "ideal" man is someone I can picture bantering and spending time with in 5, 10 or even 50 years – if this speaks to you - write to me. If you have yearning for travel, a willingness to try new great restaurants, and a sense of humor ---write quicker! I welcome someone with kids and who loves animals. The rest, I think, can be left to chemistry. I look forward to meeting you!My first date: One where we both don't want it to end and can't wait to see each other again!***WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.***

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Cherie

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I enjoy life . From going out to with friends to a walk in by the lake. I can have fun anywhere. I like anything of music from country to rap.I love different kinds of foods.I love to read.I like watching movies. I like the outdoors . I want a Great Man , someone who can make me laugh.Someone who can being a smile to my facewhen he walks into the room . Someone to have adventures with . First date we will meet for coffee then we will go from their.

  • Christi

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    A passion for life, vitality, sensuality, compassion, commitment, a challenge, laughter, beauty, wisdom, happiness…warmth, sincerity, loyalty, communication, affection, honesty, spontaneity, diversity, generosity, understanding and acceptance… energy, curiosity, playfulness, romance, simplicity and complexity, adventure…I love to laugh and appreciate a sharp sense of humor. I am very driven and that is probably an understatement. I am also a risk taker and appreciate that quality in the man I am seeking. Please be confident in who you are as a person and the direction your life is going. We have all been around the block a time or two and I appreciate the experience you bring to the table. Looking for a man that will bring me coffee in bed and forgive me for all of the late nights I work. Connect somewhere trendy... The newest hot spot in town. Enjoy a glass of wine, great conversation and of course the company would be divine! Keeping it simple and open for the first meeting. A second date would be longer... Perhaps dinner out or attending an event where we could extend the conversation and time together.

  • Patrice

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am family oriented with a lot of energy to live life to it's fullest! I am looking for a partner who is funny, outgoing, warm and considerate. I am very social yet love to chill out and just "be". I have a great community of family and friends and would love someone to share it with. I learn a new sport every year and some are more successful than others :). I admit up front that I am a Canucks fan - Learning new things, discussions, and laughing a lot are all important to me. I enjoy playing and watching most sports, movies (scary ones too) and beaches. I enjoy my career and love the combination of teaching, research, and helping people recover from injury or illness. I am goal oriented but like it when spontaneity is thrown into the mix. Guilty pleasures are peanut M&Ms, MMA, and Sons of Anarchy. Just encase any of these are on your deal breaker list :) Meet up for a coffee, walk, or maybe bowling :)

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