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Elma, 42

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About Me

There is a story behind that oh-so-catchy headline. I have no expectation here, but am open to the possibility of a relationship.I came to DC to work with a lobbying firm and then in government affairs. I now work for a software firm, client-side--much more fun and I can transfer anywhere. I don't have any horror stories or drama, and avoid those that inspire either. Road-tripping and fishing. That I always have a football and a bit of (wrapped) firewood in my car. Light-heartedness. Excellence. And my Packers. "Nothing in all the world is more dangerous than sincere *** conscientious stupidity" I don't have a 'perfect match' conjured up in my mind. I know that honesty, wit, intelligence, loyalty, good-heartedness, attractiveness and athleticism matter. Not necessarily in that order. Much like yourself, no? I am Irish/Italian, from a military family, non-spoiled daddy's girl, very active--sailing, bouldering, fishing, hiking, sports-- but never in a gym, and love to eat and whatnot. That is a recipe for happiness, trust me. Unless you prefer a gym. And are allergic to fish. And eating. And whatnot. I am not looking to hook up, fine if that's your thing, but it isn't mine. I wouldn't call it a 'date' for sure. A drink of some sort, probably..be honest, neither of us wants to be stuck longer than that if there is no chemistry.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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