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Judith, 45

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About Me

45 yr. old professional w fair skin, dark blonde hair, blue/green eyes - Irish/Italian. I am health conscious and take care of myself through diet and exercise. I'm active and love being surrounded by nature, especially being by the water. I enjoy going to the gym, swimming, yoga and Pilates, and walking my dog in a few of our favorite spots. I have a B.A. in Business/Psychology and I have worked in healthcare for my most of my career. I love to learn new things and you will often find me reading and/or taking classes. I am a Reiki 2 Practitioner and have volunteered in the past as a Hospice volunteer and a Big Sister.I use my creativity to write and draw, as well as making jewelry. I am a kind, caring, honest and independent person. Emotionally strong and resilient overcoming challenges and change. I have a strong sense of self, I know who I am, what I have to offer, what I deserve and more importantly, what I'm looking for in another person, games not being one of them. ;)I enjoy children and I have two nieces who are 9 and 11, who are a big part of my life. I am a spiritual person and believe in the mind/body connection and the law of attraction. I strive to focus on being present in the moment and aware of what is happening now, without dwelling on the past or worrying about the future. I have a healthy sense of humor, quick wit and bit of a sarcastic side! I'm interested in dating and seeing where that leads. I prefer to meet other like-minded, educated professionals who enjoy living a healthy and active lifestyle and treat others with kindness and respect. If you think we could be a good match, message me! Something low key for a first meeting to see if there is a mutual attraction, it's either there..or it's Not ;) Take it from there and see what transpires..."The Right people always find each other at the Right Time" ~ The Universe

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Stacy

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    **** Original account was hacked..... Been here before and obviously have not found "the one" that ensures I don't return... Not to say I haven't met some great people, or had some great experience (yes, a few horrors as well...haha)... its all a means to an end, and each experience leaves you stronger or smarter, or just shaking your head! lolAfter seeing some profiles on here recently, I have to say something...lol) Also, if your face or head is cover in glasses or hats in every pic, I probably won't respond. It's like shopping for a car with only the tires showing...haha. ps...and No, it has nothing to do with the amount of hair you have! (I kinda like the shaved head!lol) its about seeing the whole picture.Here are some basics about me... I have a 21 yr old daughter that is my best friend. She amazes me daily :)....She has recently left the nest, so I'm finding I have way too much time to miss her! lol I play a lot of competitive slopitch...when my new schedule permits.... Speaking of schedules, my new job was an amazing change, but it comes with a not so amazing schedule .... Gone is the Mon- Fri work week.... But there are other perks!. I love to laugh, and don't get along with people that can't laugh, or have no sense of humour. Life is too short to be serious ALL the time. I have a job I enjoy and Friends I love getting together with. I'm picky when it comes to food and men... I definitely know what I don't want...Jealous/controlling/insecure/arrogant dishonest people would top that list.I chose " relationship" , because that is the goal, but honestly, I could really choose almost all categories, since most are all included in the road to a good relationship....but, they made me choose one.. damn. lolIf you want to know more, ask.If you are shy, add me to favorites, if I am honestly not attracted to you, or something in your profile has a deal breaker (Married men top that list!lol), I will remove you. No guessing on your part. ( If you are not local....I will remove you. I'm not looking for a chat friend, and if you are too far away, that's all you will be..sorry!) Ps..... If you add me to favorites, and I don't remove you...send a message...say Hi...lol.Please do the same for me....I know *** fill up fast here, so if I send you a message and you are not interested, delete and move on. I won't be hurt...There is someone for everyone, and not EVERYONE will be attractive to EVERYONE. Thank god! lolI'm not looking for perfect cause I am FAR from it myself...I'm looking for Chemistry, spark, something that makes me wanna see you again :)*~*~* smiles ~*~*~* Let's start with meeting first.....lolSaw this on someone's profile...Love it!**** “You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She’s not perfect - you aren’t either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don’t hurt her, don’t change her, don’t analyze and don’t expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she’s not there.” -Bob Marley

  • Cheryl

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Update:Want to find someone to watch Red Sox Hello,A lil about myself, I enjoy alot of music ( and singing tho badly), reading, love the Red Sox and Patriots, and FINALLY Bruins! ??enjoy going to the gym and laughter.I can laugh at myself and I seem to have a lot of opportunities to do so. Love romance, Love thunderstorms, a crisp Autumn day, the first snowfall of the season and I am like a kid at Christmas. Love decorating for holidays. Love the ocean. Love spending time with special people in my life. Love to cook and bake. I love to spoil a special person. Love my chihuahua. I have new goals, and have changed my appearance quite a bit and want someone to share my life with. People say I am very optimistic and have alot of patience.Honesty is very important to me. Love having fires in our backyard.Like fishing, salt or fresh water, just please bait the line for me. Lol. I have a couple of tattoos. I am not interested in any guy under 35. I am a great listener. I truly enjoy helping people. I dislike people who take advantage or use someone.I am not clingy or a drama queen. Trust is very important to me. Looking for someone who is settled and knows what he wants. My 87 year old mother is my role model. Taught me to be a strong woman and not to worry about the small silly dramas in life. I'm at the point in my life, where I'm comfortable with my past ~Please dont contact me if youre still hooked on your ex..youre only wasting everyones time :)~If you cant think of more than a "hello or "hi" as your whole message to me...well, that makes me think you arent quite the conversationalist and we prolly wouldnt be a match. :)Right now I'm mainly looking for a main friend , no clingy or you're mine kinna relationship. I'm sorry as you get to know me better you will understand more. Guess I'm more like looking for a hugger. What's a hugger? We hug watching games, watching movies , and were friends. Any ?s please just ask First date can be many different things.. a coffee...Anything where we both are comfortable, and can chat and get to know each other. Even if there isn't any chemistry, can always make a new friend.

  • Kay

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    HI!! Well Im very new to this kinda thing..its been a few yrs since i dated so here goes ok...8)My two boys holds my heart strings..they're 20yrs old and 18yrs old.I'm one proud moma!!!! I love to fish,i love horses.hope one day i will own one or two.i love to laugh joke around and have fun.i like country music and rock and roll.i love the band Guns and Roses,Led Zeplend.I just want to have plenty of goodtimes with that special man that will stay strong always no matter what comes a knocking to try and skrew up our happiness we share for eachother,and will stand right beside me through it all.Be strong together always!!!!!!!I believe that to really have a good trusting,and loving relationship that will be strong and stay strong it takes a lot of work everyday and never being lazy at it.Never go to bed angry at eachother.These days staying together is'nt important to anyone...People get divorced and dont even try!!!!!! I'm not like that I have a Big Loving Sweet Southern heart that stays faithful to myself and the man I'm with.I dont change.. I'm the same every day 7 days a week, ya know:] and I hate drama if you would happen to be that kind of man .......leave me a message.God bless:} I'm not a picky person when it comes to where it would be just so we can enjoy each others company and get to know one another.They don't have to spend all their hard earned money that everyone these days is trying to save because of the economy,on a ridiculously expensive dinner just to get to know me...not yet anyways.lol No,if he's a good guy with good intentions any place he picks will be wonderful to me.The thought counts to me thats all.

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