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Tamera, 44

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OMG... So chatted with this guy for a while, and finally agreed to go out. I said ok if you'd like to go to dinner and see a movie, would be nice and relaxing and sounded like a typical date. Well he responded with " he's not an ATM and before I presume he spend A LOT of money on me with dinner and a movie, he wanted to take me to a bar and shoot pool! But if I wanted to TAKE HIM to dinner that would be okay! I'm not looking for a sugar daddy, cuz those kind think they don't need a heart, just a wallet. But id love for someone to take me to a nice dinner, good conversation. And I love the movies too, am I expecting too much? So maybe I should be a little more informative here. I don't go out much, don't have fun toys, not many nice things. Live pretty simple, ,and I know fun things can be expensive i understand that. But if you are going to ask a woman out, can we do something nice at least , ,please? Im also not cool with, ,how about hanging out at his house renting a movie? ? Come on! Of course I would love to do that eventually, but not in the beginning, geesh!Ive been here before, obviously didn't work out, I'm learning a lot about men, and myself lately. But I'm looking for my best friend. Someone to do everything with, and sometimes do nothing together. I'm open, and honest. I don't hide my feelings either. I'm very passionate, devoted, and loving. And expect the same in my boyfriend. If you'd rather go out to bars without me, then I'm not for you. You'd have more fun with me! Please let's not waste each others time. If you aren't ready to settle down, or just interested in tight bodies, or rebuilding your life and can't afford to take a girl to dinner, then you're not ready for serious relationship right now. I have a lot to offer to my man, and would hope he does too.I have my son, and eventually would like to do things together. I love dinner and movies, but other times would like to do things I've never done. Yes a date, it's really the first impression. So asking me to meet you in a parking lot, won't get me too excited LOL But we can do whatever you want, but we're not having sex on the first date, just throwing that out there! :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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