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Vivian, 44

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About Me

I'm a single mother of two teenage sons. My oldest is a young adult and the other isn't far behind. I previously was a stay-at-home wife to a career soldier whom had retired and soon thereafter the marriage dissolved. I decided to "cautiously" feel out the dating scene, nothing too serious yet, however also am not looking for anything thats irresponsibly casual either. I'm looking to meet a decent, respectful, goodlooking and trim and or athletic to average build, hardworking (but doesn't work all the time) somewhat traditional type of guy whom enjoys conversing in a more literal fashion with a good sense of humor (I luv joking around) yet not too sarcastic or arrogent. I am 44 years old and may be interested in meeting a man between the ages of 36 and 46 years old, who enjoys the outdoors and indoors almost equally. I've lived sort of a sheltered life these days and would like to experience more adventure especially now that my kids are almost both grown. I can appreciate gardening, cookouts and campfires and am not afraid of motorcycles. Do not message me if you are younger or older than the age criteria I previously mentioned, and you must be clean and healthy and have a great smile! :)Otherwise it WILL just be a waste of your time to message me, and I will NOT respond back. I am not a tomboy nor am I a girly girl. I enjoy many good things life has to offer and meeting the right guy just may be the one whom can help bring out the best in me. I am very loving and affectionate person. When I believe in someone, I am very supportive and would hope for the same in return. I am somewhat of a caregiver type and I would prefer the same in the guy that I'm involved with. I believe that trusting takes time and respect should always be there. I just want to enjoy life, have some fun, relax and if by me meeting someone turns into more than dating, then I'm up for the challenge. All of my pictures are current and yours should be also. I would prefer to describe my first time meeting a guy as a "meet and greet" opportunity. Perhaps meet at the mall for a drink such as a coffee, a soda ect ect...We can walk and talk...see if their is a physical and intellectual attraction. ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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