Total users: 61,475,563 Online users: 221,187
Vivian, 44

Offline, last seen Fri, 20 Feb 2026 17:47:09

About Me

I'm a single mother of two teenage sons. My oldest is a young adult and the other isn't far behind. I previously was a stay-at-home wife to a career soldier whom had retired and soon thereafter the marriage dissolved. I decided to "cautiously" feel out the dating scene, nothing too serious yet, however also am not looking for anything thats irresponsibly casual either. I'm looking to meet a decent, respectful, goodlooking and trim and or athletic to average build, hardworking (but doesn't work all the time) somewhat traditional type of guy whom enjoys conversing in a more literal fashion with a good sense of humor (I luv joking around) yet not too sarcastic or arrogent. I am 44 years old and may be interested in meeting a man between the ages of 36 and 46 years old, who enjoys the outdoors and indoors almost equally. I've lived sort of a sheltered life these days and would like to experience more adventure especially now that my kids are almost both grown. I can appreciate gardening, cookouts and campfires and am not afraid of motorcycles. Do not message me if you are younger or older than the age criteria I previously mentioned, and you must be clean and healthy and have a great smile! :)Otherwise it WILL just be a waste of your time to message me, and I will NOT respond back. I am not a tomboy nor am I a girly girl. I enjoy many good things life has to offer and meeting the right guy just may be the one whom can help bring out the best in me. I am very loving and affectionate person. When I believe in someone, I am very supportive and would hope for the same in return. I am somewhat of a caregiver type and I would prefer the same in the guy that I'm involved with. I believe that trusting takes time and respect should always be there. I just want to enjoy life, have some fun, relax and if by me meeting someone turns into more than dating, then I'm up for the challenge. All of my pictures are current and yours should be also. I would prefer to describe my first time meeting a guy as a "meet and greet" opportunity. Perhaps meet at the mall for a drink such as a coffee, a soda ect ect...We can walk and talk...see if their is a physical and intellectual attraction. ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Patrica

    Offline

    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm looking for a special man to compliment my life who is athletic and takes care of himself because I pay myself the same respect. Being attractive is important as well and I don't mean to appear shallow but we all have our wish list. If you're not looking for the possibility of long term if you connect and have chemistry, then I'm not the one for you. I'm very laid back, down to earth and extremely honest.I have a love for music and listen to pretty much everything but favour 80's rock. I like to joke around and can have a bit of a sarcastic sense of humor at times so a sense of humor is very important. Life's too short not to laugh whenever we can. I'm looking for a man who isn't into playing games or seeing how many women he can "connect" with. Honesty, integrity, sense of adventure, accomplished, intelligence and acceptance are a few qualities that are important to me because they are qualities I possess. I don't need a man to fix things for me and I'm not a "princess". I keep my feminine side while still being able to hang with the guys. I can dress up and be classy and sexy but I prefer to be relaxed in jeans hanging at a pub or chilling at home still with that touch of sexiness and class.If you'd like to talk with me, please feel free to send me a message. I'll respond to those that I find are closest to the qualities I'm searching for. To the ones I don't respond to, please don't take it personally. We can decide that when the time comes but definitely something laid back and relaxed.

  • Beatriz

    Offline

    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I have long standing ambition to visit the Amazon. I like to travel and do quite a bit in my profession but would really like to travel more for pleasure. The Amazon may not be at the top of most people's list but it's been an ambition of mine since childhood - I'll get there one day, even though I hate creepy crawlies! I keep horses and would like to find someone who appreciates them as much as I do. With time, patience and hard work, it would be my dream to take them trail riding.My taste in music, books, movies and tv shows could be described as ecclectic. Musically I listen country, blues, R&B, contemporary Christian, classic rock and classical. As books go I've read from Dostoevsky,s 'The Idiot' to Fifty Shades of Grey! Thrillers and murder mysteries are my favorite though, authors such as John Grisham, Steven King and Agatha Christie.- so don't mess with me!! lol

  • Annabelle

    Offline

    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    im a single and I'm a honest caring person i like to fish and watch football I'm not here for games i love country music and i have a dog and a outside cat i like to go out and have fun but sometimes i just like to stay home and cuddle and watch tv

Follow Us: