Billholql, 75
Online
About Me
"We shall not cease from exploration, and the end of all our exploring will be to arrive where we started and know the place for the first time." -TS Eliot. I look forward to that. A widower, moving beyond grief to a future full of hope - tricky balance. Seeing brevity of life, can't squander a minute. Remaining days (I hope they are many) filled with passion, connection, romanticism, love. Travel often to see 4 grandkids in Northeast. Love to travel, cruise, try new things. Simple tastes. Outdoors, biking, hiking, long walks. Stay fit, healthy eating, daily exercise-critical in my life. Started yoga and Cross Fit in January ***, want to resume pickleball, ran 3 5k's this year. Plan to live and function like a person who is well more than 10 years younger than my actual age. just a number. A retired college music *** college president, I now facilitate college presidential searches and work with boards of trustees. I am an organist & vocalist for numerous denominations. In IFS & EMDR therapy, exploring Ancestral Lineage Repair & love The Power of Myth. I try to be authentic, transparent, honest, kind and vulnerable. Common interests and companionship are important, but I want much more: heart-bursting emotional connection and intimacy! I am a sensual person whose primary love languages are physical touch and quality time, I am very caring and a giver; looking for someone who will let me love them deeply and share hope, dreams & fun and laughter! I am seeking a kindred spirit who wants to be very close. I hope to find someone for whom a strong emotional and intimate relationship and connection is most important, that can also lead to a healthy physical relationship. I seek someone who is open to adventure and who has varied interests. I am looking for a person who can challenge me in many ways to stay very young (and I will do my part), and a partner for whom fitness, exercise, healthy eating and adventure can be an important part of her lifestyle. A person who wants real connection, passion & romanticism. Someone who is open, honest and seeking intimacy. Open to many ways of thought. There is not just one way. A person who is not just a soul mate, but also a team member, whether we're doing yard work or cleaning the house. Someone who is not afraid to show love in many ways, especially touch and affection. I relate so much to these words of Pope Francis: "“Rivers do not drink their own water; trees do not eat their own fruit; the sun does not shine on itself and flowers do not spread their fragrance for themselves. Living for others is a rule of nature." Finally, “Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere. They’re in each other all along.” -- Rumi. Come grow young with me; the best is yet to be!
PERSONAL INFORMATION
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Looking for
woman
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Relationship
Widowed
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Have kids
Yes, but they don't live with me
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Wants kids
No, but my partner can have them
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Ethnicity
Caucasian
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Faith
Spiritual but not religious
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Body type
Athletic
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Height
5'9"
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Smoke
No
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Drink
Yes, socially
INTERESTS
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