Billholql, 76
Offline, last seen Mon, 08 Jun 2026 10:16:02
About Me
"We shall not cease from exploration, and the end of all our exploring will be to arrive where we started and know the place for the first time." -TS Eliot. I look forward to that. A widower, moving beyond grief to a future full of hope - tricky balance. Seeing brevity of life, can't squander a minute. Remaining days (I hope they are many) filled with passion, connection, romanticism, love. Travel often to see 4 grandkids in Northeast. Love to travel, cruise, try new things. Simple tastes. Outdoors, biking, hiking, long walks. Stay fit, healthy eating, daily exercise-critical in my life. Started yoga and Cross Fit in January ***, want to resume pickleball, ran 3 5k's this year. Plan to live and function like a person who is well more than 10 years younger than my actual age. just a number. A retired college music *** college president, I now facilitate college presidential searches and work with boards of trustees. I am an organist & vocalist for numerous denominations. In IFS & EMDR therapy, exploring Ancestral Lineage Repair & love The Power of Myth. I try to be authentic, transparent, honest, kind and vulnerable. Common interests and companionship are important, but I want much more: heart-bursting emotional connection and intimacy! I am a sensual person whose primary love languages are physical touch and quality time, I am very caring and a giver; looking for someone who will let me love them deeply and share hope, dreams & fun and laughter! I am seeking a kindred spirit who wants to be very close. I hope to find someone for whom a strong emotional and intimate relationship and connection is most important, that can also lead to a healthy physical relationship. I seek someone who is open to adventure and who has varied interests. I am looking for a person who can challenge me in many ways to stay very young (and I will do my part), and a partner for whom fitness, exercise, healthy eating and adventure can be an important part of her lifestyle. A person who wants real connection, passion & romanticism. Someone who is open, honest and seeking intimacy. Open to many ways of thought. There is not just one way. A person who is not just a soul mate, but also a team member, whether we're doing yard work or cleaning the house. Someone who is not afraid to show love in many ways, especially touch and affection. I relate so much to these words of Pope Francis: "“Rivers do not drink their own water; trees do not eat their own fruit; the sun does not shine on itself and flowers do not spread their fragrance for themselves. Living for others is a rule of nature." Finally, “Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere. They’re in each other all along.” -- Rumi. Come grow young with me; the best is yet to be!
PERSONAL INFORMATION
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Looking for
woman
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Relationship
Widowed
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Have kids
Yes, but they don't live with me
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Wants kids
No, but my partner can have them
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Ethnicity
Caucasian
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Faith
Spiritual but not religious
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Body type
Athletic
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Height
5'9"
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Smoke
No
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Drink
Yes, socially
INTERESTS
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