Total users: 59,501,085 Online users: 214,331
Pastbazi, 59
United States, North Carolina, Willow Spring

Online

About Me

“When Don Quixote went out into the world, that world turned into a mystery before his eyes. That is the legacy of the first European novel to the entire subsequent history of the novel. The novel teaches us to comprehend the world as a question. There is wisdom and tolerance in that attitude.” ? Milan Kundera, The Book of Laughter and Forgetting What I am looking for? A mature, sweet ,intelligent woman that understands conviction and the differences between men and women would be a good candidate for conversation with me. You are who you are and you can only change some elements of your personality in very small ways. We can find the ability to learn and recreate our thinking on a few subjects when it involves someone we care for but we will always be tuned in to who we have become based upon our life decisions. To expect some metamorphosis because of someone new in our lives is a foolish endeavor that will always lead to dismal results. These are some of the lessons that life has brought to my attention. If you understand any of this and you have something to add , I'm all ears. What I think of Love? Love? It's all about knowing each other very ,very well and being comfortable with that knowledge. Its about having compassion and seeking first to understand and not to judge because when we hold up judgement first, mutual growth from any personal experience is extinguished. You cannot discourage a learner and we are always learning when we are in a healthy relationship. If we are quick to anger or frustration we sabotage communication channels and , in some cases, it's permanent as it leads to the death of a relationship. In most cases forgiveness and sincerity can heal most small transgressions. If you build your house right, you will not face the major betrayals that most relationships encounter at some point. Why is it so difficult to find someone? Our commercial world in the US has made us believe in our own fantasies to the point that most people who are single now will remain so because they have yet to learn the differences between the wishful dreamy world of cinderella and the incredibly vivid beauty of reality. We live and we die. That little dash between your birth date and your death date is the time you have to cherish your life. There is a sweet romance in experiencing every smile, a child's laughter,a tender kiss or a great conversation with equal appreciation. From camping in Yellowstone to SCUBA diving off the Jamaican coast, I have had amazing experiences and love being in places of beauty and peace. I'll sing karaoke or dress up as Santa Clause for the kids as I am game for anything. My son and I go to museums, motivate for weekend trips to the beach or to the mountains and we love a good campfire.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, they live with me

  • Wants kids

    No, but my partner can have them

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Camping / Hiking Fitness / Gym Photography Traveling Watching Movies
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Philip from Willow Spring | Man | 50 years old | Aquarius
    Philip

    Online

    Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 23-46

    Hi! My name is Philip. I am divorced other caucasian man with kids from Willow Spring, North Carolina, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

    Chat
  • Shawncameron2M from Willow Spring | Man | 44 years old | Pisces
    Shawncameron2M

    Online

    Man. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 26-42

    Hi! My name is Shawncameron2M. I am never married atheist caucasian man with kids from Willow Spring, North Carolina, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

    Chat
  • Elbridge from Willow Spring | Man | 28 years old | Aquarius
    Elbridge

    Offline

    Man. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 25-35

    I would say I'm relatively an average middle class blue collar guy. Enjoy the simple things. I'm 28 now.. I've worked extremely hard for everything I’ve got.. at this point of my life I feel the only thing missing is a good woman.. I enjoy my work, spending time with family and friends, riding my motorcycle in the summer. I do projects around the house - I love being creative and original - working with my hands is my passion and my livelihood.I keep myself busy with my day job as well as other work I pick up on the side. When I say I’m going to do something or be somewhere I will always follow through. I am a man of my word and think that's an important quality to have no matter who you are.I am goal oriented. I believe you reap what you sow. I think I’m a laid back guy but to be brutally honest not 100% worry free! I'm shy at first.. introverted.. quiet by nature but do enjoy a good conversation. I love to laugh!.. and think I’ve got a good sense of humour. I’ve worked since I was 14 – put myself through college for business and purchased my home at 22 years old.I'm not looking for a club girl.. down to earth is a must.. a girl that doesn't mind getting her hands dirty once in awhile.. I think a girl with a passion is sexy.. I believe having your own independence in a relationship to a degree is important.. but also feel it’s important to be able to rely on one another.. help each other through all life’s rough patches.. big or small. Please no tarts.. Any questions feel free :)

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: