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Lani, 47
United States, North Carolina, Clayton

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About Me

I'm divorced. Just moved to Clayton. Have 1 daughter that lives with me and always comes first. She amazes me every day. Can't have anymore kids, don't mind if my partner has kids. I enjoy real conversation (not just text lol), listening to music, dancing, reading, watching sports, playing pool, cooking, eating and spending time with family. I'm honest and straightforward, not looking for any drama or mind games. Hoping to meet someone where a friendship can turn into a long term relationship. I'm originally from Hawaii, so Lani is a nickname. I'm always down to try new things at least once. I mean you can't say you don't like something if you've never tried it, right? My daughter makes it pretty easy because a hike, camping trip, road trip, anything really can be made into an adventure. Children have great imaginations. At any given time, the TV in the house may be tuned on to: UFC, ESPN, Disney, Netflix, Nick Jr. We try to do church on Sundays when we can, I'm not perfect but my faith in God is strong. I'm passionate, loving, honest, loyal, caring and very protective of my daughter. To be honest the only reason I'm single is I'm very picky on who I choose to bring around my child. I know anything I do can affect her and I'm perfectly content with waiting and not rushing into anything. If your looking for a hookup or something casual, please don't message me. And if you really want to have children someday, I'm sorry but you might not want to message me either because I can't have anymore children and you should find a woman who can give you that. Hopefully no one takes this the wrong way, but I am very honest if you get the chance to know me...attraction is on many different levels (mental, emotional, physical). I personally am attracted to men that are either in the Caucasian and latino/Hispanic ethnicity. Other than that, I'm only 5'4, so most guys are taller than me. I prefer leggings or skinny jeans with boots but do have to dress up a little for work. Don't like to wear too much makeup, just a little but of color. I can be sarcastic, think I have a good sense of humor, sometimes a bit of a need. Love movies in general, but can binge on martial arts and Korean drama, then switch to marvel and comedy. Love music also, country to rock, r&b, 80s, rap, everything. One of my favorite quotes: Music washes the dust of everyday life from your soul. Okay, now I'm rambling lol. But, women do love to talk. Bwahahaha :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, they live with me

  • Wants kids

    No, but my partner can have them

  • Ethnicity

    Mixed

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Camping / Hiking Cooking Dance Fitness / Gym Internet Browsing Music Reading Traveling Watching Movies Watching TV Charity Outdoor Hobbies Play Sport Games Spirituality Watching Sports
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