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Marilyn
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Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-59
I'm updating my thoughts after being here a little while. It's given me a better perspective on how to describe the man I hope to find, or will find me. Most people are here for the reason I am - to find someone who works for them, who makes the heart beat faster, who feels something special when they see that person, with a hope that feelings will grow into something real. I've felt it before and I think it can happen again. I like to think I am someone a good man would choose. I relate best to people who, like me, are sincere, friendly, open hearted, non-judgmental, engaging, intelligent, enthusiastic, adventurous, passionate, kind, responsible, considerate - and a lot of fun - laughing and cutting up with the one I'm with is the best. I also like to be around my family and enjoy all kinds of things with close friends. I hope to find a one good man, a kindred spirit, who treats people well, considers how others feel, is positive and honestly wants a magnetic connection that is built on something real. When you can do anything together, share your deepest thoughts, and learn what makes the other happy, then it's bliss - and all worthwhile. I know that if I make a man's heart skip a beat and he can't help but smile when he hears my voice, that makes me happy. As does knowing we can't get enough of each other. What a great thing to look forward to at the end of the day.I like the atmosphere of a cozy restaurant or bar for a drink and conversation. Possibly dinner if we both feel like there's a reason to stay! I'd like to find someone who would enjoy live music and drinks, since the weather is great and I love the outdoors. A day beach trip with a really nice guy, getting to know him in such a peaceful environment....that's what I would love to do.
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Etta
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Woman. 57 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-67
Hi there...Hope you are having a great day. I am a very happy, secure, confident woman. I have put a lot into my life to achieve where I am. I am looking for someone who is also very secure and confident. I am looking for a relationship that is based on inter-dependence and not dependence. One that allows for space, but on the other hand after a long day of work I want to get in my car and feel as if I can't wait to get home to see my best friend and lover! Not just in the beginning, but after years of time together. Everyone always says that a good relationship requires soooo much work and effort! If it's such an effort and a struggle, you may just be with the wrong person! I think that when you find the right person the relationship is like a puzzle and just fits nicely together. Yes, you have to be creative and look for ways to maintain that kind of romance, but if it's the right person and you both have respect, love and admiration for one another, you will want to do things for each other that make the other person feel special. It's important to me that my mate take good care of himself - that he exercises and cares about the way he looks and feels, that he is stable and dependable. I work as a health educator in corporate health and wellness, still do some personal training and still teach at a local YMCA so I am very passionate about staying active and fit! I am also a triathlete and enjoy both the training and the competition. If you are a sedentary person, I can tell you that this will not work out. I am very high energy and although you don't have to be a triathlete I am looking for the same in my partner. I also want someone who loves to laugh and have fun! Life is way too serious and we all need to let go once and while and just enjoy! Love a cozy night on the couch with wine and a movie too....so I am balanced! lol!Btw, I would like to share one more thing. I currently have a house I would like to sell in East Stroudsburg, PA. However, the market has made this difficult to achieve. Hoping this spring there will be an opportunity. So I live in Rockaway during the week and go the PA on weekends. I just want to make sure that is not a problem if you have an interest! Since I am in Rockaway more days of the week, I choose to use that to identify my location.For a first date I think it would depend on how well I got to know the person through e-mails and phone calls prior to the date. It could just be getting together for coffee or going out for a nice dinner. After that I really enjoy dates that include some kind of activity...hiking and dinner or lunch, movie and dinner, biking, etc.
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Lillian
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Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-62
I am a happy mom.Well educated,grounded,athletic,social and fun. I would love to meet a man who is the same and affectionate,communicative,emotionally supportive and secure with himself. Sexy would be great too. LOL I enjoy a glass of wine while watching the sun set though that combination hasn't happened in quite some time.I like most music except rap and acid rock depending on my mood.I enjoy light landscaping around my house. Lounging by my pool and slowly reading a good book.I enjoy the beach,motorcycles,museums,movies,bicycling and am equally happy cuddling on the couch.I have cats and a ***year old 80 lb. black lab mix named Willis.A real love. A humane society rescue.I do some kind of exercise daily and have a healthy lifestyle of eating though I do love my sweets too. I'm a dental hygienist and love what I do and where I work. I'm fortunate to have worked for the past 12 years with a group of amazing women who are now dear dear friends. I'm a NYC transplant and I found my New Yawkers here. I have two great boys 15 and 10 years old and they're my first priority. I do not want to date date date. I do not want a revolving door of men in my life. Not the example I want to set for my boys....young men. I want a relationship with a man who is family oriented. How do you meet a man unless you date? Rhetorical..ugh :) I hope the future will bring health,happiness and an exciting new chapter in my life and yours. Hoping for butterflies in my stomach :) Happy fishing!Coffee or a light bite with a glass of wine and conversation.