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Bessie, 47
United States, Missouri, Blue Springs

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About Me

I like to duck hunt, camp, ride my horse, ski, and anything generally that is outside. I am a girl next door in jeans and a t shirt and if camping I'll have a ball cap on. I love photography and do it currently as a hobby. I love to shoot sporting clays, but in the fall would prefer to be found in a marsh with my dog next to me shooting ducks and geese. I live on a lake and I swear the ducks taunt me every morning as the sun is rising and they fly in, as well as the geese calling every evening. Such a beautiful experience to live on water. I always have dreamed of living on a farm, this is an interesting turn in my life. I have been blessed. When it warms up again I will be found on the water in my Kayak with my black lab. She too loves boating and the water. Found a great honey hole where the bass hang out, bought my license last year and have yet to get out and fish the buggers. Here soon I will just have to skate over to them and dig a hole in the ice. That should be great fun.I am looking for a partner in life that we can support each other in our dreams and enhance one another in our strengths and lift each other in our weaknesses. Someone that knows how to support, empower, apologize, love openly, and truly believes that personal growth is what we are put on this earth to do, not just stay stagnant and hover in that place. You can't build anything worthy of forever on that kind of start. It hinders you both getting to know one another as friends and truly seeing all parts of the person's dynamics before getting emotionally involved. My guess is most men would like to know she's psycho before getting physically and emotionally involved. Are you willing to take the time and put in the effort. It would be in your best interest, not mine, I know who I am and I know my strengths and weaknesses, and I know what kind of man I am looking for. I have a lot to offer a relationship to include love, kindness, tenderness, emotional and spiritual intimacy, fun and friendship. I am told I have a sense of humor, but you need to know me well before you will see it revealed, because it is an odd one and a playful one that requires a certain amount of intimacy. This is probably not your usual profile you read, I assure you I am not your usual woman. I have many interests beyond most, I push myself to grow unlike most both in daily life, like driving a horse trailer up north and camping with my horse, as well as hunting and fishing and enjoying the outdoors. I have a depth to me that you will not find in your average women. I am somewhat musically inclined, I write poetry, I see the world from a beautiful and amazing place in all aspects, especially from behind the lens of my camera, yet I can be found with mud all over my face from slugging through a swamp to enjoy God's beauty and hunt ducks with a bunch of guys and dogs. I will challenge you to become your best in a loving way. I pride myself on being a great mom that hunts and fishes with my boys and works hard to develop their character in all aspects, physically, morally, and spiritually. I *** and integrity in them. They think I'm a hard, strict mom, but I know to build character in young men you need to have solid goals and stick to them with love and kindness. I am looking for a gentleman that values the integrity of their children, and can speak highly of their ex, even though she is inherently their ex. I look forward to hearing from you. Something to be decided upon together. A place where conversation is possible.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Noreen from Blue Springs | Woman | 49 years old | Pisces
    Noreen

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I have a wonderful sense of humor. I am not easily offended. I am easy going. I have a great passion for life and all that it still has to offer. I am smart. I am well spoken. I use "I am" a lot in this section. I have a good, steady job, make my own money - so I am not after yours. Ok, I take that back. That always bites me in the ass. You can buy me things if you want. I have no problem with that. Love, love, love flowers, Casino nights and surprises. When I'm happy, you're happy. How's that for honest?I am an Army Brat. I am well traveled and extremely open minded. I have two big kids, 17 and 20. They both live with me currently. That means I have patience and my house is always stocked with food. I really enjoy a night by the pool drinking a few beers, listening to music and watching the sun come up just as much as going out to an expensive dinner. If there are Rib Eyes to grill along with those beers - I am going no where.I am easy going and extremely easy to please. A little goes a long way with me. (See paragraph 1). I have a big heart, am understanding, generous and do not demand much in return. This gets me taken advantage of. I'm learning that, now.I love to look up to my man. Me having respect for my man is a major attraction for me. No respect, no attraction. (If you can understand that). I prefer a man that already knows his path in life. A sense of humor is a must. Having your own place is definitely a turn on, the park tents just don't do it for me. Rented or owned, doesn't matter, just hold your own. There is nothing more sexy to me than spending the night at your house. Cooking dinner together, drinking a few drinks, (however many you want, baby), listening to some good music, and making love (I put that nicely here - oh wait! We're not on Christian Mingle!) all night long. Yeah, you won't sleep. Sacrifices must be made sometimes. Hopefully you're flexible like that. I don't care how much you work out, or hike, or bike. Just be big and huggable. I tend to draw more towards the rugged men than the model types. I think gray is sexy. Reallyyyyyyy sexy. I love a good conversationalist. He may catch me b.s. ing my way through it, but hey - it's good for a laugh! I prefer a man who has a professional career and is well established. I am not a gold digger, and don't mean to sound callous, however I am serious about building something together for the future. I get tired of towing the line all of the time.Please be available to spend time together. I understand work and other obligations - but please ..... make time. Intimacy and physical presence is very important to me. You can't have a good relationship if you don't allow yourself to be in it. Once a week is just a booty call.PLEASE TAKE NOTE: I am a self-admittingly chubby girl. I am not a skinny, sexy, little mini-skirt wearing, 21 year old, but I am sexy in my own way. I will make you re-spell PASSION if we have that mutual spark. Incase it is a pre-requisite for you to be with someone that is slender and fit, or aTrophy girl, I am curvy. Maybe not in all the right places. I am not overweight enough to be unattractive, I feel. I do work out and try to keep what I have in shape, but ultimately, I need someone that is going to realize who I am on the inside. Not for what I could be, or what he thinks I should be. Let's be real, I'm a 49 year old mom of two. I drive a Red Soccer Mom Mini-Van. I need someone that appreciates the value and good in me and loves me, just as I am.....today. I assure you, he will be one lucky, lucky man. ;-)I am looking for that one man who wants to make the 2nd half of life, the best half of life. There is so much more life to live. And at this point, we can do whatever the hell we want to do! Drive out to the middle of the desert and scream?Stay up all night drinking cold beer, listening to bad music and laughing till the sun comes up?Ok, damn. Meet at a quiet place where we can talk like two refined human beings. With an emergency exit door near the bathroom, just incase?

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  • Traci from Blue Springs | Woman | 49 years old | Gemini
    Traci

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am first and foremost the mother of two, and have a 22mo old grandson who is the light of my life. What you must know about me is that to have room in your life for me, you must also have room for them. We are a package deal, so if you are not prepared for that, then I am not the woman for you. I have a job that I love, and am pretty independant. I spend my spare time taking my 15yr old son fishing and to his football or baseball games. I enjoy most sports but especially enjoy football and baseball.! I like camping, fishing, long walks outdoors, but can just as easily put on a formal gown and go to the theatre for a show. Movies, dining out and traveling are some other things I enjoy. I am told that I am funny, and know that I am loyal, loving, thoughtful, passionate, kind, and romantic. If I sound like someone you would like to get to know, please message and let's open the lines of communication! But that only happens in the movies. So coming back down to earth for a moment, I would have to say the ideal first date would have to doing something that we agree upon, that will give us a chance to get better aquainted.

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  • Lana from Blue Springs | Woman | 50 years old | Aquarius
    Lana

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I would like to find someone looking to start a relationship. Start out as friends & see where it goes from there. I have a daughter, she is a big part of my life. But she's grown now & has her own life. Now its time for Momma. I love cooking out on the grill. Seafood boils, spending time with friends & family. I love to paint and sew. I am a seamstress for many carnival floats. I love to garden, enjoy sitting on my swing in the afternoon & just relax, sipping a glass of wine. Maybe sitting by a fire talking and getting to know someones likes & dislikes. I would love to meet someone who loves to ride motorcycles. Not a must though. I'm a pretty easy going girl. I am a tax preparer by profession. My goal is to own my own insurance business/tax business.I am a outdoorsy person, I enjoy outdoor walks, strolls through flea markets, festivals, love boat rides or just a ride in the country. I'm game for just about anything. Enjoy listening to music & depending on the mood what kind. I'm looking for someone that wants to build a relationship, not just a casual thing. I think what makes me unique is my ability to be open, honest and caring and don't believe in playing games. Would love to chat. My idea of a first date would be...Dinner in a quiet public setting where we can talk and get to know each other better. Maybe a ride on the back of your bike or a boat ride lol.

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