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Bessie, 47
United States, Missouri, Blue Springs

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About Me

I like to duck hunt, camp, ride my horse, ski, and anything generally that is outside. I am a girl next door in jeans and a t shirt and if camping I'll have a ball cap on. I love photography and do it currently as a hobby. I love to shoot sporting clays, but in the fall would prefer to be found in a marsh with my dog next to me shooting ducks and geese. I live on a lake and I swear the ducks taunt me every morning as the sun is rising and they fly in, as well as the geese calling every evening. Such a beautiful experience to live on water. I always have dreamed of living on a farm, this is an interesting turn in my life. I have been blessed. When it warms up again I will be found on the water in my Kayak with my black lab. She too loves boating and the water. Found a great honey hole where the bass hang out, bought my license last year and have yet to get out and fish the buggers. Here soon I will just have to skate over to them and dig a hole in the ice. That should be great fun.I am looking for a partner in life that we can support each other in our dreams and enhance one another in our strengths and lift each other in our weaknesses. Someone that knows how to support, empower, apologize, love openly, and truly believes that personal growth is what we are put on this earth to do, not just stay stagnant and hover in that place. You can't build anything worthy of forever on that kind of start. It hinders you both getting to know one another as friends and truly seeing all parts of the person's dynamics before getting emotionally involved. My guess is most men would like to know she's psycho before getting physically and emotionally involved. Are you willing to take the time and put in the effort. It would be in your best interest, not mine, I know who I am and I know my strengths and weaknesses, and I know what kind of man I am looking for. I have a lot to offer a relationship to include love, kindness, tenderness, emotional and spiritual intimacy, fun and friendship. I am told I have a sense of humor, but you need to know me well before you will see it revealed, because it is an odd one and a playful one that requires a certain amount of intimacy. This is probably not your usual profile you read, I assure you I am not your usual woman. I have many interests beyond most, I push myself to grow unlike most both in daily life, like driving a horse trailer up north and camping with my horse, as well as hunting and fishing and enjoying the outdoors. I have a depth to me that you will not find in your average women. I am somewhat musically inclined, I write poetry, I see the world from a beautiful and amazing place in all aspects, especially from behind the lens of my camera, yet I can be found with mud all over my face from slugging through a swamp to enjoy God's beauty and hunt ducks with a bunch of guys and dogs. I will challenge you to become your best in a loving way. I pride myself on being a great mom that hunts and fishes with my boys and works hard to develop their character in all aspects, physically, morally, and spiritually. I *** and integrity in them. They think I'm a hard, strict mom, but I know to build character in young men you need to have solid goals and stick to them with love and kindness. I am looking for a gentleman that values the integrity of their children, and can speak highly of their ex, even though she is inherently their ex. I look forward to hearing from you. Something to be decided upon together. A place where conversation is possible.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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