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Hallie, 47
United States, Missouri, Blue Springs

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IF YOU ARE IN YOUR 20's PLEASE DO NOT ***!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!UGH!!!!!I am 6+ years out of a 20 yr marriage and have finally come to the place where I am able to share the best me that I have ever been. Following a devastating break-up, it takes time to heal the wounds and be able to become "healthy" again in order to not drag any of that baggage into the next relationship.We ALL have baggage. It's about how much you carry with you and how much you have unpacked and walked away from! I think we tend to jump too soon and therefore you set yourself up for another let down. I have a quick wit and people tell me that I missed my calling. I am not sure that they actually think I am truly funny or just a lousy nurse??? :) I have three incredible children, whom I adore. They are 27, 25 and 19. I just became a grandma on Sept. 12th to a beautiful baby girl! I have a stable life and am ready to find that special someone to share my life with. I am very nurturing and care taking by nature. I continue to seek ways in which to become a better person all of the time. It's a journey and I want to always be growing as I go thru life. Now, I just need someone to share in that journey. Integrity and honesty are absolutely essential to me in all relationships. :) I love country music and have always wanted to learn to line dance...any teachers?" A healthy marriage requires falling in love over and over, with the same person!" :) As Reba McIntire states in one of her songs:"I may be the queen of broken hearts, but I don't hide behind the crown.When the deck is stacked against me...I just play a different game.......I guess I'll keep on living, with God's amazing grace....Who I am is who I wanna be....cuz I'm a Survivor!" :)Men...Pay Attention....We need to teach our daughters to distinguish between 1) a man who flatters her and a man who compliments her; 2) a man who spends money on her and a man who invests in her; 3) a man who views her as property and a man who views her properly; 4) a man who lusts after her and a man who loves her; 5) a man who believes he is God's gift to women and a man who remembers a woman was God's gift to man. I'm simple. Something casual like a cup of coffee.PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME IF YOU ARE UNDER 41. And please do not "chat" with me if you only wanna talk dirty. I am not that kind of person and it's disrespectful to me. Only gentlemen need "apply". :) I don't understand all of the twenty something men contacting me so often. I am very clear about the UNDER 41 thing! Ugh!I've been "Phising" on this site for several years now. What is up with this pond? :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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