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Rae, 49

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About Me

Now that my son is nearly grown, I have more time for me! Just "me" is getting kinda dull, so I'd love to make the me, a "WE!" =)So as not to scare away those that like correct grammar, I know that the "we" should have really been an "us"...but not as catchy...sorry ;)!I am a pretty unique gal that does not fit the mold of most women. If it is a girlie girl that you are looking for, then I am not the one for you. I love to sweat and don't mind getting dirty. Don't get me wrong, I do clean up nicely too! I am not one to talk much about pop culture, in fact, I am not really sure who the Kardasians are, or even care to know...Not much of a TV watcher either. I am not materialistic and live pretty simply. If your profile pic is of you standing in front of your expensive car...we are probably not a match. Also...I have noticed many of you guys are into your motorcycles! Honestly, they really scare the heck out of me...being an orthopaedic nurse...so if this is an important part of your lifestyle, I don't think I can share that with you.I am an independent, down to earth, positive, and basically happy person. I am looking for that man out there who will thrill me, challenge me , inspire me, and be my missing piece. I am in a wonderful place in life....it is truly good...and look forward to sharing my happiness and time with that special guy.I live a healthy lifestyle and and am very fit and active. I love anything outdoors! Swimming, hiking ,biking, kayaking, beaches, lakes, mountains...can you introduce me to more?I am an avid runner and love the challenge of races, the longer the better! I adore my running friends, but would love to have a new training partner ;)! There is something very special and intimate about working out alongside a partner.....I want that. I also enjoy Yoga and practice nearly every day. This world of flexibility, strength, grace, and spirituality is my new frontier. I would also love to share this love with a Yogi guy!I like to cook and am getting better and more creative now that my son is past the chicken nugget stage. There is nothing more satisfying than feeding someone and getting their genuine compliments! All healthy stuff...if you like a steady diet of grease, you will become bored with me and my choices.I love music and always try to keep a good song in my head. When the going gets tough, just start singing it! I especially like classic rock, jam bands, reggae, and the blues. Love live shows in smaller venues or at huge outdoor festivals. Bob Marley once said: "a good thing about music, when it hits you, you feel no pain"...ahhhh so true, at least for me :)On the spiritual side, I am a thoughtful, kind person that always seems to take the side of the underdog. I've been told I have a big heart. Born and raised a Catholic. It is my foundation, and has helped to shape who I am today...although I haven't been to church much lately, I am more spiritual than ever. I find that I no longer need rules and structure to help me be my best possible caring and compassionate and peaceful me....I try to live by the Golden Rule. When you think about it, isn't it the basis behind every world religion?I hope to find a like minded, passionate man who also does not fit the mold. Please, please be happy, optimistic, fit, active and soulful. Did I mention fit?? Respect for your mind, body and soul should be a priority. Are you kind? Crunchy, chewy and yummie are an added bonus also! Did I mention fit? Oh yes, I did...sorry to be redundant but this is a must. One that knows the correct use of an apostrophe and "their, there, they're" is a bonus too!Intimacy and affection are also very important to me. You too?Are you out there? I look forward to meeting you......together!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Karin

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am content, no, HAPPY, with my life. I am grateful for my many blessings. Would like to share that with someone, but it is not a requirement for my happiness. I believe in companionship. True friendship. Chemistry is critical... but friendship is the basis for something meaningful. Most people notice my positive outlook on life. It does not take much effort for me to find the silver lining in almost any situation. Not a Pollyanna by any means; I just don't dwell on what can't be changed, and choose to celebrate what can be changed. I can be quiet. Am quite fond of comfortable silence. I am an observer by nature, so sometimes I can be misread as.... aloof. I am at my best in smaller, intimate settings. But I am no shrinking- I LOVE to laugh. :D I am self aware, having learned from and been evolved by my life experiences. I don't believe in regret. Everything happens for a reason.^^^^^^^^OK That’s the basics of me. Just want to add a few things.What am I looking for?-male. I love a man for being just that. I appreciate a man for all the qualities I am not. I am not looking to find someone to change and fit into my ideal. I find life experience and personal growth make us who we are, or are not.I am a busy working mom with hobbies and interests, friends and family (some acquired along the way). I am not readily available, so I am not looking for a man who doesn’t fill his time with his own life, passions, friends and interests.The words “looking for my soulmate”…give me pause.The laws of attraction are complicated, so I do not take offense when a man does not consider me a match. I am open: if I do not see a connection, I move on.I am independent in that I can do it on my own (not always well, mind you) but I certainly welcome the idea of a partner in love and maybe, in life. Someone to walk with, so to speak. But one day at a time…I believe in living in the moment and not worrying, all that much, about the future. Let what happens, happen.But I am fairly basic as a “girl”. I appreciate a man for who he is, and of what he is made. One who knows what he wants, or at least thinks he does.I don’t chase. So if you are interested, you need to let me know. If I flirt with you, it is to get your attention.If you are waiting for me to follow, it won’t likely happen.I don’t play games. I may speak to a few men at a time, but I am not interested in dating a lot of men at once.I know…it’s a lot to say, but I don’t want to waste anyone’s time. If you are the right man, we may get to the part to where those pheromones kick in…and maybe, just maybe, I may be your girl.... Coffee (ok...I like tea) and conversation preferred for first meeting. Walk in the park. I like to listen. Really listen.... I like all activities. Especially golf, but go-karting, bowling, cross country skiiing...I am up to try anything (anything but extreme sports that is). :)

  • Kathy

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hi! Glad you stopped by! I'm going to keep this short. I've been divorced for 4 years. I have two teenagers who live me. I would love to find someone to date, and whom I enjoy their company. I like to do many things, yes I like riding motorcycles, haven't in a long time. I love the fall season. My goal in life is to have a comfortable life, enjoying the simple things. My taste in music is rock and classic rock, with some country thrown in. No rap,hip hop nor jazz. My pictures are very recent, oldest one is the bus pic. That was taken last fall. Not into bars, will have an occasional drink. I dont smoke but don't mind if you do. If you like what you read, send me a note.

  • Mia

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I love to laugh and want to enjoy life. Going with the flow and see what happens. Eventually I'd like something longterm, because games are for kids. I do have one great 15 year old son. Watching a Steeler game, or going to a racetrack, or attending a hockey game is a fun day out. But I do prefer laid back, mellow environments as opposed to the club scene. Blues clubs, bowling, shooting darts or pool, hanging out at the beach are my type of thing. Although, I am open to new experiences. It's good to have an open mind and try new things. Somewhere, mutually decided upon, that's rather intimate to be able to hold a conversation and get to know each other better.

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