Total users: 62,639,792 Online users: 225,378
Ava, 47

Offline, last seen Tue, 05 May 2026 05:46:50

About Me

You know the saying "Life is not measured by the breaths you take but by the moments that take your breath away" that's what I long for..someone that loves me so completely he takes my breath away each time I look into his eyes, A true gentleman, one that loves with his whole heart, completely and unconditionally...a man that gives all of himself to me and one I can give myself completely to...A long time ago I realized that God blessed me with the ability to be able to express myself in words... below is one of many of my inspirations.....These are my thoughts...they reflect my desires...I want to be a lost poem in a strangers coat pocket, that conveys the importance of you. To assure you of my desire, to assure you of dreams. I want all the possibilities of you in writing. I want to give your reflection. I want your eyes on me. I want to travel to the lightness with you and stay there. I want everything before you to follow us like a trail behind me. I want never to say goodbye to you, even on the street corner or the phone. I want......I want so much I'm breathless. I want to put my power into a poem to burn a hole in your pocket so i can sew it.I want my words to scream through you. I want the poem not to mean that much. And I want to contradict myself by accident, and for you to know what I mean. I want you to be distant and for me to feel you close. I want endless days when it’s day and nighttime never to end when its night. I want all the seasons in one day. I want the sun to set before us and come up in front of us. I want water to run up to our waists and to be drenched by the rain up to our ankles with holes in our shoes.I want to think your thoughts because they're mine. I want only what's urgent with you.I want to get in the way of the barriers and I want you to be a tough guy when your supposed to.And I want you to be tender.And I want us to have met for a reason and I want that reason to be important. And I want it to be bigger than us, I want it to take over us. I want to forget. I want to remember us. And when you say you love me, I don't want you to think of anyone or anything that has ever hurt you.And I want your smile always and your grimaces too. I want your scar on my lips and I want your disappointments in my heart. I want your strength in my soul, and I want my soul in your eyes. I want to believe everything you say, and I do. And I want you to tell me what's best, when I don’t know. And when your lost I want to find you. And when your weary, I want to give you steeples and cathedral thoughts and coliseum dreams.I want to drag you from the darkness and kneel with you exhausted with the blinding light blaring on us.Thanks for reading... Dinner and movie, some place quiet to talk, really all depends...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Patti

    Offline

    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I love making someone laugh, southern bell at heart, I'm fun, sweet, simple, caring, outgoing with a side of fun sarcastic humor! (The Irish in me!!) I'm an emergency dispatcher with police/fire, have a crazy schedule, long hours. I do enjoy the outdoors for just about "all the above" love to see it snow with the exception of being out in the bitter cold! I enjoy get together with friends for bowling, billiards, mini-golf or just meeting up at a game. I also like the quiet time on the patio with a great cup of coffee in the morning or a good drink in the evening. A good movie out (action, comedy sci-fi, some scary) or watching one at home, cuddled up with a blanket on the couch. I listen to Country and Rock music mostly, just depends on the mood. :) Not too much into TV, so not up into that TV drama stuff. I do want to get back to traveling/vacationing again (always best when someones with you...don't ya think?) love nature/scenery, warmer climates, beaches, the sounds of the ocean or just driving somewhere locally or new for a short weekend trip.I have 2-sons 25 and 20 not living with me. I love dogs (or animals period) and have a 10yr old, 4- Be confident not arrogant, caring, have humor, fun sarcastic with a soft side and a touch of bad who knows what he wants, is up front and not afraid to ask or say what he means and definitely do what he says.. I hate to post this but.... If you cannot post recent "NOW" pics (within a year, not ***yrs ago) and correct age.. please don't bother!! Maybe you get the same pic/age games from other women... I'M DEFINITELY NOT OTHER WOMEN!What you see in both pics, and age are correct, and by all means... what I say about me in my profile, is what I mean so... I ASK THE SAME IN RETURN from you!! I would think people want to eventually meet... lets not have any surprises!! LOL Meet for a few drinks or eat, game of pool to see if there is a connection for a second go, if not it was great to meet you anyway!! I'm always up for adventure and surprises! Heck if its nice outside.. live music, go for a ride or a walk on the town, mini golf, horse back riding, I want to be able to talk and laugh with ya, and personally wouldn't think a movie for the first meet, as its kinda hard to get to know someone in a need to be quiet setting.

  • Antonia

    Offline

    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am a mom, who cares very deeply for my children and loved ones. I am very passionate about my family and taking care of others. I enjoy many different things, I am just as comfortable in dining at a 5 star restaurant as I am in a "hole in the wall" where often times you find the best food. I enjoy talking with everyone, it's so important to simply smile and say hello, sometimes you make a strangers day better, simply showing kindness. I would very much like my partner to feel the same. To be confident within himself, to have compassion and caring for others, while showing his strength and security as a man. I believe, respect and appreciation are keys in a relationship, of course communication leads the way. And directly behind that, is chemistry! Chemistry is a VERY important component, the reality is it has to come first and the other shortly behind. You have to have that affection and intimacy to fully give of yourself to someone. So, all of that said, if you feel we might have a "spark" we should investigate! Please note, if you are interested in a "one time night of fun" ....you know what I mean, I am not your girl. However, if you would like to get to know me, I would love to hear from you!Take care and good luck with your search! ; )P.S.I do find myself having to add a bit of a side note, PLEASE be honest about your age and photos! It is perfectly fine if you are a smidge older. Correct me if I am wrong, but I do believe all gentleman would like me to be forthcoming with my age, of which I am. I mean seriously, I am a girl...of course I would like to put down "35", but alas I did not. I am pretty positive all of you gentleman would like current photos as well...therefore, my photos are in fact current! ; )

  • Karin

    Offline

    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am content, no, HAPPY, with my life. I am grateful for my many blessings. Would like to share that with someone, but it is not a requirement for my happiness. I believe in companionship. True friendship. Chemistry is critical... but friendship is the basis for something meaningful. Most people notice my positive outlook on life. It does not take much effort for me to find the silver lining in almost any situation. Not a Pollyanna by any means; I just don't dwell on what can't be changed, and choose to celebrate what can be changed. I can be quiet. Am quite fond of comfortable silence. I am an observer by nature, so sometimes I can be misread as.... aloof. I am at my best in smaller, intimate settings. But I am no shrinking- I LOVE to laugh. :D I am self aware, having learned from and been evolved by my life experiences. I don't believe in regret. Everything happens for a reason.^^^^^^^^OK That’s the basics of me. Just want to add a few things.What am I looking for?-male. I love a man for being just that. I appreciate a man for all the qualities I am not. I am not looking to find someone to change and fit into my ideal. I find life experience and personal growth make us who we are, or are not.I am a busy working mom with hobbies and interests, friends and family (some acquired along the way). I am not readily available, so I am not looking for a man who doesn’t fill his time with his own life, passions, friends and interests.The words “looking for my soulmate”…give me pause.The laws of attraction are complicated, so I do not take offense when a man does not consider me a match. I am open: if I do not see a connection, I move on.I am independent in that I can do it on my own (not always well, mind you) but I certainly welcome the idea of a partner in love and maybe, in life. Someone to walk with, so to speak. But one day at a time…I believe in living in the moment and not worrying, all that much, about the future. Let what happens, happen.But I am fairly basic as a “girl”. I appreciate a man for who he is, and of what he is made. One who knows what he wants, or at least thinks he does.I don’t chase. So if you are interested, you need to let me know. If I flirt with you, it is to get your attention.If you are waiting for me to follow, it won’t likely happen.I don’t play games. I may speak to a few men at a time, but I am not interested in dating a lot of men at once.I know…it’s a lot to say, but I don’t want to waste anyone’s time. If you are the right man, we may get to the part to where those pheromones kick in…and maybe, just maybe, I may be your girl.... Coffee (ok...I like tea) and conversation preferred for first meeting. Walk in the park. I like to listen. Really listen.... I like all activities. Especially golf, but go-karting, bowling, cross country skiiing...I am up to try anything (anything but extreme sports that is). :)

Follow Us: