SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Jeannie
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Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
Time to get some popcorn or M&Ms, and a bottle of wine! And, FYI: It'll get more than a "Hello, You're Cute" OR "How was your weekend?" to get my attention. And, I'm not into long distance relationships; nor interested if you have a significant gut on you. I"m looking for healthy and attractive, amongst all this. YOU: I'm hoping to find someone that is compassionate about the world around him....someone honest (okay, mostly...but, always when it's important), positive (or tries hard to be; I know, this is a tough life, eh?), sensitive (you know, has a heart, cares about the little things too), intelligent (used wisely and kindly), a good communicator (doesn't go into his man-cave every day; but, I will respect his need for down-time), healthy and fit (normal BMI: body mass index - So, what is yours? Mine is 19.9; If yours is over 25, we are not likely a match), respectful of others' opinions and beliefs, trusting, balanced, has no compulsive behaviors (such as gambling, alcoholism, lying, stealing, smoking anything including weed, or any other drug seeking activity, etc) ...Did I just lose the rest of you? Oh, and has no STDs, including cold sores. I know, STDs is a sore subject. I'm so sorry, But, it's just something I don't want, thank you. We don't talk about it; but, we should! This would include HPV (Warts), HIV/AIDS or HSV (Herpes). The incurables. The rest are mostly curable, so not too worried about the rest. Got all that? If not, there's Google...lol. He would be confident, but not arrogant; a hard worker, but not too much of a workaholic; loving, but not smothering; serious, but has a great sense of humor. Someone trustworthy (you know, does what he says he will do, have my back if I need). Someone that will exude a magical feeling when I hear his voice, or feel his touch, or just think about him. He will be outside the box on occasion, not an average man, nor an average build. He will be in incredible shape for his age, and magnificently adorable to me. His smile will make me melt. His eyes will penetrate to my soul. I want to feel one with him. His personality will sweep me off my feet, make me laugh, make me miss him when I'm gone. So, if you don't show some of your personality in your profile, it'll be hard for anyone to get excited about you....you'd blend in with the rest. He won't be deathly afraid of commitment; and commitment is something that he seeks with the right gal...but, yes, slow is good. He should not be afraid to fall in love or to say "I love you". He would not love his dogs more than me. Better if he has no dogs, lol. (I do love dogs...but, when they are competition, hmm.) Aaaaand, we would not live more than 1 hour away from each other. ** Intermission/potty break!ME: Overall, I am much of what I ask for in a man. I have no STDs, and am generally healthy and fit (can always improve, yes), with no psychiatric disorders (not bipolar, etc). I'm mostly bubbly, with a good sense of humor (usually people laughing at me), but serious about life in general. I'm a giver; but, hope to balance that out better. I am honest and loyal. I'm not a fighter; I'm a pleaser. Due to this, I've had short relationships in the past, being attracted to the wrong men...me being a codependent. But, I hope that I've passed that phase...though still working on it. I have lots of compassion, and integrity. I hope to explore more of who I am through my partner. I hope for more peace in this world, and in our relationships with others. I am pretty clean cut, but, at home, I'm willing to be your naughty girl. I have no kids or pets at home, or anywhere else. Activities: You can check out my starter list above; open to new ones...as long as my life is not in serious jeopardy. But, beneath all this, I'm simply wanting to share a life together, harmoniously, with good positive energy, and to be in love, and love life, having the trust, compassion, respect and loyalty between us. We have a short life left...Let's make the best of it.YOUR PROFILE: If your profile is lacking of who you really are, i.e. goals, your personality, recent quality pics of you smiling, then I'm not likely to respond. Pics of you, that you took, while in the bathroom? Ummmm...I think you can do better than that! And, then, if you just say "How's it going?" after a bare profile, "YIKES" is all I can say. If you respond to some of my profile, i.e. state how you are or are not a match, or say something of substance, then I know you are more serious, and thus more likely to evoke a response. Yep, I'm looking for a needle in a haystack...but, it's my life, right? Also, it would be nice if you could date your posted pics. And, for those that say it's hard to describe yourself, there is no one that knows you better than you, right? And, really, I'm much more lighthearted than this profile makes me sound. So, now that you likely drank 1.5 glasses of wine paired with your m&ms while reading my profile, I bid you Adieu, and Best Wishes. Something casual, calming, and gentle on the senses....something short and sweet.
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Elsa
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Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 46-56
I love to cleaning.play pool, dart, meet new friends, hang out, bar, biker ,watch movies, travel, and cooking.I am friendly.I don't hear music lol.I enjoy going out and like to dress sexy when i do. Looking to go out and see where it goesand if we get along and all that stuff. i do have tattoo om my shoulder back and ankle and low back ..;) im looking for good man n take me out and get more know abt each others.... tell me anything......lunch date, dinner date, hiking, watch movies. im deaf and uses america sign Language......
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Karin
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Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
I am content, no, HAPPY, with my life. I am grateful for my many blessings. Would like to share that with someone, but it is not a requirement for my happiness. I believe in companionship. True friendship. Chemistry is critical... but friendship is the basis for something meaningful. Most people notice my positive outlook on life. It does not take much effort for me to find the silver lining in almost any situation. Not a Pollyanna by any means; I just don't dwell on what can't be changed, and choose to celebrate what can be changed. I can be quiet. Am quite fond of comfortable silence. I am an observer by nature, so sometimes I can be misread as.... aloof. I am at my best in smaller, intimate settings. But I am no shrinking- I LOVE to laugh. :D I am self aware, having learned from and been evolved by my life experiences. I don't believe in regret. Everything happens for a reason.^^^^^^^^OK That’s the basics of me. Just want to add a few things.What am I looking for?-male. I love a man for being just that. I appreciate a man for all the qualities I am not. I am not looking to find someone to change and fit into my ideal. I find life experience and personal growth make us who we are, or are not.I am a busy working mom with hobbies and interests, friends and family (some acquired along the way). I am not readily available, so I am not looking for a man who doesn’t fill his time with his own life, passions, friends and interests.The words “looking for my soulmate”…give me pause.The laws of attraction are complicated, so I do not take offense when a man does not consider me a match. I am open: if I do not see a connection, I move on.I am independent in that I can do it on my own (not always well, mind you) but I certainly welcome the idea of a partner in love and maybe, in life. Someone to walk with, so to speak. But one day at a time…I believe in living in the moment and not worrying, all that much, about the future. Let what happens, happen.But I am fairly basic as a “girl”. I appreciate a man for who he is, and of what he is made. One who knows what he wants, or at least thinks he does.I don’t chase. So if you are interested, you need to let me know. If I flirt with you, it is to get your attention.If you are waiting for me to follow, it won’t likely happen.I don’t play games. I may speak to a few men at a time, but I am not interested in dating a lot of men at once.I know…it’s a lot to say, but I don’t want to waste anyone’s time. If you are the right man, we may get to the part to where those pheromones kick in…and maybe, just maybe, I may be your girl.... Coffee (ok...I like tea) and conversation preferred for first meeting. Walk in the park. I like to listen. Really listen.... I like all activities. Especially golf, but go-karting, bowling, cross country skiiing...I am up to try anything (anything but extreme sports that is). :)