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Mavis, 41
United States, Maryland, Aberdeen

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ove is worth the distance but you have to be willing to travel the extra mile and you have to love to travel.... Since my children are grown and all married, my flexibility to travel/move is wide open.Please note: I am currently separated from my husband. He is active duty military and we were stationed in Germany. After an 8 year marriage, the Army ERODED me back to the states after me and him agreed it was time to move forward with a divorce. We have been living apart since January BUT we remain FRIENDS and contact each other every once in awhile to check on each other and just say hello as he remains in Germany. And to answer the many questions I get, NO, we won't be working things out. This was a mutual decision and we both are happy where we are now in life.Starting a new chapter in my life and adding tons of adventures. I am far from being ready to just sit in a rocking chair and watching life pass me by. I love adventures. I also love at times to put in a movie, turn out the lights, lay on the couch with a blanket curled into each other. I love theme parks, roller coasters and any other ride that will make me laugh with fear. I love to camp, go for long rides on motorcycles and try new things (want to sky dive next). When I get older I want to look back and say "WOW, I can't believe I did that" *** saying "Gee, I wish I had done that"... You know, we always list the wonderful things about us. But if we were are all that and a bag of chips with no quirks why are we on here then? So, here is my bad/quirks from A to Z right off the batt:A. I don't always put the lid back on the toothpaste. B. I like the toilet seat down after a male uses it. It drives me nuts if it is left up. C. I am a very picky eater. If I don't like it, I am not going to eat it. D. I don't always feel like putting on makeup and getting all "dolled" up. Sometimes, I just like to go with my hair up in a ponytail and no makeup.. E. I hate to do laundry. Its the folding and putting away that I dread. So when I do the laundry, you may hear me singing "Just a Spoonful of Sugar Makes the Medicine Go Down". F. I have the tendency to say what comes up. I can be blunt but have tamed it down. G. I never learned how to whisper that great. H. I do not have the perfect "body". I have just recently started back to the gym and getting back in shape.I. I catch myself sometimes trying to control situations that don't need to be controlled. I have come a long way in working on that and continue to. J. I stay in consistent conflict as to whether the toilet paper on the spindle should go on top or under. K. BIG ONE: IF your first message to me contains your phone number and/or personal ***, I WILL NOT RESPOND BACK TO YOU... I mean, come on, who gives out their telephone to a complete and total stranger?L. ANOTHER ONE: You are on a dating website to find someone, so why do people put pictures of themselves with girls hanging all over them (for the men) and vice verses for the women? Seeing that doesn't make me think "OH I want to meet him" but *** opposite cause it makes me think "player"... But that is just me...M: I sometimes type too fast that when I go back to reread after I have sent something, I hang my head in shame as I realize that I left words out or misspelled words. Being in the profession I am, that is not acceptable so I have grown use to wanting to be grammatically correct. So don't be surprised if you see a message from me to correct my errors. LOL N. When I get upset, I get quiet. Don't expect me to say anything for moment. Take this time to gather your belongings and go hide for a little bit. LOL (Just kidding, or am I?) O. I have to make up my bed every morning or I feel like the bedroom is in disarray. But at the same time, I argue with myself on why I do it if I am just going to get right back in it later... P. I can be sarcastic at times and sometimes I feel bad about it and others I don't. Q. I take a lot of pictures of myself not because I am stuck on myself, but because I want options and to see how I look for the day. After all, pictures don't lie. R. I am a texter. Yep, I am much better texting than I am talking on the phone. Have been told I am a serial texter. ??? Sad, but true. S. I always watch ho

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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