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Shelia, 43

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About Me

Soooo here it goes...New on here but will see what happens... Above all , looking for honesty and a good heart... A great smile and nice eyes never hurts either .....lol ) for the past 3 yrs.Feel free to send a message and say hello if you would like to chat. I am very easy going, enjoy laughing and having fun. I am not on here to jump in and out of the sack as some seem to do. SO PLEASE - don't message me if that is what you want..I have been warned about serial daters and texters as I am new on here... not for me either . I like romance and am hoping to find that spark with someone. Looking to be swept off my feet ...lol if possible. :)I would like to find a real relationship with a funny, down to earth, caring person who doesn't take himself serious enough that he cant laugh at lifes little hiccups. I enjoy meeting great people who are looking to spend real time together and interested in having a relationship eventually. I think I have enough experience to know who I connect with and what I need and am looking for. I can usually tell within the first few conversations it seems ,if there is a mutual interest. Being able to laugh at the unimportant things is a must. Family comes first with me always and pride myself on being a good mom to my one child.I enjoy the outdoors, movies, dinners in or out (am a pretty good cook) and random acts of kindness. I am also a huge animal lover. Long drives to discover small towns is my idea of a great time. I have no expectations as haven't tried this before so will see how it all goes, but don't like overly aggressive men either. Should you have any questions. I am very open so feel free to ask away.I don't know how much or how little to put on here. I have nothing to hide (maybe I should...lol) Have fun and good luck everyone. Thanks for stopping byJ Something that leads to the second date hopefully..... lol

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jacquelyn

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    If I have to budget gas money to date you, you live too far. If you wear T-shirts with beer company logos on them, we're not a match. If you live in your parents house, we're not a match.If you're constantly between jobs, we're not a match.If you have kids and are not really that involved in their lives, we're not a match. If I can't tell where one tattoo ends and another starts, we're not a match. If your hair is long enough to tie back or you still wear it like you did in the 80s, we're not a match. If you cheated on your ex, we're not a match. If you shower less than once a day, we're not a match. If you can't tell what colour your counter top is anymore, we're not a match. Ever shopped online? Ebay, Kajiji, etc...? would you ever buy a product without a good, clear picture of it? Well, same concept here. You need a pic or no one's gonna "click to buy" you. ;-)I am physically fit. I wish I could say it's good genes. It's not. I carry the fat gene. Half my family is obese. The other half, like me, make a decision not to be fat every single day. We watch what we eat. We work out. We can't choose our genetics. But we can choose not to be fat. If you are making a different choice, we're not a match. The ring is not my wedding band. It's my mother's (RIP). It doesn't fit on the other hand. I never take it off. I suppose you could say I'm married to her love. I miss her every day. I wish I was less picky. Would be so much easier. But I can't be. I've tried. Never works. Yes, I am ridiculously picky when it comes to physical attraction. You must be very attractive. It's a fundamental thing that I've learned not to compromise on. Look, it sounds shallow. But it's not. I'm being realistic. We can label it whatever we want. We can position it in any number of ways. But in the end, the ultimate goal is the same. We are all on here trying to find someone we can like enough to have sex with. Some of us (me included) want it with one person forever more.-term. But ultimately, great sex is the goal. If the physical attraction isn't there, the sex won't be good. It's that simple. What you do for a living matters. You must be financially secure. This means having a secure income, owning your own home, having a retirement plan in place, education plans for your kids. And not being overwhelmed by debt you really can't carry. This isn't about me looking for a "suggar-daddy". It's about bringing the same to the table. We aren't in our 20s, or even in our 30s. If someone hasn't established themselves by their 40s, they're likely not ever going to.Good luck everyone! Let's figure that out if we actually get there!

  • Dollie

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a widowed mother of two college students. I have been a widow for 9 years so I am good there. I have an awesome sense of humor and bubbly personality. I am independent, honest, loyal, reliable, witty, ambitious. I am a go getter and I am a firm believer in the glass is half full philosphy. I love my job/career and I am in a great mood pretty much everyday. I am the woman who the phrase "the devil says oh crap she's up" was written for. I do a good amount of volunteer work and I basically would like to fin someone to share my journey with....best friend, confidant, lover, etc... I am a TRUE lover of music-it is in my soul. I don't like the filthy rap (except 2 Live Crew, I am a child of the 80's) or extreme heavy metal but anything else I'm usually listening to. I do love to cook and I am a good cook, so be careful I may make you fat or you may jsut fall in love. Ask me and see...after all I can't give away EVRYTHING on here.

  • Judy

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hello. I'm looking for a casual relationship.... someone who looking for a companion to go out with and hang out with but nothing too serious. I am usually busy during the week so I'm mainly available on the weekends. If this sounds like something you would be interested, we should meet.... I would like to get a drink for a first date or maybe a happy hour.

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