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Jerry, 41

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About Me

I am a smart, fun, sassy, professional woman who has her act together. Im lighthearted, love to laugh, have good conversations, experience new things and live with no regrets. I am really looking for something real and if you are also, I look forward to hearing from you. I am looking for those butterflies in my stomach that never go away past a first date. I am 41 which shocks some people as I have more energy probably than most people you know.. I have everything I want in life (career, kids, home, etc). I'm really in a good place and love my life. If I find someone amazing that would be great. But I am also ok with my life as it is. I am just looking for someone who is in the same place (meaning someone that doesn't crave to have a baby because they haven't yet, someone that has their career in progress rather than just now figuring it out, etc...).... See where I am going with this? I want someone who has all they want / need already except a partner...Because I am not going to settle, I may be single forever. That's ok. I won't be lonely when i'm 80 in the retirement home. I know I'll make friends easy as I get along with everyone and am a great card player. :)There is so much more to me than this little blurb. Trust me, carrying on a conversation wouldn't be a problem as I can always chat it up (maybe a fault? Haha). I just think that is half the fun getting to know someone rather than put it all down here ahead of time.And just to clarify, being serious with someone doesn't mean your life ends. It doesn't mean you can't or shouldn't go out with the guys or myself with the girls. It means our group of friends just doubled. It means we have a consistant friday or saturday night out and it may lead to more in the future. It means no more constant first dates. Doesnt it get old answering or asking the same questions over and over and over?P.S. If you haven't dated someone with kids, I'm probably not the right girl for you. Wave Runners? Walk around Johns Pass? A drink? I am up for ALMOST anything. Mmmmm. This is the most important meeting to see if there is chemistry or not. This meeting says a lot.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Caitlin

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Thanks for visiting and I will give you a little insight about me..........I love exploring new towns and cities. I like swimming, biking, and hiking trips etc...... I also enjoy a night out with friends for dinner and drinks, or staying home with a good movie.. Some of my interests include photography, art, wine tasting (white wine), water sports, playing craps ( Vegas baby) and board games etc.... I am a big fan of 80's/90's music, and also country. (ACDC, Def Leppard, Kiss, Keith Urban) etc..... I enjoy concerts, the beach and the theatre. I am looking for a guy to share in my many interests as well as life's adventures. I'm not one of those people who are looking for someone who possesses certain types of qualities on a "perfect checklist". I think you just know its right when you're with the right person. Finding that special someone to share a lifetime with and to start a family is key. I would also describe myself as intelligent, full of integrity, fun, energetic and loving. I enjoy spending my time with people who are ambitious, positive, fun-loving, and who loves to travel. I really enjoy traveling, especially to the Caribbean Islands and Europe. Sushi, Mexican, and Thai are some of my favorite foods. My favorite holiday is Halloween and I love scary movies. I enjoy tv shows like the Walking Dead and Vampire Daires. I really love and support animal rights, so liking pets is a must. :)Qualities that I admire: Honesty, Ambition, Loyalty, Succesful and Handy. Also someone who is in shape physically, mentally and spiritually..Compassionate and kind to others and has a strong family value.Well, I could go on but let's save some of the mystery for our date. On our first date I would enjoy a relaxing environment. Like a quite dinner followed by a lounge having a few drinks. Or if the weather permits then I would like to go on a picnic. Basically I really enjoy almost anything just as long as the company is good.

  • Ethel

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Me (the good stuff): I'm sweet, attractive, fun loving and have a great sense of humor. I've definitely been told I have two sides that compliment each other and I like to keep a healthy balance between them. Sometimes conservative and reserved and other times, a bit more adventurous. I can be very driven and ambitious when it comes to certain passions I have but laid back and relaxed when I need to slow things down. I like to live a healthy lifestyle during the week so I can cheat a little on the weekends ;) I love any type of food and enjoy trying out different restaurants on the weekends. Yes, I can go out during the week too :) As far as activities are concerned, I'm really up for anything...weekend trips, shows in the city, meeting friends for dinner, watching a game, going to a concert, talking about current events and politics and so on and so on. Oh, they said we should list our taste in music.+-Z. It's all over the place. The bad stuff (because it's only fair): I can procrastinate. No, I mean really procrastinate but you'll only see glimpes of that here and there and c'mon , doesn't everybody? I have to push myself to go to the gym each week but I'm pretty happy with the results, I stay up way too late, way too often and sometimes I take a really long time to tell a story. Also, if you're looking for the tall, leggy blonde type, I'm not for you. The cute, petite brunette on the other hand, then I may be your girl :)I would love to meet a man that is as curious about the world as I am. He has his own opinions and viewpoints but can see things from another persective as well. He would be described as intelligent and driven but values his downtime too. He enjoys anything from travel and the theater to going to a sporting event and seeing a band in a dive bar. He communicates well and is a good listener too. Fitness and healthy living are important to him but so is good glass of wine. He knows when a little sarcasm can spice things up and he knows when a softer side is needed and dare I say in some way, shape or form, I find him irresistibly sexy on the first date and the twenty first date... In a long term relationship, the right physical, emotional and sexual connection/chemistry are all very important to me... A great first date would be one in which we learned enough about each other that we solidly want to meet again and possibly again and again! A simple evening with dinner or drinks at a quiet initimate cafe would be a great environment to get to know one another better. If that certain "click" is present then things seem to just fall into place easily and naturally.

  • Annie

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I love dancing going out and having a couple drinks. I love watching football and basketball. After being in a dedicated and serious relationship, I do not know how to be single. Open to a new relationship.

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