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Shelley, 41

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About Me

That's right, it's a long profile.. Don't be lazy, fellas.Myself: Greek American, easygoing, family oriented, warm, generous, affectionate, smart, witty, serious but playful at times, analytical,stable, responsible and opinionated. I don't play games and don't have energy to be mysterious with you. Yes, I just turned 41 but most people can't believe it. I'm not judgemental of people, nor am I offended by a dirty joke. I'm really easy to talk to and people are very comfortable opening up to me. At first, I may be hard to read, or seemingly uninterested. I take in a lot of information and connect the dots later. I'm very intuitive and able to think logically and objectively on many things. I always seem to bounce back from disappointments. Nothing keeps me down. I'm extremely comfortable in my own skin and expect you to be in yours. I carry some hard-won lessons from life and have learned a great deal from them. While at times I may be very busy, I will make space in my life for a man who provides the right connection and shows a mutual interest. Let's just have fun and not complicate one another, shall we. Ha!Just looking for someone to spend some time with, start a friendship and hopefully it will lead into something more significant and exclusive. I hope to find someone for the long term through the process of dating but I'm not in a rush. We know these things are a bit more complicated when the chemistry, connection or timing is off. It doesn't happen overnight and I never force anything but the romantic in me keeps me going. Even though, I'm quite comfortable with my life the way it is, I still lack that special someone to share it all with and I would welcome the right person. There's so much in this world I'd like to explore with him. I'm very secure with myself and when I'm in the right relationship. I can be very supportive and encouraging while giving you space, without smothering you, allowing you to be independent. Ideally, I'm looking for someone that can provide the same in return. I don't believe in wasting months dating if there is no "true" connection on BOTH sides. I'm also a mother to a young boy from a previous marriage but I carry no luggage and I always make personal time for myself. He's a joy beyond words. No married men, tourists, workaholics, party animals, quick tempers or men with ADDD (Attention Deficit Dating Disorder). Please be within ***No quick sex fix. You can find your fix on Craigs List, not here. Stimulate my mind and heart first.***preferably.I reply selectively. Just very cautious and skeptical. Please have a photo and send more than a "hello" so I can feel you. Your profile and words should shine more than your pictures. I think that sums it up..... Funny, sensitive yet confident, down to earth, creative types win points. I prefer someone like myself, a single parent.Thank you and good luck in your search.-G- Usually, I like to exchange a couple of messages and maybe a phone conversation to start. We can both decide on the first date but it's the company that really matters and not the meeting place. A drink, coffee, a walk in the park or Dave and Busters? Don't laugh! I play a mean air hockey game. Ha!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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