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Jacquelyn, 43
United States, Louisiana, West Monroe

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About Me

If I have to budget gas money to date you, you live too far. If you wear T-shirts with beer company logos on them, we're not a match. If you live in your parents house, we're not a match.If you're constantly between jobs, we're not a match.If you have kids and are not really that involved in their lives, we're not a match. If I can't tell where one tattoo ends and another starts, we're not a match. If your hair is long enough to tie back or you still wear it like you did in the 80s, we're not a match. If you cheated on your ex, we're not a match. If you shower less than once a day, we're not a match. If you can't tell what colour your counter top is anymore, we're not a match. Ever shopped online? Ebay, Kajiji, etc...? would you ever buy a product without a good, clear picture of it? Well, same concept here. You need a pic or no one's gonna "click to buy" you. ;-)I am physically fit. I wish I could say it's good genes. It's not. I carry the fat gene. Half my family is obese. The other half, like me, make a decision not to be fat every single day. We watch what we eat. We work out. We can't choose our genetics. But we can choose not to be fat. If you are making a different choice, we're not a match. The ring is not my wedding band. It's my mother's (RIP). It doesn't fit on the other hand. I never take it off. I suppose you could say I'm married to her love. I miss her every day. I wish I was less picky. Would be so much easier. But I can't be. I've tried. Never works. Yes, I am ridiculously picky when it comes to physical attraction. You must be very attractive. It's a fundamental thing that I've learned not to compromise on. Look, it sounds shallow. But it's not. I'm being realistic. We can label it whatever we want. We can position it in any number of ways. But in the end, the ultimate goal is the same. We are all on here trying to find someone we can like enough to have sex with. Some of us (me included) want it with one person forever more.-term. But ultimately, great sex is the goal. If the physical attraction isn't there, the sex won't be good. It's that simple. What you do for a living matters. You must be financially secure. This means having a secure income, owning your own home, having a retirement plan in place, education plans for your kids. And not being overwhelmed by debt you really can't carry. This isn't about me looking for a "suggar-daddy". It's about bringing the same to the table. We aren't in our 20s, or even in our 30s. If someone hasn't established themselves by their 40s, they're likely not ever going to.Good luck everyone! Let's figure that out if we actually get there!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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