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Jacquelyn, 43
United States, Louisiana, West Monroe

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About Me

If I have to budget gas money to date you, you live too far. If you wear T-shirts with beer company logos on them, we're not a match. If you live in your parents house, we're not a match.If you're constantly between jobs, we're not a match.If you have kids and are not really that involved in their lives, we're not a match. If I can't tell where one tattoo ends and another starts, we're not a match. If your hair is long enough to tie back or you still wear it like you did in the 80s, we're not a match. If you cheated on your ex, we're not a match. If you shower less than once a day, we're not a match. If you can't tell what colour your counter top is anymore, we're not a match. Ever shopped online? Ebay, Kajiji, etc...? would you ever buy a product without a good, clear picture of it? Well, same concept here. You need a pic or no one's gonna "click to buy" you. ;-)I am physically fit. I wish I could say it's good genes. It's not. I carry the fat gene. Half my family is obese. The other half, like me, make a decision not to be fat every single day. We watch what we eat. We work out. We can't choose our genetics. But we can choose not to be fat. If you are making a different choice, we're not a match. The ring is not my wedding band. It's my mother's (RIP). It doesn't fit on the other hand. I never take it off. I suppose you could say I'm married to her love. I miss her every day. I wish I was less picky. Would be so much easier. But I can't be. I've tried. Never works. Yes, I am ridiculously picky when it comes to physical attraction. You must be very attractive. It's a fundamental thing that I've learned not to compromise on. Look, it sounds shallow. But it's not. I'm being realistic. We can label it whatever we want. We can position it in any number of ways. But in the end, the ultimate goal is the same. We are all on here trying to find someone we can like enough to have sex with. Some of us (me included) want it with one person forever more.-term. But ultimately, great sex is the goal. If the physical attraction isn't there, the sex won't be good. It's that simple. What you do for a living matters. You must be financially secure. This means having a secure income, owning your own home, having a retirement plan in place, education plans for your kids. And not being overwhelmed by debt you really can't carry. This isn't about me looking for a "suggar-daddy". It's about bringing the same to the table. We aren't in our 20s, or even in our 30s. If someone hasn't established themselves by their 40s, they're likely not ever going to.Good luck everyone! Let's figure that out if we actually get there!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Carrie from West Monroe | Woman | 41 years old | Pisces
    Carrie

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    If your looking for Barbie I'm not her. I am a average woman and I do have Curves. Unless your perfect, dont judge until you get to know me. Face it, were not getting any younger. I'm not 20 anymore. I am a 40 yr old beautiful, loving woman with 5 kids, 4 currently at home. I love wearing heals and reach about 6' so if me being taller bothers you then maybe you would need to be 6'. Sorry!! I also have to add that if you can handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best. I am very kind hearted. Will do anything for you. But that needs to be returned. I enjoy time with family as well as alone time with a special person. I am a smart ass who likes to kid and have fun. If you dont have thick skin maybe talking with me isnt the best thing to do!! lol I listen to all types of music. I love to dance and enjoy quiet walks and movies.. I love to laugh and watch comedy movies the most. I love to go camping and do family things and when the kids are asleep take night walks just you and I. Always find time for our relationship. Date night Fridays? I just want a great man to love my children like his own and if you have children more the merrier.. I welcome a mans children and will treat them like I treat my own. No cheaters or liars welcome, I'm serious about this part. Been recently lied to and lied to my kids. Dont make yourself out to be more than you are! I like real men! thats why I say No BS!! That is a big No, No!!. Also, If all you want is a bootie call, don't bother. I won't even talk to you until I've text a few times. I'm a very intimate person but only with my one and only.. Don't ask for personal body parts txt to you.I recently have been subjected to this type of disgusting behavior. I don't want to see your naked body either. Leave that for another time.. If the time presents itself. I'm not in a hurry for a sexual relationship. Don't even message me if my kids are a issue. They are the best part of me. With everything I've said you decide if I am a fit for you!! Also, if all you have to say is Hi or Hello, don't bother, shows me you have no imagination. I like a man with intelligence!!! Take Care A public place so we can talk. Maybe a dinner and some drinks after. We can decide when we talk about it. Look forward to meeting you.

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  • Leslie from West Monroe | Woman | 44 years old | Cancer
    Leslie

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Spiritual and fun loving. I enjoy gardening, reading, travel, music and so much more. I'm new to this whole dating thing and a bit apprehensive- but nothing ventured, nothing gained! I'm not into the bar scene because I'm not a drinker. I am seeking someone who knows pretty much what they want in life and not into playing games. So if you are interested in these things then lets meet and get to know one another slowly...

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  • Tammie from West Monroe | Woman | 41 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Seize the day! That's how I try to live life. I'm an energetic, inquisitive, clumsy chicklet who loves life. I don’t act my age unless it’s required. I like reading, I write a little, love learning new things and even some old things. I am adventurous at heart; getting braver at trying new things. I love laughter and stopping to smell the roses. I love the outdoors but enjoy cultural events just as much. I love music of any kind. I’…you get the picture. I’m working on completing my Bachelors and applying for grad school in about a year. I’m a mom of 2 grown guys and one about to get his permit. I love living life and appreciating what a gift each day is (both good and bad). What am I looking for? Someone who will be themselves, that can laugh more than worry, and that enjoys being with friends but equally can be alone and happy. They don't have to be brilliant but able to carry on a conversation. So yeah. That’s enough to scare you or dare you! PS Since we all value our time, if you want to ask for "sexy" pics...don't waste your time. I can find that in a bar. I'm not interested. Something with lots of conversations and something fun!

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