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Claudine, 44

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About Me

I'm constantly bewildered by the cruel joke of heterosexuality. Why am I drawn to and attracted to the opposite sex when it appears that everything about us is, indeed, opposite? It seems that men are more suited to living with men, and women with women. So why are we trying to fit a square peg into a round hole (please pardon the pun as I believe I've just answered my own question while philosophizing). I am sort of a walking contradiction in that I love people but am sort of a loner. I'm a little bit country, but I'm also a little bit rock 'n' roll. I love to go for a long hike in the woods with my dogs, but when I get home I might blast some Radiohead or Pink Floyd... or Johnny Cash. Then there's big band music! So much to choose from...I like social gatherings but I'm more likely to enjoy doing something productive. Most of my hobbies entail solitude. Things like painting, writing (screenplays mostly), hiking, biking, hanging out with my dogs. Very dedicated to my dysfunctional family, as well. I'm not a huge fan of television but do like public TV and a few cable shows like "Curb Your Enthusiasm." I could watch that show for hours. Also like Mad Men and a guilty pleasure is "The Bachelor". I can be too serious/cynical about life sometimes but when my mind is free from worrying about my family, my friends and the planet, I can be a hell of a lot of fun! I love to laugh but I also can appreciate a peaceful Sunday morning drinking coffee, listening to music and reading the paper. (One stripper said that a raisin was once originally a pickle--I'm sorry, it's cruel but it makes me feel better about myself!) I'm a pescatarian and would prefer someone that's not big on eating meat. Also would love someone who is outdoorsy and more of a homebody than an adventurer.I've been told I'm a gay man trapped in a woman's body. Maybe you should be a lesbian trapped in a man's body? First date should always be quick and painless, like ripping off a band-aid, just to see if there is chemistry. A quick dinner/drink or lunch is preferred. If we make it to the second date, I'd like to take a day trip to a city I've never been to before (provided I'm driving so you can't try to kidnap me, only to be seen again on milk cartons--Have you seen this girl?) and explore the local culture. Restaurants, shops, art museums, plays, etc. If the day goes well, the drive back home exchanging time on the iPods (which we'll bring on the first date, of course) should be titillating!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I can't believe i'm doing this, but here it goes. I am an outgoing, motivated, drama-free person that enjoys life. I am fortunate to love what I do for a living. I enjoy hearing live music, going on road trips, and to do my picking (for business that is). Just hanging out, relaxing with a movie is always great as well. I have 3 grown children with ***year old at home. Just looking for someone to hangout with and see what happens from there. Must have 2 eyes, a nose and shower daily... wait i'm not to that point yet, but just fun, easy going and honest will do. Meeting up for dinner would be great to get to know each other then figure it out from there.

  • Ethel

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Me (the good stuff): I'm sweet, attractive, fun loving and have a great sense of humor. I've definitely been told I have two sides that compliment each other and I like to keep a healthy balance between them. Sometimes conservative and reserved and other times, a bit more adventurous. I can be very driven and ambitious when it comes to certain passions I have but laid back and relaxed when I need to slow things down. I like to live a healthy lifestyle during the week so I can cheat a little on the weekends ;) I love any type of food and enjoy trying out different restaurants on the weekends. Yes, I can go out during the week too :) As far as activities are concerned, I'm really up for anything...weekend trips, shows in the city, meeting friends for dinner, watching a game, going to a concert, talking about current events and politics and so on and so on. Oh, they said we should list our taste in music.+-Z. It's all over the place. The bad stuff (because it's only fair): I can procrastinate. No, I mean really procrastinate but you'll only see glimpes of that here and there and c'mon , doesn't everybody? I have to push myself to go to the gym each week but I'm pretty happy with the results, I stay up way too late, way too often and sometimes I take a really long time to tell a story. Also, if you're looking for the tall, leggy blonde type, I'm not for you. The cute, petite brunette on the other hand, then I may be your girl :)I would love to meet a man that is as curious about the world as I am. He has his own opinions and viewpoints but can see things from another persective as well. He would be described as intelligent and driven but values his downtime too. He enjoys anything from travel and the theater to going to a sporting event and seeing a band in a dive bar. He communicates well and is a good listener too. Fitness and healthy living are important to him but so is good glass of wine. He knows when a little sarcasm can spice things up and he knows when a softer side is needed and dare I say in some way, shape or form, I find him irresistibly sexy on the first date and the twenty first date... In a long term relationship, the right physical, emotional and sexual connection/chemistry are all very important to me... A great first date would be one in which we learned enough about each other that we solidly want to meet again and possibly again and again! A simple evening with dinner or drinks at a quiet initimate cafe would be a great environment to get to know one another better. If that certain "click" is present then things seem to just fall into place easily and naturally.

  • Ramona

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am an independent, energetic woman. Looking for someone who is completely honest, not married, kind, humorous, caring, independent. I enjoy hiking, reading, working on my house and yard. I enjoy amusement parks, walks and I love to travel.

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