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Claudine, 44

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About Me

I'm constantly bewildered by the cruel joke of heterosexuality. Why am I drawn to and attracted to the opposite sex when it appears that everything about us is, indeed, opposite? It seems that men are more suited to living with men, and women with women. So why are we trying to fit a square peg into a round hole (please pardon the pun as I believe I've just answered my own question while philosophizing). I am sort of a walking contradiction in that I love people but am sort of a loner. I'm a little bit country, but I'm also a little bit rock 'n' roll. I love to go for a long hike in the woods with my dogs, but when I get home I might blast some Radiohead or Pink Floyd... or Johnny Cash. Then there's big band music! So much to choose from...I like social gatherings but I'm more likely to enjoy doing something productive. Most of my hobbies entail solitude. Things like painting, writing (screenplays mostly), hiking, biking, hanging out with my dogs. Very dedicated to my dysfunctional family, as well. I'm not a huge fan of television but do like public TV and a few cable shows like "Curb Your Enthusiasm." I could watch that show for hours. Also like Mad Men and a guilty pleasure is "The Bachelor". I can be too serious/cynical about life sometimes but when my mind is free from worrying about my family, my friends and the planet, I can be a hell of a lot of fun! I love to laugh but I also can appreciate a peaceful Sunday morning drinking coffee, listening to music and reading the paper. (One stripper said that a raisin was once originally a pickle--I'm sorry, it's cruel but it makes me feel better about myself!) I'm a pescatarian and would prefer someone that's not big on eating meat. Also would love someone who is outdoorsy and more of a homebody than an adventurer.I've been told I'm a gay man trapped in a woman's body. Maybe you should be a lesbian trapped in a man's body? First date should always be quick and painless, like ripping off a band-aid, just to see if there is chemistry. A quick dinner/drink or lunch is preferred. If we make it to the second date, I'd like to take a day trip to a city I've never been to before (provided I'm driving so you can't try to kidnap me, only to be seen again on milk cartons--Have you seen this girl?) and explore the local culture. Restaurants, shops, art museums, plays, etc. If the day goes well, the drive back home exchanging time on the iPods (which we'll bring on the first date, of course) should be titillating!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sofia

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I enjoy taking walks, driving my car, listening to music and drinking Tim's coffee. I work out twice a week. Currently reading "Omens" it's a fantastic read! I love to lounge out on the couch and relax watching movies. I like to shop and always enjoy some downtime with friends.I'm very free-spirited, I love to laugh.. love people who can make me laugh! I have a unique style. I'm a very spontaneous person; love going with the flow of things. I give my all in my relationships and have a strong bond with family and friends. I'm a very warm-hearted and caring person. I'm very spiritual, and love to have intellectual conversations. I have a lot of energy. I love to be entertained, and enjoy free spirited, funny and happy people.When it comes to music I like a little of everything.. Coffee, to get to know one another.

  • Kerry

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hi! I'm a single Mom of an amazing,rough and tumble 10 year old son. I work full time and run a household so it leaves very little time to meet new people. So, here I am on POF- shew who knew!!!!! Well I surely never thought I would be on a dating site at 40 but life has a way of throwing us off course sometimes and you have to adjust your plans. I'm still trying to get used to the idea of being single after so many years but most of all I'm trying to get used to being alone. I never thought about all the little things that mean so much when you are in a relationship like watching TV on the couch, or someone to talk to about our day when I'm in the shower. So I guess its time to get out there and see who's looking for me but I do have three things I must insist on in a man-READY!!!!! 1. please be employed 2. please be drug free 3. and you MUST MUST MUST have all your teeth......hope to hear from you if you can meet my 3 requirements!!! lol.... Ok..a first date is tricky. First off I always wear sneakers (you'll see why in a minute) on a first date. Lunch is my suggestion and you always want to do Mexican if possible. Why you ask, well here it is. Mexican restaurants will get you in and out in under an hour and lets face it if the lunch is going really badly I want out quick (and here is where the sneakers come into play!! lol). But on the other hand if the date is going really well a mexican restaurant will let you sit there for hours as long as you're eating chips and salsa!!! SEE makes sense right!!

  • Edwina

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    What to write,hmmm......age is just a number, with that said, it's about the maturity level! Being honest is the most important trait to me, I have zero tolerance for liars, BS, and drama! I'm not here to waste your time I expect the same in return. Life is too short to be unhappy, we all should live each day to its fullest! Im in no rush in life,I'm single by choice and am absolutely fine with staying that way, until someone special can change my mind! I find that most men on here are looking for booty calls, or a pen pal, and I'm not into either! It's always going to be new friends first and go from there! If your married PLEASE don't even waste words and time by ***, IM NOT INTERESTED! If your *** disrespectful or have nothing nice to say, DONT ***! It only gets you to the blocked list!I'm just an average gal, no better or worse then anyone else. I love to laugh and have a good time. Love to travel, watch sports, see live bands now and then, patios for drinks, and the movies, but staying home cuddling on the couch with someone is also nice!Anything else you would like to know, ask me! laterlaterlaterlaterlater

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