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Abigail, 41

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About Me

READ MY PROFILE BEFORE MESSAGING!!!First off, I'm 44. My birthday is October 15, making me a Libra. Still time to buy a gift. Lol! meetville will not let me change it. I live in St. Louis on the South Side. I work as a bartender and waitress.I like to go to films, out to eat, and concerts. I also like surfing the Web and reading.I love getting out in nature when time permits. Gardening, kayaking, biking, hiking, and just sitting in it.I enjoy spending quality time with friends, but I'd like to find someone special.Not to be negative, but I'd like to avoid certain situations. I know no one is perfect, but....If you are effed up emotionally, not interested. Get some therapy. Get over it. And then think about messaging me.If you are a douchebag, not interested. Not like there's any of those on meetville, though.If you are sexist, racist, homophobic, or otherwise bigoted, not interested. What is wrong with you?!?!If you no longer function properly, sexually speaking, not interested. A girl's got needs.If you have bratty kids who tell you what to do *** you telling them what to do, not interested. Don't get me wrong. I love kids. I just don't like spoiled ones.If you are a slob, not interested. I don't like spending time in filthy mancaves, so if you want me to come over, act like an adult and clean up after yourself. Finally, if you have no pix, not interested. I will immediately block you. I'm not talking to a head icon.On a more positive note, I am actually an upbeat, optimistic person. I love life and am looking for a straightforward, honest guy. A difficult endeavour, evidently, but, if you think it's you...No games!P.S. I cannot possibly respond to all the replies, though I appreciate your interest. I will respond, if interested. Please don't get offended if I don't. We all are attracted to who we are attracted to. P.P.S. If you are a Republican or Libertarian, we are not likely to get along. I have no time for that drivel and no interest in someone who subscribes to either of those political parties. All the cool girls are lefties!!! Yeah, I'm serious. No trolling! I'm not interested in a display of your stupidity, so don't waste your time. More importantly, don't waste my time. I'd like to go somewhere for dinner or perhaps a festival or something public. I'm pretty flexible in my tastes and am always open to trying new things. Maybe we can find something that appeals to both of us.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Essie

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a school teacher and mother of 3. Two are in college and my son is home with me. He is 16. My children and family are my number one priority. I have been divorced for 3 years and am ready to date again. I enjoy walking, running, and just about anything outside. I LOVE Country music! I love to dance and hear local bands play. I enjoy a nice glass of wine or an ice cold beer! I enjoy going out to dinner and movies. I am very social and outgoing. I also enjoy staying in though and curling up by a nice fire and watching a movie!****Please only contact me if you actually want to meet!! I don't want or need a text buddy!***And if you aren't using your own pictures, DO NOT contact me!!!****If I don't reply, I'm not interested. Sorry! I think a first date should be a lunch or dinner date, preferably somewhere outside where we can talk. Another option would be a walk on a nature trail. I think you should make time to talk and get to know each other.

  • Wendi

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I enjoy reading, bike riding, skating, hiking etc. My goals are to get a better job to give my kids a better life. I am an open person. What you see is what you get. I like to think I am down to earth and grounded. I am a good person and I pretty much get along with anyone that is also a good person. I love classic rock. That would have to be my favorite kind of music but I also enjoy some oldies, soft rock, 80s, some jazz, some modern music, etc.I see alot of guys on here love to work out. I have never been a fitness buff myself, but I did gain 50 lbs in my last relationship from all the stress and in the past 2 months, I have managed to loose half of that already. So I do know that with my new life and my new found happiness of just loving life, I am going to get rid of the last 25 lbs and I would love or accept a man that is fit or into fitness as this is something I can see myself diving into. I just do not know much about work outs but I am willing to learn.I am on here to date, find a friend, or just find someone to talk to. I will text but would love to talk on the phone. Not in such a hurry and I dont need to meet tomorrow but dont get me wrong. I am not an endless *** do like to *** if there is a connection and if so, we can talk on the phone but I do not just hand out my number to anybody.I enjoy being outside. At the park, walking the streets, camping, concerts, etc. You get my point. I like the beach but I like the country a little more. Friends are important to me and I love just having a picnic in the yard and lighting a fire when the sun goes down, watch the bats come out as we sip beers and have great conversations. Much rather do that than go to an amusement park. Not a big fan of the rides. ;)I am by nature, a very affectionate person so when I talk to you, I usually touch you through the conversation. But not at a first meeting, because you may think thats creepy. lol When I am dating someone, I am very touchy feely and I enjoy the same. Not saying we have to be all over each other, but It is how I express my feelings. I do have 2 children, 12 and 16. They are my first priority. I will not share my time with them until I know I am in a serious relationship and I will not introduce them to anybody unless I feel there is a future. They have a father that is very much in their lives and he has them 2 nights a week and every other weekend. I work Mon - Fri 9 to 5 so If you do not have kids or work night time hours, its probably not going to work. The last thing I have to say is I do not like pushy people. It is a turn off. Negative people are a turn off. Life is here for us to live. I try my best never to judge people for whom they are, how they live, what they look like, or anything else about them. Im not here for players, one night stands, or to help build your ego. Every day when I wake up, I tell myself I will put my best foot forward in all that I do today. Sometimes I fail, most times I succeed. Either way, being positive, happy, upbeat and just a love of life is all good to me, and very much a turn on! I look forward to meeting some very interesting, down to earth, fun people on here. Happy Fishing! I would like to go for a drink or coffee and get to know eachother a bit. Then, maybe go for a walk to continue the conversation. See where it goes.

  • Amie

    Online

    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am funny, smart, silly, and love to be with my kids, my family and friends. I love to play pool and go do just about anything that sounds fun that day :) especially with the right people. Just being somewhere we can both enjoy each others company :).

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