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Freida, 45

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About Me

there is so much BS here so I wont make this long, I am looking for my soul mate and a real relationship where we are best friends and equals . If you want to know more about me just ask! :)I found this quote online and it pretty much sums me up "I'm not hot or gorgeous. I don't have an amazing figure or a flat stomach. I'm far from being considered a model but, I'm me. I eat food, I have curves, I have more fat than I should, I have scars, I have a history. Some people love me, some like me, some hate me. I have done good, I have done bad. I love my PJ's and I go without makeup. I'm random and crazy. I don't pretend to be someone I'm not. I am who I am, you can love me or not. I won't change!! And if I love you, I do it with my heart!! I make no apologies for the way I am." I would like for the guy to come up with something for the first date based on some of our chats. it will show if he has been listening to me and show his creative side . dinner and a movie is fine too, but the more different you can be the better, a picnic in the park is great too! Or just a walk around the mall to see if there is a connection.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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