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Carissa, 45

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About Me

Let me clear this up in the beginning, as it seems it needs to be, based on my past experience with meetville. I am not interested in casual sex. Friendship is first, and for me it does not have to go beyond that. I am not content with a mediocre relationship for the long haul. I do not NEED to date, for the sake of having a date or to feel complete. I have come to realize that many men are intimidated by that. The deal is, I'm 45, not 25. My life experience has made me stronger and wiser. I am independent, in that I have been taking care of myself for a long time. I am goal oriented and work hard to achieve them and I want the same in a mate. I want a partner, not a grown man to raise :) I am interested in meeting others that I can relate to, that have had some real life experience as I have. In an ideal relationship (for me) its about building each other up. Oh and something else, a one or two word message typically gets no response from me. Please be capable of holding a semi intelligent discussion. Last summer I shaved my long curly locks to raise money for charity supporting children's cancer. (And by shaved, I mean BALD) I have been growing it back slowly, with a few trims here and there to shape up. I've enjoyed trying out different styles along the way. I may never grow it as long as it once was, but I'll see how it goes. Since my hair looks a little different every couple of weeks at this point, I do update photos often. If you are a man that cannot see beyond Barbie doll qualities, or have a mind set that "women should have long hair", I'm probably not a good match for you. :) However, I consider myself a very confident and capable woman, but it's nice to know you have someone there to share life with. :)As far as hobbies go, I love most anything to do with art, though I'm not much of an artist myself. I took pottery classes and really enjoyed it but I'm open to trying other things and look forward to it. I enjoy watching sports more than the average girl, especially hockey. I'm also a State fan, but have plenty of UNC fans in my life so that's not a deal breaker. I maintain a pretty healthy lifestyle (most days) and want to be with someone who does the same. I attend school part time, as well as work full time. Probably a public place such as coffee or something simple. I am not much of an Internet dater and not comfortable meeting someone at their home or mine.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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