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Carissa, 45
United States, Louisiana, Thibodaux

Offline, last seen Sun, 11 Jan 2026 01:47:15

About Me

Let me clear this up in the beginning, as it seems it needs to be, based on my past experience with meetville. I am not interested in casual sex. Friendship is first, and for me it does not have to go beyond that. I am not content with a mediocre relationship for the long haul. I do not NEED to date, for the sake of having a date or to feel complete. I have come to realize that many men are intimidated by that. The deal is, I'm 45, not 25. My life experience has made me stronger and wiser. I am independent, in that I have been taking care of myself for a long time. I am goal oriented and work hard to achieve them and I want the same in a mate. I want a partner, not a grown man to raise :) I am interested in meeting others that I can relate to, that have had some real life experience as I have. In an ideal relationship (for me) its about building each other up. Oh and something else, a one or two word message typically gets no response from me. Please be capable of holding a semi intelligent discussion. Last summer I shaved my long curly locks to raise money for charity supporting children's cancer. (And by shaved, I mean BALD) I have been growing it back slowly, with a few trims here and there to shape up. I've enjoyed trying out different styles along the way. I may never grow it as long as it once was, but I'll see how it goes. Since my hair looks a little different every couple of weeks at this point, I do update photos often. If you are a man that cannot see beyond Barbie doll qualities, or have a mind set that "women should have long hair", I'm probably not a good match for you. :) However, I consider myself a very confident and capable woman, but it's nice to know you have someone there to share life with. :)As far as hobbies go, I love most anything to do with art, though I'm not much of an artist myself. I took pottery classes and really enjoyed it but I'm open to trying other things and look forward to it. I enjoy watching sports more than the average girl, especially hockey. I'm also a State fan, but have plenty of UNC fans in my life so that's not a deal breaker. I maintain a pretty healthy lifestyle (most days) and want to be with someone who does the same. I attend school part time, as well as work full time. Probably a public place such as coffee or something simple. I am not much of an Internet dater and not comfortable meeting someone at their home or mine.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Reading Watching Movies Adventure Crime Music Sci-Fi Western
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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a school teacher and mother of 3. Two are in college and my son is home with me. He is 16. My children and family are my number one priority. I have been divorced for 3 years and am ready to date again. I enjoy walking, running, and just about anything outside. I LOVE Country music! I love to dance and hear local bands play. I enjoy a nice glass of wine or an ice cold beer! I enjoy going out to dinner and movies. I am very social and outgoing. I also enjoy staying in though and curling up by a nice fire and watching a movie!****Please only contact me if you actually want to meet!! I don't want or need a text buddy!***And if you aren't using your own pictures, DO NOT contact me!!!****If I don't reply, I'm not interested. Sorry! I think a first date should be a lunch or dinner date, preferably somewhere outside where we can talk. Another option would be a walk on a nature trail. I think you should make time to talk and get to know each other.

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Me: I am looking for "the one"! I have been divorced for 10 years and I have an eleven year old son. I have been told I am an acquired taste. You have to get to know me to appreciate me. I am loving, affectionate, loyal, passionate, silly, fun, independent, caring, and laid back. I am pretty adaptable to most situations. I am fine with going out or just staying home. Him: real, cool, fun, spontaneous, loving, emotionally available, intimate, great smile, attractive, financially stable (not saying u have to be loaded), ready for a relationship, a communicator and willing to work through the tough times cause they do happen. I want to be within 20 minutes of you. Also if the ink hasn't dryed on your divorce papers. Whatever!

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  • Abigail from Thibodaux | Woman | 41 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    READ MY PROFILE BEFORE MESSAGING!!!First off, I'm 44. My birthday is October 15, making me a Libra. Still time to buy a gift. Lol! meetville will not let me change it. I live in St. Louis on the South Side. I work as a bartender and waitress.I like to go to films, out to eat, and concerts. I also like surfing the Web and reading.I love getting out in nature when time permits. Gardening, kayaking, biking, hiking, and just sitting in it.I enjoy spending quality time with friends, but I'd like to find someone special.Not to be negative, but I'd like to avoid certain situations. I know no one is perfect, but....If you are effed up emotionally, not interested. Get some therapy. Get over it. And then think about messaging me.If you are a douchebag, not interested. Not like there's any of those on meetville, though.If you are sexist, racist, homophobic, or otherwise bigoted, not interested. What is wrong with you?!?!If you no longer function properly, sexually speaking, not interested. A girl's got needs.If you have bratty kids who tell you what to do *** you telling them what to do, not interested. Don't get me wrong. I love kids. I just don't like spoiled ones.If you are a slob, not interested. I don't like spending time in filthy mancaves, so if you want me to come over, act like an adult and clean up after yourself. Finally, if you have no pix, not interested. I will immediately block you. I'm not talking to a head icon.On a more positive note, I am actually an upbeat, optimistic person. I love life and am looking for a straightforward, honest guy. A difficult endeavour, evidently, but, if you think it's you...No games!P.S. I cannot possibly respond to all the replies, though I appreciate your interest. I will respond, if interested. Please don't get offended if I don't. We all are attracted to who we are attracted to. P.P.S. If you are a Republican or Libertarian, we are not likely to get along. I have no time for that drivel and no interest in someone who subscribes to either of those political parties. All the cool girls are lefties!!! Yeah, I'm serious. No trolling! I'm not interested in a display of your stupidity, so don't waste your time. More importantly, don't waste my time. I'd like to go somewhere for dinner or perhaps a festival or something public. I'm pretty flexible in my tastes and am always open to trying new things. Maybe we can find something that appeals to both of us.

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