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Aida, 41

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About Me

Single mother of 4 kids 3 of which are over 18. I enjoy cooking/baking/canning, watching movies, reading and spending time with my children. I grew up in the eighties therefore love that era of music but am pretty open to all kinds - country, hip/hop, classical etc... I am a very compassionate and generous person with a great sense of humor and enjoy helping those in need. I am currently working on my social work degree and hope to one day help the aging population. I enjoy laughing and giving those around me a reason to smile. I am a "cup is half full" type of person who does not dwell on the negative. Life is an adventure and nothing should be taken for granted. First dates are nerve racking enough and therefore should be kept simple...Lunch/Dinner in a relaxed atmosphere that is condusive to good conversation. If it goes well move on to drinks/dancing, movie, walk in the park or whatever is appealing to both of you.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tabatha

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hmm lets see....I am Country Girl...who Loves to be adventurous, who's Easy to get along with, Honest, Fun, outgoing...after I get past the shy stage....I can be serious but I love to let my hair down and be myself....cut up and just have a blast too!! I'm Looking for an Guy who is Honest to start with!! I am not into drama, and love blunt ppl who are straight forward, yet tactful...I want a best friend first and foremost!! Time to be a lil more blunt myself.....I don't want anyone who is uncertain of what they want, nor am I lookin' for causual dating....I know what I want and I want only to meet those who are lookin' for a serious connection....With that said u should know that ...I love evertything about living in the country...and am not willing to trade it for a city setting...I am a strong woman and require a strong man...spiriutally, menatally and physically......Wanna know more? Just ask..Tag ur it!!! ;)I am very curious and would love for you to message me your answers to these two questions:What are the first 5 things you try to find out about a female u meet online?Also, what are some of the questions you don't like to be asked? [\b] Somewhere quiet so we can talk and get to know more about each other....maybe dinner, lunch, or for a long walk.

  • Carissa

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Let me clear this up in the beginning, as it seems it needs to be, based on my past experience with meetville. I am not interested in casual sex. Friendship is first, and for me it does not have to go beyond that. I am not content with a mediocre relationship for the long haul. I do not NEED to date, for the sake of having a date or to feel complete. I have come to realize that many men are intimidated by that. The deal is, I'm 45, not 25. My life experience has made me stronger and wiser. I am independent, in that I have been taking care of myself for a long time. I am goal oriented and work hard to achieve them and I want the same in a mate. I want a partner, not a grown man to raise :) I am interested in meeting others that I can relate to, that have had some real life experience as I have. In an ideal relationship (for me) its about building each other up. Oh and something else, a one or two word message typically gets no response from me. Please be capable of holding a semi intelligent discussion. Last summer I shaved my long curly locks to raise money for charity supporting children's cancer. (And by shaved, I mean BALD) I have been growing it back slowly, with a few trims here and there to shape up. I've enjoyed trying out different styles along the way. I may never grow it as long as it once was, but I'll see how it goes. Since my hair looks a little different every couple of weeks at this point, I do update photos often. If you are a man that cannot see beyond Barbie doll qualities, or have a mind set that "women should have long hair", I'm probably not a good match for you. :) However, I consider myself a very confident and capable woman, but it's nice to know you have someone there to share life with. :)As far as hobbies go, I love most anything to do with art, though I'm not much of an artist myself. I took pottery classes and really enjoyed it but I'm open to trying other things and look forward to it. I enjoy watching sports more than the average girl, especially hockey. I'm also a State fan, but have plenty of UNC fans in my life so that's not a deal breaker. I maintain a pretty healthy lifestyle (most days) and want to be with someone who does the same. I attend school part time, as well as work full time. Probably a public place such as coffee or something simple. I am not much of an Internet dater and not comfortable meeting someone at their home or mine.

  • Kara

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am level headed, intelligent, funny (once you get to know me), and financially stable. I am looking for someone with the same qualities. I have been on a few other dating sites with no success, so I have no expectations. Who knows, maybe I will be surprised! I think a first date should be meeting for coffee (or in my case, tea or hot chocolate, don't drink coffee), or for a drink. Once the first date has taken place, and if there is a second, then out for a nice dinner and more great conversation.

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