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Lucinda, 41
United States, Louisiana, Sulphur

Offline, last seen Wed, 17 Dec 2025 01:55:51

About Me

am independent, funny and sarcasatic and generally pretty fun to be around. Not sure that I am ready or interested in jumping into a serious relationship, but looking for someone to spend some time with and get to know. (I think this may have scared some off, I wrote this a few months back, and not sure that I still feel the same way) Who I am, I play soccer three nights a week, enjoy going out and listening to live music, love my job and have made sure that I always have. If you do not like the place you have to spend 40 hours a week, you should probably be looking elsewhere. I am loyal and dedicated, to my employment and my relationships I have a great group of friends and family. I am competitive and like to watch and play pretty much all sports and generally can at hold my own, except I can't ice skate and I have never tried to ski. You will not find me at the gym, I like to play sports and be physically active but the gym is not my thing and I don't like to run (unless it is after a soccer ball or while being chased). I like and understand pretty much all sports and enjoying being a spectator as well. I am not a fanatic, but like live sporting events (Wave, Brewers, Badgers, Packers). What I am looking for hmmm. I don't have some lengthy checklist and I am pretty open but there are a couple things that would not make us very compatible. If you are super religious and would ever expect me to go to church with you (unless it is for someone's wedding or funeral) or ultra conservative, I would not be a good match. I am not against someone who hunts, fishes or snowmobiles, but if these are your main interests, you should probably skip over me. I don't have any biological kids, but I do have a 16 year old step daughter, who I will maintain a relationship with. I am not against dating some one with children, but really don't know that I want that maternal type role again. So it would probably be best if your children are older, out of the home or you have a good relationship with their mother and not looking for a replacement. I am pretty laid back. I understand I can't control, what I can't control, but I believe I am responsible for my life and looking to make sure that I am ok and my decisions are well planned out. I like my space neat and orderly but am not over the top. I love to travel and try to make it to the Caribbean twice a year, have done a couple crewed charters and love the BVI (not really in to all inclusives). I would love to travel more and am really interested in SE Asia or Australia as my next big trip.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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