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Tamika, 42

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About Me

Warning: If you want someone who is independent and strong and doesn't have be up your backside ***then shallowon.First...Yes That's Really Me....Second No I Don't Want To HookUp With You!Ok Here We Go:Sometimes I'm a home body and sometimes I'm up for just about anything...I travel a fair amount for my job which I love...I like being on the water...I do know how to cook. I love the cold winter months and the holiday season especially...not a big fan of snow though. Love the moon light and sunsets (yes that is corny but o well lol).. I consider myself educated and sometimes welcome a good debate...I will say when I'm wrong but will stand up for what is right...I adore my family ...I would help my friends anyway I can ...which by the way are a select few...I tend to be a bit on the blunt side at times....and there are those times that I hold back...I don't let many people in...but those that are, usually want to stay. I have achieved so much in my life by myself and I have become accustom to that, however, I am at a point where I want to share all of this but it doesn't mean being on a leash. In short I'm just me! OH BTW -- your wasting your time !!!! Just saying!!!One of my favorite sayings is..."If you can't handle me at my worse, you don't deserve me at my best"....I am a lady and expect to be treated as such...respect and honesty are two of the sexiest traits a man can possess.My dreams, ambitions, aspirations and hopes aren't much different than most peoples in that I want to be happy in a forever kind of way and share that happiness with someone as well...If there is any thing else you would like to know just Not quite sure ... we will have to see!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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