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Hey There!I was on meetville earlier in the year but got really frustrated at all the fake profiles and /or those contacting me making plans but then canceling them all the time. I deleted my profile completely and tried some other avenues. Just thought I would come back to the site once more to see if there are any new guys out there that maybe are SERIOUS about using the site for which it was intended--> actually meeting someone......First off about me:I am a divorced single mom of 2 children. One just finished her first year at college and my second is a rising 8th graders. I work entirely too much....some of it is out of need, but some of it is to fill my time since I don't have anything else to do to fill my time as my kids are at the age they just don't really need me around as much. I am a Registered NurseI am currently on hiatus from working on my RN -BSN online, but will start back in the FallI am a movie fanaticI love music, it is a big part of my life and sanity--> I only really like Hard Rock/Heavy Metal, a pop song only here and there, but NO COUNTRY OR RAP, NADA NONE AT ALL**** JUST BECAUSE I LOVE MY ROCK MUSIC DOES NOT MEAN I DON'T LIVE A GOD FEARING LIFE! JUST BECAUSE I LISTEN TO HARD MUSIC DOESN'T MEAN I LIVE THE LIFESTYLE!!! I DON'T DRINK, DO DRUGS, OR PARTY, I JUST LOVE THE DRUMS AND THE FAST BEATS OF THE HARDER MUSIC AND IT REALLY IS A STRESS RELIEF TO ME TO LISTEN TO IT. ALSO, THE LYRICS ARE LIKE POETRY SOMETIMES, AND THERE ARE SOME VERY TALENTED SONGWRITERS IN THE GENRE. SO BEFORE YOU PASS ME BY B/C I LOVE HEAVY MUSIC, JUST REMEMBER THAT IT DOESN'T INTERFERE W/ MY BELIEF IN GOD AND MY MORALS AND VALUES**********We go to concerts right often, wish it was more often than it is, but hey, we live in NC, and not all the good rock bands come throughI made my mistakes in my previous marriage. Yes it takes two and both of us made mistakes and I fully own my part in it. But, I have learned from my mistakes and during the past 4 years alone (by choice) I have also learned exactly what i am looking for and what I am willing to compromise on and not compromise on. I really am a traditionalist when it comes to relationships. I believe the man should be the one who is in control and the woman is to be by his side, supporting him. I just ask that my opinions be sought out, listened to, respected, and considered in the big scheme of things. I am educated and book smart, not so much street smart, lolWhat I am looking for:First off, don't tell me you that you are looking for a relationship as the "bait", and when we talk or actually meet, switch it up and all the sudden you are looking for a FWB situation, b/c that is not what i am looking for on this site.I seem to attract the young guys or the men who are my parent's age. Please do not contact me if you are more than ***years older than me (6 MAX), i am sorry, just have had bad luck w/ older guys, so it's just a preference, nothing personalA man w/ his priorities straightEducatedStrong (both emotionally and physically)Respects that I am smart and actually likes that quality Wants to spend time together, actually looks forward to it (not as a plan B)Preferably likes my kind of music (not a requirement, just a big plus) and would be willing to go to concerts w/ meSomeone who doesn't mind going to the movies, as well as pile up on the couch and snuggle while watching one(That's all that i can think of right now, but I am sure more will pop up and I will amend the list as I think of it) I would prefer the man choose, or ask me what I would like.......you really can't plan things like that until you have talked with someone for a while and get a feel for what they are like

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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