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Hope, 41

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Done!! I don't know what you guys think you are going to find here....but I am over it! This is why you can't find any quality women, if you treat them all like there is always something better just around the corner! Nobody's perfect but being honest makes up for a lot of other 'faults'...I cant do that. I guess unless you are paying them they will just match you up with anyone! Including men that are NOT interested in BBW! I will be changing that to 'thick' or 'few xtra lbs' in a few months since I am currently working off some lbs gained due to my RA, so if you cant handle it....cyaaaaaa!So I am new to the area and having a hard time meeting men with my interests. I am looking for friends, possible dates, possible relationship or serious long-term...it really just depends on what happens, if we click. I don't care to go out to eat, I think I am a better cook than most restaurants and I love to cook/bake from scratch. FELLAS- put a little more effort into your profiles!!! Everyone's looking for someone NICE and easy-going!!! I am unique in that I have severe RA(rheumatoid arthritis-a severe autoimmune arthritis where the body's immune system attacks the soft tissues, joints and organs and is VERY painful)...you really wouldn't know to look at me-part of the problem though-not enough awareness about this disease. It is usually treated with Chemo, I have gone the herbal route w/o pain pills and I am better off for it! Just ask if you want to know more. That being said I quit smoking....cigarettes. I don't mind if you smoke, I just prefer to be around people that only smoke outdoors or four twenty(I could give or take it BUT it really helps my pain. Plenty of legitimate studies to back this up-better than having a pain pill addiction, plenty of folks with severe RA do!). I love movies and music-horror(like SAW), comedy(Blazing Saddles, Waterboy, Grandma's Boy) action(Taken)-...I sing pretty well.I really am looking forward to making friends, maybe more...willing to travel a little(very little), meet at four twenty pm. We MUST have some similar music interests- I love most all music BUT I was a metal-head as a teen and still love my Metallica, Rob Zombie, Rage Against The Machine...but I also like just good old rock, alternative(Soundgarden!! I LOVE to sing and listen to some music if only to learn the words and be able to sing it. Would be great to meet, go walking in a park, check out some waterfalls and wildlife. I don't like to eat out, but maybe coffee or a picnic...I love to cook for others. I have had some hard times recently with my health, still kind of recovering from attacks. I look so much different than I did a just 2 yrs ago-it's slow but I am getting back to the 'normal' me( done it before, I'll do it again). Again this is why I rate myself BBW...I have always considered myself 'thick' and 'curvy' but after gaining 50 lbs (already lost 14 lbs thank you very much) I like to be VERY honest, not many men are willing to be there for the 'before', they all seem to want the 'after'!YOU need to come meet me the first time we ever meet ...at least be willing to meet half-way!! The main pic is the most recent-taken in May this year!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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