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MaritzaOnline
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
I am fun, cool, a bit feisty, but really easy going. I like to meet new people and do random things.I don't always like to just sit around and do nothing, but sometimes like movie/cuddle time or just sleeping in late. I have a variety of interests and am always open to new things if it seems fun. I would say I am pretty much an open book...but trust is definitely earned, so don't expect me to spill my life story over the internet. I am looking to find someone with hopefully some commonalities and see if we hit it off, maybe become friends or more. I would like to say I am not picky, but I really have discovered that I am a bit pickier than I would like to admit. Not saying I'm perfect, cuz I'm not, I just have a certain set of standards. I guess I just know whether there's a chance with a guy or not on my end fairly soon after meeting (chemistry is a huge thing for me) and am usually pretty blunt about it, I don't feel it's fair to waste people's time in that respect.I know that probably makes me sound like a b*tch, but life's too short to settle. I am happy being alone and hanging with my kids most nights, yet I do crave companionship some days, thus the reason I decided to do this online awkwardness. I enjoy the following in my spare time (not in any specific order): movies, music, fishing, hiking, walks, beaches, random road trips, casinos, hanging with my kids, hanging with friends, bonfires, camping, eating good food. I am open for pretty much anything. I think it's nice to meet up somewhere low-key, have a couple drinks and good conversation. I don't think a movie is a good first date, but food is okay (maybe lunch/dinner or coffee). A walk in a park, something like that. No pressure, just hang out and see if things click.I am looking for a guy that has his life together. He needs to have goals/aspirations, a job, pays his own bills and perhaps has his own place to live and maybe even a set of wheels to get there. I take care of myself and expect the same. Absolutely NOT looking for a casual fling/hookup.
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EllaOnline
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
I am truly and utterly bored with this site! Does anything or anyone ever come out of this? In want something spectacular - un-ordinary and fantastic. Is that too much to ask? Does anyone actually read this ??? High School students need not apply!! If I do not respond to your message - I do not need additional messages sent to me that are hateful because of my lack of response. SWF seeking SWM Please read profile - not looking for anyone under the age of 35!!!! So if you are 26 and send me a message askin if I like younger guys - here's your answer: NO!!!! We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.”I will find that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way.Let our scars fall in loveAnd this says it all:"It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.It doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive. It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon. I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain!I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it, or fix it. I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own, if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, to be realistic, to remember the limitations of being human. It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself; if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul; if you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy. I want to know if you can see beauty even when it's not pretty, every day,and if you can source your own life from its presence. I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand on the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, “Yes!”It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have. I want to know if you can get up, after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done to feed the children. It doesn't interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back. It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you, from the inside, when all else falls away. I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments." GO GRAB A BITE (APPETIZERS & DRINKS) FIND A GREAT LIL BAR WITH LIVE MUSIC... AND LET THE CHIPS FALL WHERE THEY MAY!
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ChrisOnline
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
I\'m a big music fan and very cerebral about my tastes in such. I run daily and fitness is important. football is my greatest passion. I\'m looking for a friendship that could eventually turn into something.